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Today’s topic: Cheating and the Church

Hi. I have been married for 20 years now. I cheated for the first five years straight and I’ve cheated in between. I’m a top dog in church. Should I step down from my responsibilities or should I keep up with my duties on the pulpit? I try not to cheat, but I’m weak when it comes to getting freaky-freaky. I love passion and freakiness. I can’t do that with my wife. She would wonder where it all came from. So what’s your take on this?

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