Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice.

Today’s topic: Affairs

Steve and crew,

I know that I should have left my straying husband a long time ago. He is a serial cheater and has no respect for his home or me, his wife. It amazes me that he thinks he can run around and misuse his money (providing nothing for the home — hasn’t paid the mortgage in almost 2 years) and come in and expect me to cook and wash his clothes. I dont want or need advice; I know what I have to do. I just want Steve to talk about how when a man cheats and cheats, know when to get out. I am faced with loosing my home at 62 years old. What a jerk and a looser at 65 years old.


Tired of His Cheating


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