Steve Harvey Morning Show's Daily Strawberry Letter

Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Don’t Know How to Tel My Fiance Good Morning Steve, Shirley and Tommy, I’m a 30-year-old woman in need of desperate help with a situation that I put myself in and now want to end it. It all started when was on Facebook and found and ex-boyfriend on there that I left to be with the man I’m with now and were engaged to be married in march 2011. My problem is that we have been talking back and forth a lot when my fiance leaves to go to work so i get on line to talk then when he asks me to call then i call his home where he lives with his girlfriend. I know that im being very disrespectful on both ends cause we joke well i joke about getting back together with him but he doesnt take none of this as a joke he is taking me very serious but i dont mean any of it. But i told him that im not leaving my fiance for him or anyone but his not taking that well at all cause he claim that he been waiting on the chance to get to talk to me again so he could get me back but im not going back so how do i tell my husband about this situation that ive put myself in! Please help MS.TORN.