Phaedra Parks has a change of heart this holiday season. Recently a TMZ reporter asked if the newly divorced mother of two would allow her boys to visit her ex husband, Apollo Nida, in jail during the holidays, to which she replied, “I would love to. I have sent him a Christmas card and everything. I speak to him all the time.”

This statement comes only two months after the RHOA star officially announced her split from Apollo who plead guilty to bank fraud. Additionally, Parks previously claimed “If taking them to a prison is going to traumatize them, I’m not going to do it.”

Looks like Phaedra is taking the high road this holiday. In fact, her rep, Steve Honig, told PEOPLE, “Phaedra retained an attorney with the intent of amicably ending her marriage.”