Intimacy Intervention columnist, and author of new book The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self Love, Abiola Abrams, explains her “always be flirting” philosophy for women. Watch as the ESSENCE Festival Empower U coach shares sexy secrets to living fierce and finding love on your own terms with Relationships Editor Charli Penn.

Are you planning to attend Abrams’ Empower U event? It’s all about the art of flirting, and trust us, you won’t want to miss it!