There’s a healthy way and a not-so-healthy way to get over a breakup. If you watched the season premiere of Being Mary Jane last night, you’ve already seen the not-so-healthy way. 

MJ was clearly struggling after a messy break up with David. She was lashing out at her friends and family and drinking herself sick. She even threw her fish bowl through her window. Why did the fish have to suffer?

It doesn’t have to be that way. There are ways to get over heartbreak that don’t leave you more broken than before. We know it’s not always easy, but how do you get over a painful breakup? Take our poll and tell us in the comments how you put your heart back together again.

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