A usually tight-lipped Beyonce is opening up about her marriage to Jay-Z. More specifically, she’s sharing details on how she keeps things fresh and steamy in the bedroom.

 According to Eurweb, in the upcoming issue of UK’s Cosmopolitan, Beyonce gives a little instruction on how to keep things hot and heavy. “You should put on good music and something that makes you feel great,” she said. “I love a pair of high, sexy stilettos with a beautiful dress, but you have to find out what works for you — whether it’s doing the whole smokey eye thing or a natural look. And never be predictable. Mix it up, surprise him, change your hair — be the woman he knows with a little bit of a twist.” OK Beyonce, we see how you do in the bedroom. It’s clearly Sash Fierce that’s shaking things up in the boudoir.

But the blond bombshell knows it’s not just about the sexy dress and heels, it’s about how you work it! “You can be beautiful but if you’re not secure in yourself, you don’t come across as sexy. You have to feel good about yourself to make others feel good about you. Don’t focus on the bits you don’t like. Look at yourself in a different way and work out what it is you do like,” she said.

This is fantastic advice Bey. Ladies, take note and be sure to put these tips to good use the next time you and your man feel a little saucy. We’ll be interested to hear other romantic details from her marriage as time goes on.