Here’s a line you don’t hear every day:

“I’m straight but very good at finding and picking up guys.”

That’s what I told a friend after a recent weekend where I traveled to a city I had never visited before and found, interviewed, and included 48 new single guys in my database.  

Where did I find them, you’re wondering? Everywhere. I visited 3 churches, 3 clubs, 2 brunch locations, 2 college campuses (libraries), 2 town centers, a basketball court, car wash, and strolled a town center. The men I identified were mostly African American, ranged in age between 23-42, and are all single (yes, we ran background checks to confirm).

I know what you’re dying to know. Exactly what did I learn from my “single brotha search-find-and-interview tornado weekend?” Lots. Here are ten things on the minds of single men right now.