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Home • Weddings

Bridal Bliss: Tanya and Frederick

Bridal Bliss: Tanya and Frederick
By Essence · Updated October 29, 2020
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Long Time Comin’

Meet Tanya and Frederick Vialet, study buddies who are passing the tests of love with flying colors. They got married on September 6, 2009 and became permanent partners in the course of life.

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Seasons of Love

The beautiful autumn color burnt orange is one of Tanya’s favorites and was incorporated into the wedding scheme, including the bridal bouquet.

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Mother Dearest

Tanya’s mother makes sure all the details on the dress are perfect before her baby girl heads down the aisle.

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Beautiful Bargain

Tanya bought her dress during a sample sale and saved. She purchase the gorgeous gown—which normally sells for around $3000—for $900.

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Caribbean Flame

Frederick is from St. Thomas, and his bride is from Jamaica. The couple’s Caribbean rivalry is super cute.

Tanya admits she loved Frederick’s accent when they started dating.

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Snap Shot

After zipping up the gown, perfectly positioning the veil and frosting her neck and wrist with wedding jewels, the bride makes some time for a photo-op before the main event.

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Ladies’ Choice

Not one to make all the decisions, Tanya let her bridesmaids pick the dress they wanted to walk down the aisle in.

“I figured ‘they will have to pay for it, so they should like it.’ I just gave my feedback as to which I preferred,” she explained.

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Keeping Her Cool

Tanya kept her cool before walking down the aisle by talking to her intended.

“I was in the limo and I said to myself, ’I’m not gonna cry’ and I said ‘I have to talk to Fred.’ He was calling me and giving me updates of what was going on at the church and with those calls I was getting calm.”

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Ice Breaker

Fred’s back was turned to his bride, so he couldn’t see her until she met him at the altar. When she got there, Tanya stuck out her tongue and gave her groom a raspberry to ease their jitters.

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Forsaking All Others

Tanya and Fred had about 140 attendees at their wedding. Their original guest list had 225 people, but their scaled it down in the end.

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Shy Girl

The beautiful bride describes herself as an introvert. She said the extra attention she got on her big day made her a little nervous.

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Burning Love

Tanya and Fred lit a big candle to signify the eternal flame they have for one and other.

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Kissing Scene

The newlyweds smooched for the first time as husband and wife in front of family and friends.

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School Ties

The couple, who originally met at Rutgers University, tied the knot at Kirkpatrick Chapel in New Brunswick, New Jersey because of its ties with their alma matter.

“Fred is involved in the Alumni Association, and we love the architecture,” Tanya said.

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Love at First Sight

Tanya said the easiest part of planning her wedding was finding the dress. She knew it was the one right away.

“It was the first dress I tried on. I looked at it on line and went into a store that carried the brand. It looked plain on the hanger, but I tried it on and fell in love with it.”

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True Blue

“Originally my wedding color-scheme was supposed to be burnt orange, because I like that color and it looks good on dark skin,” Tanya said. “then we decided to try-on the bridesmaid gown we saw online. When we went to the store, they had the dresses in blue, and it was such a lovely color that I said, ‘yep, that’s the color we’re going with.’ Of course, I didn’t want to give up my orange, so the colors became sapphire blue and orange.”

A beautiful combination.

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Next Generation

Tanya and Fred Posed with the bride’s parents.

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Wrapped Up In Your Love

The newlyweds took a moment to soak in their special day before heading in to the reception.

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Total Package

“I fell in love with Fred more and more for all that he was and is—his intellect, modesty, faith, and overall personality,” Tanya gushed.

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Forever Yours

Tanya confessed that she didn’t feel very different after saying ‘I Do’.

“It’s been 100 percent commitment from day one.”

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The Right Touch

White flowers mixed in with burnt orange roses make a gorgeous centerpiece for the reception.

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The Couple That Prays Together

Tanya and Frederick close their eyes in reverence before siting down to dine at their wedding reception.

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Here Comes The Hot Steppers

The couple danced to Lionel Richie’s “Truly” and then changed up the tempo with soca artist Shurwayne Winchester’s “Friend to Wife.”

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Band of Lovers

The new husband and wife display their new jewelry.

Tanya’s wedding band is white gold with a row of diamonds along the top and Fred’s band is two-toned with yellow and white gold.

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Flavor of Love

“Our cake was delicious,” Tanya remembers. “It was five layers with different filling, two tiers had fresh strawberries, two had pineapple and one had carrot.”

The couple got their cake through a package with the reception hall, who used ‘Gourmet Touch Bakery’ in Liberty Corner, New Jersey.

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Knock Out

Before taking off his wife’s garter, Fred dressed up as a champion boxer with his best man/manager dressed as Don King.

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Passing the Torch

The champ revels in his prize before sending it flying into the hands of a worthy bachelor.

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Jack Be Nimble

The couple’s reception was a big fiesta!

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Blushing Bride

Tanya reflects on her new title—Mrs.

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Spend My Life

Tanya and Fred say every once in a while they have to pinch each other and say, “oh we’re married.”

“I don’t think it has hit me yet,” The new wife said. “Because to us, we were already wed, we just had to make it official.”

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