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The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products

Melt the stress away and tap into your sensual side with these sexy products and tips.
The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products
By Charli Penn · Updated November 3, 2020
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Listen up, busy couples. You’ll never get in the mood for amour if you don’t de-stress. Use these tips and luxurious picks to unwind at home for a spa night.

This article originally appeared in the October 2019 issue of ESSENCE Magazine, on newsstands now.

01
BedJet 3 Dual Zone System
Cuddle comfortably. When it comes to bedroom temperatures, some like it hot and some like it cold—and some couples can’t agree on which setting to choose for snuggling. Find your happy place with the 
BedJet 3 Dual Zone System which uses the patented supersoft Cloud Sheet to pump remote- controlled airflows into each side of the bedsheet.
The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products
02
The Vitruvi Stone Diffuser
Set the scene. The right scent can take you both there. Fill your bedroom with sensual vibes courtesy of your favorite essential oils. 
Try a chic, spa-worthy diffuser.
The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products
Vitruvi
available at Vitruvi $120 SHOP NOW
03
Nooky Sexual Lubricant
Oil up. Sharing a sultry shower or soak in 
the tub should be a ­mandatory part of your nighttime routine. After lathering, rub each other down with a nongreasy, aromatic massage oil. Opt for Nooky’s exquisite oils ($14 each, nookylube.com). Heads-up: The lavender selection will make 
your partner melt.
The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products
Nooky
available at Amazon $14 SHOP NOW
04
ActiveBliss Hot Stone Massage Set
Level up. Perfect a new hobby and please your bae with massage stones. The ActiveBliss six-piece Hot Stone Massage Set will help you knead your way to blissful new heights—especially on the weekends when you likely have the time to, ahem, dig in and enjoy.
The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products
available at Amazon $22 SHOP NOW
05
Pottery Barn Organic Spa Robe
Revel in your robe. Nothing says vacation romance like lounging together in plush hotel bathrobes. Bring the magic home with the unbelievably soft, monogrammable cotton Pottery Barn Organic Spa Robe.
The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products
available at Pottery Barn $90-$120 SHOP NOW
06
Harlem Candle Co. Savoy Luxury Candle
Light your fire. Electrify your at-home retreat with Black excellence. Any candle set from Black-owned Harlem Candle Company’s irresistible upscale line will be a welcome addition to your vanity.
The Nightstand: Pamper Your Partner To Pleasure With These 6 Bedroom Products
Harlem Candle Co.
available at Harlem Candle Co. $45 SHOP NOW
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