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What You Said: Men's Worst Bedroom Behavior

What You Said: Men's Worst Bedroom Behavior
By Essence · Updated October 28, 2020
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Being Inattentive

“Not listening to what the lady likes. Heck we are not all the same and what works for one doesn’t work for someone else.” — Danielle Fletcher

What You Said: Men's Worst Bedroom Behavior
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Unromantic Encounters

“Not knowing the difference between making love and having sex.” — Therea Jones Patrick

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The Interrogation

“Asking if I got mine yet. If you know what you’re doing you’ll know when I got mine. You won’t have to ask!” — Martha Kindrick

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Missed Messages

“Not paying attention to a woman’s body language.” — Style4Curves

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Cuts Like A Knife

“Stabbing instead of stroking!” — Deshia Bartley

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It’s All About Me

“They reach their peak before you, and their finished, forgetting all about you. Only, you’re just warming up! Ain’t that a B?” — Joyce Lawrence-Phillips

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Excitement Overload

“Over excited, five second hitter/quitter!” — Janet Jaack

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A Hot Mess

“Too much sweat dripping. Yuck! Sometimes you wonder if you should wear a rain jacket and hat.” — Krista Acker

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Foot Fails

“Rough feet and long toe nails.” — Adrienne Shepherd

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Too Much Noise

“Snoring. Not a sexual thing but definitely affects sex.” — Helene Tomlinson

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Getting Too Comfortable

“When he farts during sex.” — Blessed Love

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A Lack of Creativity

“Not being creative..yawn.” — Tina Marie Jones

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The Small Stuff

“Bragging on his baby Snicker bar.” — La’Toya Singletary

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On and On, and On

“Taking too long to get theirs after I get mine. Look, I got to go to work in the morning!” — Yolanda Cooper

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A Misguided Adventure

“Not following instructions. Thinking you know me better than I know myself.” — Nala Simone

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A Rough Touch

“Not being tender with your body parts (ie. breast). Sometimes they don’t need to be twirled like a radio dial.” — Erma Vallare

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Forgotten Foreplay

“No or too little foreplay. Women are like ovens, we need to be heated up. Men are more like microwaves. Put it in, turn it on and ding, it’s over and done.” — Yvette Guyton Toliver

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Dumb Questions

“Asking “whose is it?” Mine, damn it!” — Jemicka Moore

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Shy Guys

“Being timid.” — Wanda McDonald

What You Said: Men's Worst Bedroom Behavior