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Home · Relationships

The Spice Jar: Sexy Bedroom Products

sexy bedroom products
By · February 11, 2009October 29, 2020
01
See No Evil

Add an element of suspense and fantasy to your bedroom with a sexy blindfold. Keep him guessing what naughty act you’re planning next and then switch places and have him do the same to you. Flaunt your frugal side and use the material from an old silk or satin sheet or nightie to create a blindfold he’ll never forget.

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Kitchen Delights

Want to really keep your beau in the mood but low on cash this Valentine’s Day? Look no further than your fridge and pantry. Our kitchens are filled with items that can turn any intimate lovemaking session from boring to bangin’! Whipped cream, chocolate syrup and even fruit such as strawberries or cherries are the perfect way to have (or be) a delicious dessert.

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03
I.O.U. Loving

Leave the recession outside of the bedroom and mix business and pleasure with these fun Sex Checks. Surprise and intrigue your guy with a I.O.U check in his briefcase for his favorite act of loving. And when you’ve went above and beyond, present him with a U.O.ME for your own late-night desire. Leave the checks in a mutual spot for equal opportunity enjoyment. Randomhouse.com has 60 checks for staying balanced in the bedroom for $9.95.

04
Heat of the Night

After a long day of work, treat your honey to a sensual massage. And to add to the fun use a flavored massage oil that also warms as you rub. Get him relaxed before a few licks to set the stage for a steamy night of sensual fun. This cherry oil sales for $11.14 at theirtoys.com and has plenty for a few rounds of warming up and cooling off.

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05
Closed Doors

Are you bored with the “position” of your relationship? Then consider incorporating a pair of Door Jam Cuffs from Spencer Gifts into the equation. These cuffs require relatively no set-up and promise not to leave any marks on most doors. Place the straps over the door of your choice and then close firmly. Comes with one pair of cuffs and two door jam straps. Great for travel and long weekends at home.

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06
Burning Desire

Keep the fire burning in your love life with a candle that gives you more bang for your buck. Not only does this Burning Desire candle from Pure Romance ($21.50, pureromance.com) have a heavenly sweet scent, it has all the green benefits of being naturally soy based and it’s specially created so that the wax can be used as massage oil as well. Simply burn the candle, allow to burn long enough for the entire surface to melt, extinguish the wick and use your fingers to apply the candle to start your massage. Each candle claims to offer approximately 25-30 massages.

07
Private Dancer

Be sexy and get your workout on at the same time! Investing in a retractable pole will do just that in the comfort of your bedroom, a late night in the office or during a hotel rendezvous. One to try is My Sexy Little Pole, on sale for $158, xandria.com. The pole comes complete with an instructional DVD that offers tips, techniques and routines so you’ll be spinning in no time.

08
Tasty Treats

Satisfy his sweet tooth with a pair of underpinnings he won’t soon forget. Try a yummy bra or panty this Valentine’s Day. Choose from flavors like passion fruit, cherry and chocolate in fun Edible Undies at nawtythings.com. Prices start at $2.95. Let him find out just how many licks it takes to get to your sweet spot.

09
Self Love

Having a healthy sex life begins with a little me, myself and I. Explore your pleasure points with this lipstick size, quiet and compact friend. Conveniently charge it with a USB and get ready for another round with this sleek Mia line of Lelo pleasure objects for $64. With four stimulation modes, find the perfect speed to get you going.

10
Mouth to Mouth

Who says safe sex can’t be just as fun? Add some zest to oral sex with the flavored dental dam and condoms. Mix and match flavors with your mate for a stimulating time to the taste buds and beyond. Lixx Dental Dams are $6.99 for five and Trustex’s 12-pack of assorted flavored condoms is $7.99 at condomdepot.com

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It’s a Vibrant Ring

Ready for something intense? Try a Vibrating Ring by Trojan. You and your special guy will reach the heights of ecstasy as the ring increases the pleasure of both parties, while keeping you save. CVS sells the Vibrating Ring and condom set for $12.99.

12
His and Hers

Making sure both parties are satisfied inside the bedroom is important in keeping the passion alive. And the K-Y Yours+Mine lube is designed for that special purpose. You’ll both feel special with a concoction designed especially for you to make things smooth and hot. Communicate on what you are feeling as things heat up for a closer bond.

Tell us, how do you like to spice things up in the bedroom?

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13
Heat of the Night

After a long day of work, treat your honey to a sensual massage. And to add to the fun use a flavored massage oil that also warms as you rub. Get him relaxed before a few licks to set the stage for a steamy night of sensual fun. This cherry oil sales for $11.14 at theirtoys.com and has plenty for a few rounds of warming up and cooling off.

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