Translation: Someone isn’t telling the truth about how they really feel. Before you sit down again to replay the same tiff, try asking yourselves “what is it you haven’t said already, but you should?” The answers to that question will be a great start to a new discussion.
Translation: You’re avoiding the big pink elephant in the room. Money matters! If you haven’t sat down to discuss the best way to handle finances in your relationship, it’s about time you did. You both need to be clear on what your priorities and plans are, before the “money issues” drive a permanent wedge between you.
Translation: You’re gossiping about your relationship too much. Your friends see the person you’re with through your eyes. When you’ve moved on and forgiven your lover for what happened, your friends haven’t forgotten what went down. If they’re holding grudges it will show when you all get together.