What exactly do you want? Do you want to be single and take time for yourself, play the field, or meet the one. It’s bad enough to lie to others, but don’t lie to yourself. If you are looking for love declare it. Maintain your self-trust and self-integrity. Keep it real so that you can then make choices that truly support your heart.
Up your fitness and wellness game. Work on any communication issues you may have. Travel if you’ve never left your state. Get that therapy you’ve always needed. Put your financial situation in order. Like attracts like. This will allow you to attract a higher quality of person, but most importantly, you will become a better person.