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Home • Relationships

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions

10 Sexy Resolutions
By Essence · Updated October 28, 2020
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I Will Make the Time

Make sex a top priority in your relationship. Even when your schedule seems it won’t allow it — find the time. It will make facing the work week and the other stressors in your life that much easier.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
02
I Will Go There

Act out his wildest fantasy, and yours too. It will make for many nights of new experiences in the bedroom.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
03
I Will Not Make Excuses

I forgot to shave. I have a slight headache. It’s been a long day. I’m so tired. Do these excuses sound familiar? Although they may be valid, that doesn’t mean a little love-making can’t be the cure. Don’t hold back in 2012.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
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I Will Set the Stage for Love

Set the mood more often. Here’s a handy checklist to have around: Candles, body oil, pleasure toys, and a sultry playlist.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
05
I Will Pay Him Compliments

If he rocks your world, be sure he knows that in 2012. Tell him what he does best, why you love your time between the sheets with him, and what you can’t wait to do with him again. He’ll be all ears, trust us.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
06
I Will Show Off My Sexy Side

Buy sexy lingerie, or greet him in the nude when he gets home. You’re a beautiful, sexy woman. Embrace it.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
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I Will Be Spontaneous

Give him tender kisses whenever the mood strikes. He’ll love your spontaneity.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
08
I Will Let Loose

Up the excitement factor in your sex life by making “play dates” with your lover. Sex is meant to be fun and rewarding. Have a naughty food fight in the kitchen, give each other pet names, or to really switch it up, have sex somewhere in your home you never have before.

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
09
I Will Try Something New

You know that thing you’ve always wanted to try, but never have? It’s time to give it a go in 2012. What do you have to lose?

10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
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I Will Speak Up

Speak up about what you want. He can’t make your fantasies come true if he doesn’t know what they are.

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10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions