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Just Engaged: ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story

Last year at ESSENCE Festival, our Editor-in-Chief was asked an important question: “Will you marry me?” As we gear up for the 20th anniversary of the festival, she opens up and shares her beautiful love story.
By Charreah K. Jackson · Updated October 27, 2020
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Back To Where It All Began

For their engagement photo shoot, ESSENCE magazine Editor-In-Chief Vanessa K. Bush and her fiancé John De Luca retraced the steps of their first date including Rockefeller Center and a stroll through Central Park.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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She Said “Yes!”

Vanessa and John were all smiles after he popped the question at ESSENCE Festival 2013.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
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Magical First Impressions

Her first impression: “I thought he was really fun. He’s sarcastic and we share the same sense of humor,” says Vanessa.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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Kid-Tested and Approved

“After three months of dating, I decided to introduce him to my two kids Myles, 14 and Madison, 11,” she says. “They liked him.”

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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A Smart Choice

His impression: “She was really in her phone when we met. Once we started talking I realized she was smart and really cared about her family.”

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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Right By Her Side

“I knew I didn’t see my life without her when she had surgery our first year together,” John says. “Even though it was minor, I was nervous the whole time and right by her side when she woke up.”

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
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She Makes Me Proud

“I love that Vanessa is so smart,” John says. “She loves ESSENCE and gives her all to the women she serves.”

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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Remembering When

The duo retraced the steps of their first date including Rockefeller Center and a stroll through Central Park.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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That Magic Moment

The couple went back to the T.G.I. Friday’s where they met and sat in the same seats where they first locked eyes for their engagement photos.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
10
Feel The Love

Vanessa’s bride-to-be’s glow is absolutely contagious.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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So Much In Love

“We love going to concerts and just went to see Dave Chappelle and Erykah Badu,” the bride-to-be says. “He’s really like a kid at heart when it comes to amusement and water parks.”

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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A Study In Love

John studied his bride-to-be and picked out a ring all on his own. “I love it,” she says with a smile.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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Support System

“He’s has been extremely supportive of my career and my transition to Editor-in-Chief,” Vanessa says. “He also helps me not take myself or the work too seriously.”

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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Trust In Me

“I had to get used to letting somebody help me and trusting that it was going to be taken care of and not worry about it,” she says.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
15
My Biggest Fan

“He’s a huge hockey fan. I admit I knew nothing about hockey until I started dating him. But I now enjoy it,” she says.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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A Family Affair

“We are super excited about the wedding. My son Myles is giving me away and my daughter Madison is my maid of honor,” Vanessa says.

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando
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Wishing You Nothing But The Best

“I am looking forward to the end of our ceremony when we are officially pronounced husband and wife,” John says. Join us as we wish our Editor-in-Chief a very beautiful happily ever after. Share your well wishes below!

ESSENCE Editor-in-Chief Vanessa K. Bush’s Engagement Story
Photography By Orlando