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30 Dates in 30 Days - Jahmeliah

Age: 33 Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency HER SIGN: Pisces HER VIBE: "I'm sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one," says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it's been a minute since she's had a date. "I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn't like it," she admits. "But I think most men assume I'm in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that's it." A total romantic, Jahmeliah's also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes. DATING HISTORY: She's been single for four years. "Sometimes I'll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck," she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home. WHAT SHE'S LOOKING FOR: "My ideal guy doesn't have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies," says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.
By Essence · Updated October 30, 2020
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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

30 Dates in 30 Days - Jahmeliah
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Age: 33

Job: Chief of staff, mayoral agency

HER SIGN: Pisces

HER VIBE: “I’m sweet, sassy and sexy rolled into one,” says Jahmeliah, for whom a casual first-date outfit would be a pair of Seven jeans, a cute top and always heels. But it’s been a minute since she’s had a date. “I do get attention from men, and I would be a liar if I said I didn’t like it,” she admits. “But I think most men assume I’m in a relationship. So sometimes they look, make a comment, and that’s it.” A total romantic, Jahmeliah’s also got a tough sideócourtesy of her weekly boxing classes.

DATING HISTORY: She’s been single for four years. “Sometimes I’ll have a few dates in one month. Other times months pass with no luck,” she says. Her worst date: A guy who fell asleep at the wheel while driving her home.

WHAT SHE’S LOOKING FOR: “My ideal guy doesn’t have a particular look, size or job. But he does have to give me butterflies,” says Jahmeliah, who has dreams of forging a genuine bond with someone who will sweep her off her feet.

30 Dates in 30 Days - Jahmeliah