Most men always have something to say about sex. From criticisms to unsolicited advice, it’s not hard to find out what’s really on a man’s mind when it comes to between the sheets fun. You already know what he thinks, but does he know what’s really on your mind? We turned the tables and asked you to dish out the advice for a change. Read on to find out what real women wish men knew about sex. Caution, real talk ahead!
“It’s not what wins a woman over.” – Carmen.
“That I actually know what I want, so don’t be scared to listen to me.” – Victoria
“Every woman is different. What pleases one woman might not necessarily please another. The key is being in tune with your woman and her particular needs and desires.” – Lela
“We are not always ready when they are ready. We just have sex because they want us to have sex.” – Melissa
“Sex is an emotional act for women and is not just meant to fill a physical need.” – Precious
“Intimacy with the one you love provides you a safe place to be vulnerable.” – Tina
“Their obsession with it is a turn-off.” – Trei
“Having sex with a woman is not the way to her heart but making love to her will go a long way. There is a difference you know!” – Toya
“It’s a part of the relationship, NOT the relationship.” – Chevelle
“How to be passionate and to learn that foreplay takes place all day long; a phone call to say something sexy, a sexually charged email. Start setting the mood early in the day.” – Therea
“Not using protection forfeits your right to complain about the consequences.” – Ayana
“That you got to mentally satisfy before you get between the thighs!” – Janet
“That ripping my clothes off as soon as we’re alone is not always as sexy as men think. Being naked makes a woman feel vulnerable and if he’s too pushy, it doesn’t make her feel comfortable at all.” – Candace
“It’s more mental than physical for women.” – Krystal
“How to find the clitoris! Learn what it is, where it is and give it some attention.” – Phylicia
“Companionship is so much better.” – Dawn
“Truly cherishing the before, the act and after of love making.” – Matasha
“We want [to have] an orgasm every time just like they want one every time!” – Amber
“We don’t always want sex just because we want to cuddle.” – Ethel
“Take time to caress and love each part as if it was the last time you’ll experience love making.” – Lynn
