Every parent in the workplace knows the struggle of balancing having a child and having a career. And we can all list every single bump in the road. So when someone asks you how you do it all, you know you’re tempted to give them the real deal.

In this cute new video from Orange is the New Black‘s Adrienne C. Moore and Make It Work, an organization advocating for economic security for working Americans, she lets struggling parents know they’re not alone and encourages them to speak out about what they need to make it work. Moore (one of this year’s Black Women in Hollywood honorees) knows exactly what she’s talking about, having struggled to make ends meet herself when she was starting out as an actor, and she’s fed up with the lack of support for working women and parents in this country.

Take a look and tell us how you make it work, using the tag #HowWeDoIt.