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My Selfie Journey: Lesley Lancaster

When Lesley decided to end an emotionally abusive relationship, her life changed for the better. She was immediately empowered, and decided to finally grow out the bald head she wore for years. Now, her pixie cut represents more than a new look. It signifies strength, courage, and the will to be healthy.
By Deena Campbell · Updated October 27, 2020
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Meet Lesley

My hair is…relaxed.

I started my hair journey… in 2005.

My Selfie Journey: Lesley Lancaster
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Meet Lesley

My current hair regimen includes… washing once a week with Motions Shampoo and Conditioner. I also trim my ends every two weeks by my stylist Dion Blanchard in Raleigh, NC.

My favorite hair products include…Pantene Truly Relaxed Oil Creme Moisturizer, Creme of Nature Argan Oil, and Motions Foaming Wrapping Lotion.

My Selfie Journey: Lesley Lancaster
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Meet Lesley

The secret to healthy hair is… daily maintenance! Wrapping your hair with a silk scarf every night, not over washing every week, and keeping it moisturized every single day.

I love my hair because… it parallels my life in so many ways. In spite of the trials and tribulations of my life, through my ups and downs, through abuse and neglect, it has always bounced back, healthier and stronger then ever.

My Selfie Journey: Lesley Lancaster
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Meet Lesley

My hair crush is…Nia Long. Her versatility has stood the test of time, and her hairstyles looks better and better as the years go by.

My Selfie Journey: Lesley Lancaster