50 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love

50 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love
ESSENCE.COM Aug, 23, 2011

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Surprise him on his birthday.

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Write him a handwritten letter.

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Know what you want.

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Don’t talk about your problems with your girlfriends or mama.

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Smile when you first see him for the day.

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Flirt when you think no one is watching.

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Show off your smarts.

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Always have his back.

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Keep your good looks maintained

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Laugh a lot and out loud. Men love it when a woman has a beautiful smile.

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Maintain a little mystery about you.

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Admit when you need him, or want him, around.

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Master the recipe for his favorite sweet treats, then surprise him with a tray all his own.

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Get in good with his mama.

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Pretty nails…it’s a little thing, but a big thing. No man likes gnarly, chomped-on nails.

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Become part of his circle. (AKA Get cool with his friends.)

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Plan a special evening for two. Greet him at the door wearing something sexy with his favorite song playing in the background.

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Let him make you happy.

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Befriend his best friend.

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Know when to listen.

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Be the first to say I love you.

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Give him the benefit of the doubt.

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Be patient — don’t rush the marriage, moving in,or sex talk before it’s time.

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Have soft touchable hair he can run his fingers through.

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Give him his space. AKA (Have a life of your own.)

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Once in a while make it all about him in the bedroom.

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Send him “thinking of you” text messages.

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Tone down the diva attitude.

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Be his best friend.

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Put a little wiggle in your walk, a’la Marilyn!

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Trust him unless he gives you a reason not to.

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Show some leg! If your legs are your best assets, show them off girl!

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Show him your nurturing side.

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Don’t be afraid to tell him what you want.

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Pick and choose your battles.

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Take a risk for him.

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Play hard to get, and don’t be too available.

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Play hookie with him.

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Make him breakfast in bed.

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Master his favorite meal.

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Offer to pay for a date.

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Be independent!

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Be open minded to trying new things

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Make him feel like the only man in the room.

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Open your heart, and share a secret you’ve never shared with anyone else.

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Speak up for yourself and what you believe in without disrespecting him.

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Be a lady in public, but a freak in private.

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Show interest in his favorite sport.

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Give him compliments.

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Leave your scent on his pillow.