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Heartbreak isn't all bad. He may have been a dud, but these life lessons are lit. Take notes, ladies.
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Dating a guy who clearly wasnâ€™ t on your level really helps you raise the bar.
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Your real friends never hesitate to tell you that heâ€™s bad news.
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When you love a guy who isnâ€™t worth it, it never feels good. In fact, letting him go instantly makes your heart feel better. Thatâ€™s no coincidence.
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Breaking up with the wrong guy when your heart was already attached takes good sense and courage, which face a lot of emotional resistance. Give your brain a round of applauds.
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Sometimes you have to bite a bad apple to know what a rotten one tastes like. Getting to your breaking point with one man will make it easier to identify if and when youâ€™re coming close to the edge the second time around.
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What he got wrong will be what the next guy should get right.
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Well, because your ex clearly was NOT him.
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The moment you realize you just dodged a major bullet by ending things with an ex is usually the very same moment you get a second chance at finding happiness. Thatâ€™s a gift in disguise.
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Life doesnâ€™t end after you utter the words â€śweâ€™re over.â€ť Promise.
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A broken heart can (and will) heal if you let it. Now that you've ripped off the band-aid, it's time to heal and move forward.
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Even if his train is very delayed.
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Remember, new beginnings like this one are a good thing.
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Your ex played them on repeat, but the next time around youâ€™ll choose more wisely.
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Of course you would never have opened your heart to him if you didnâ€™t believe, if only for a moment, that he could be the one. You were wrong, but thatâ€™s okay. It happens to all of us.
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