1 of 10
Knowing your guy listens when you’re sharing your thoughts helps to strengthen your bond.
2 of 10
If you don’t receive love in your language, you may never get the message of how much you’re truly loved.
3 of 10
This is something I consider to be one of the most romantic gestures one can make. Deciphering his penmanship may be a separate issue!
4 of 10
Ambition is sexy and it can be conveyed in many ways, but surely the best way to demonstrate this trait is by showing initiative.
5 of 10
We all have Exes and nobody wants that comparison or ones to fictional characters. So, fellas, please no Claire Huxtable comp grids!
6 of 10
We can’t like everyone, but he should be able to enjoy an evening out with your crew without fleeing the scene.
7 of 10
Staying healthy for his own good is important, but when he is hitting the gym to look better when you rip his shirt off, that should put a Kool-Aid smile on your face.
8 of 10
You know exactly how important you are to someone based on the respect they show for your time.
9 of 10
I’ve found there are two distinct and passionate camps on this; either for or against public displays of affection. Whichever side you’re on, he should be there, too.
10 of 10
I often say it’s easier to find someone to love than someone to fully trust. Nothing will make you happier than respecting your trust.
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