10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions

10 Sexy Resolutions
ESSENCE.COM Dec, 22, 2011

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Make sex a top priority in your relationship. Even when your schedule seems it won’t allow it — find the time. It will make facing the work week and the other stressors in your life that much easier.

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Act out his wildest fantasy, and yours too. It will make for many nights of new experiences in the bedroom.

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I forgot to shave. I have a slight headache. It’s been a long day. I’m so tired. Do these excuses sound familiar? Although they may be valid, that doesn’t mean a little love-making can’t be the cure. Don’t hold back in 2012.

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Set the mood more often. Here’s a handy checklist to have around: Candles, body oil, pleasure toys, and a sultry playlist.

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If he rocks your world, be sure he knows that in 2012. Tell him what he does best, why you love your time between the sheets with him, and what you can’t wait to do with him again. He’ll be all ears, trust us.

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Buy sexy lingerie, or greet him in the nude when he gets home. You’re a beautiful, sexy woman. Embrace it.

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Give him tender kisses whenever the mood strikes. He’ll love your spontaneity.

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Up the excitement factor in your sex life by making “play dates” with your lover. Sex is meant to be fun and rewarding. Have a naughty food fight in the kitchen, give each other pet names, or to really switch it up, have sex somewhere in your home you never have before.

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You know that thing you’ve always wanted to try, but never have? It’s time to give it a go in 2012. What do you have to lose?

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Speak up about what you want. He can’t make your fantasies come true if he doesn’t know what they are.

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