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Turn Your 'G ' Into a Gent With Fonzworth Bentley

Fonzworth Bentley is on a mission to prove that you can dress appropriately, be articulate and be hip. Do you think you have what it takes to join his “Gentleman’s Club”? By Qianna Smith
By · Updated January 19, 2022
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Turn Your ‘G’ Into a Gent

Fonzworth Bentley aka Derek Watkins, the Morehouse College grad and one-time personal assistant to Sean “Diddy” Combs, has stepped out of his mentor’s shadow to become a respected authority on style and fashion. As the author of “Advance Your Swagger: How to Use Manners, Confidence and Style to Get Ahead” and host of MTV’s Jamie Foxx-produced reality show “From G’s to Gents,” Bentley is on a mission to prove that you can be suited up and hip at the same time. Do you think your man has what it takes to join his gentleman’s club?

As told to Qianna Smith

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True Gents

“A gentleman is someone who knows how to be himself in all social situations. A ‘G’ is someone who, by any means necessary, legitimate or not, does what he needs to do to survive. Don’t get it twisted, though, there is a ‘G’ in every gentleman,” says Bentley, pictured here with Jay-Z at his New York 40/40 Club.

Get more swagger-advancing tips from “The Apprentice” alum Kwame Jackson »

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A Look of a Gentleman

Bentley was recognized by GQ magazine as the First Gentleman of Hip Hop, so we asked this fashion aficionado to tell us what stylish staples every man should have in his closet, and he dishes,

  • A navy blazer
  • Gray flannels; they work for the Duke of Windsor and Fred Astaire, so they can work for me and you
  • Your own tuxedo
  • Pocket square; it adds a finishing touch to an ensemble and it’s functional
  • 7-fold tie; buy one and you will quickly see the difference
  • Don’t shy away from vintage shops; there are some great finds in these places at a reasonable price point

    Get more swagger-advancing tips from “The Apprentice” alum Kwame Jackson »

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    Stately Style

    “President Obama’s confidence and style starts with his integrity and that has been absent in our politics. His inauguration is confirmation that America and the world has been starving for this,” says Bentley.

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    Believe and You Will Achieve

    During tough economic times, Bentley suggests that men looking to empower their lives should: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Lean on him not with your own understanding, and have strength. In all your ways, acknowledge him. He will direct your path straight.”

    Get more swagger-advancing tips from “The Apprentice” alum Kwame Jackson »

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    Real Men Embrace Fashion

    Wondering how your man can reach his full swagger potential? Bentley, who has been working with pal Kanye West on an album, says: “Swagger is multifaceted. I believe you need Manners + Confidence + Style = Swagger. Think about it: if you have style and confidence, but you are rude, no one wants to be around you. If you are confident and mannerable but don’t dress appropriately for the occasion, you won’t gain entry.”

    Get more swagger-advancing tips from “The Apprentice” alum Kwame Jackson »

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    A ‘G’- to-Gent Success Story

    Curtis James Jackson III, better known as 50 Cent, step onto the scene via gangsta rap, but the former drug dealer turned multimillionaire has earned respect and world recognition for demonstrating both his street and business savvy. Ranked No. 26 on Forbes magazine’s 100 highest paid celebrities list, the rapper banked $100 million dollars in 2008.

    Get more swagger-advancing tips from “The Apprentice” alum Kwame Jackson »

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    Bentley’s ‘Thug Rehab’ Program

    Ladies, are you struggling with a brother who borderlines “thug,” but has gentleman potential? If so, Bentley has some suggestions.

    “First, your man needs to make the decision that he wants to be a gentleman and a better man; it starts with him. Having a strong spiritual foundation is important, because it’s no secret we are living in the golden age of disrespect. You need proper etiquette in various settings, from a job interview to a dinner party; Not only for you to feel comfortable, but for people to feel comfortable around you. A lot of great networking happens at different types of affairs and you may or may not be invited because of your etiquette.”

    Get more swagger-advancing tips from “The Apprentice” alum Kwame Jackson »

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    Far From A Style Outcast

    Wondering how André 3000 was able to go from dirty south rapper to one of Vanity Fair magazine’s best-dressed men? “It was natural for him,” says Bentley, “As he had to move in different circles, he was smart enough to know how he needed to be received in the room. André has also retained his own unique spin on being appropriate for the occasion.”

    Get more swagger-advancing tips from “The Apprentice” alum Kwame Jackson »

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