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Mary J. Blige Reflects On Her Life's Turning Point: 'It Was Like, I Don't Want To Die But, I'm Tired Of Feeling Like This'

During the 2021 ESSENCE Festival of Culture, Blige discussed how her new Amazon Prime documentary forced her to revisit her toughest moments.
By Okla Jones · Updated June 28, 2021

For the past three decades, Mary J. Blige has cemented her legacy as an artist by exuding vulnerability through her music. The multi-platinum–selling Grammy winner has had much success in her career, but it was not without both trials and tribulations. She reflected on those experiences and more during an interview about the newly released Amazon Prime documentary entitled, “Mary J. Blige’s My Life,” at the Entertainment All Access experience of the 2021 ESSENCE Festival of Culture presented by Coca-Cola. “Mary and Puff gave to me a trust that gave birth to a vibe that helped create a historical moment in music,” My Life Producer Chucky Thompson told ESSENCE. “This “My Life” documentary is a glimpse into that vibe that moved R&B music forever.” 

Speaking with ESSENCE Senior Entertainment Editor, Blige touched on some of the moments that contributed to her progression as a musician, and why it was time for this story to be told.

Mary J. Blige Reflects On Her Life’s Turning Point: ‘It Was Like, I Don’t Want To Die But, I’m Tired Of Feeling Like This’

One of the factors that has remained a consistent part of Blige’s longevity is her relatability. The passion that comes across in her music strikes a nerve with women of all ages. The tumultuous relationships she’s experienced throughout her life laid the groundwork for most of her content, and it’s these emotions that have resonated most with her core fan base for decades.

Since the release of her debut album in the late 90s, Blige has also pursued a career in acting, and has twice been nominated for an Academy Award. Although she’s certainly making her mark on both the big and small screens, the entertainer stated that she never sees a life where she is not recording music. “Acting is a whole ‘nother beast,” she said, laughing. “You have to give it a break because it’s a lot.”

When asked what advice she would give to the young women out there, her response was a testament to her resilience. “My advice would be to keep going,” Blige stated. “You’re going to fail, you’re going to have ups and downs, but just don’t stop whatever you’re doing.”

Watch the video above to see the interview in full and be sure to check out Mary J. Blige’s My Life, now streaming on Amazon Prime. For more of everything you missed at the 2021 ESSENCE Festival of Culture Entertainment All Access Experience, you can catch the replay HERE.

ESSENCE Entertainment All Access is sponsored by ABC, Disney, ESPN, Amazon Prime Video, Freeform, Hulu, Fox, STARZ, Tubi and VH1.

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