It’s not easy living up to the “Best Mom” coffee mug. Not even for Viola Davis.
“When you have a child, you want to be a perfect mother. You feel like you have the absolute plan to be a perfect mother — and then you make a mistake, and we all make mistakes,” Davis tells PEOPLE at the world premiere of Custody at the Tribeca Film Festival in New York on Sunday.
In Custody, Davis stars as a judge presiding over a case brought on when a teacher notices cuts and bruises on the kids of a single mother.
“We all at some point lock our kid in a car by accident or lose our kid in the mall for 30 seconds or more,” says Davis. “I know one girl who’s a fantastic mother, [but] she lost her daughter in an aquarium for 30 minutes.”
Davis—who is mother to 4 year-old daughter Genesis, whom she adopted as a newborn in 2011, and stepmom to two children from husband Juilan Tennon’s previous relationship—has experienced first hand that there’s no such thing as the perfect parent.
“You have those moments: exhaustion, the stress of having an exuberant child, and you don’t want to be judged by your worst mistakes,” she says. “It’s a part of life, and it’s a part of what makes us who we are.”
Both Davis and her husband are producers of the film. She was sent the script a couple of years ago by writer and director James Lapine and was hooked.
“I did the movie because it’s an indictment and also an exposing of a big issue in our culture,” adds Davis. “I wanted to be a part of that.”
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