Showcasing their love in front of the camera for the world to witness has led many to believe that Gabrielle Union and her husband Dwyane Wade are picture perfect or perhaps the personification of the term #goals

In an intimate interview with the Complex, the actress reveals that she and the NBA star are far from that. In fact, the 44-year-old said that they attend couples’ therapy. 

“People are like ‘goals’; me and D are like, ‘WTF?’ We’ve kind of figured it out now, but I guess maybe we should tweet live from couples’ therapy,” she says.

From their choreographed dance routines to the baecations that break the internet, the Being Mary Jane star says their union, as flawless as it may seem, is a steady work in progress. 

“And when you ask us we’re gonna tell you, there’s a process to happy,” she continued

Union and Wade began dating in 2009. The Chicago Bulls player and 3-time NBA champion proposed with the help of his two sons in December of 2013 and the pair tied the knot in August of the following year. 

While their relationship has been full of ups and downs, Union said she wouldn’t trade it in for the world because she is “so f—–g happy.”

At the end of the day, we guess that’s the true definition #goals afterall.