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34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love Through The Years

It's their anniversary! On June 25, 1983 Denzel and Pauletta Washington said "I do" and today they have one of the longest lasting marriages in Black Hollywood. Take a look at their love then and now!
By Lauren Porter · Updated October 26, 2020
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1986: Real Deal

“I just think that you have to work at [marriage],” the actor said has said of tying the knot. “Not give up on each other. It’s a commitment. It’s not all the honeymoon, it doesn’t last forever, so you work at it. And hopefully you’re good friends first, that might help!”
 

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
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1990: Always By My Side

Mr. and Mrs. Washington have four children, son John David, daughter Katia and twins, Malcolm and Olivia. Denzel praised his wife for always being there for him and their children.

“She has done the heavy lifting. She has been the consistent,” he credited her. “She has given the daily religious instruction.”

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
03
1992: Walk Down Memory Lane

“She’ll tell you that she paid on our first date,” he said of he and Pauletta. “But I’ll tell you what happened. I was paying early and I was going to splurge and we were going to take a cab. And the meters going and I’m like, ‘oh no how far away does she live.’ So she paid the cab fare on our first date.”

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
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1993: Stronger With You

After meeting on the set of the television film, Wilma, Pauletta said the key to their long lasting union has nothing to do with luck. “Our faith,” she told Extra in 2017. “Nothing is magic, it’s just work.”

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
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1996: Got A Good Thing

Denzel isn’t shy about showering his wife with affection. “I got a good woman — that’s the first thing,” he said in 2017. “You just keep working at it.”

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2003: Perfect Pair

How darling are these two during an extra special night out!

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
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2003: You Are Love

“I didn’t know everything there was to know about love, but I married a woman who did and how to share that,” the 62-year-old said of his wife.

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2004: Lean On Me

“I live with this man. I see the down part. I see the sad part. I see every part. He has and knows he has that stability in me as his wife. That’s gives him strength, regardless of if he misuses it. I can’t dwell on that. But I do know that gives him a great platform to go and fly,” Pauletta told Ebony in 2013.

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2004: White Hot Love

“There’s no magical mystery to [staying together] … We go through up and downs like any couple,” Denzel has said. See they are just like us!

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2007: Circle of Love

When it boils down to it, Pauletta says she and Denzel’s sustainable marriage has everything to do with God. “It’s all spiritual, it’s all based on God. I’m limited as a human being, and when you look at certain situations, it’s very bleak. Or at least it appears that way, but then I seek spiritual counseling. My inner circle of people are like-minded, so we strengthen each other.”

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2007: Black Love Goals

After celebrating 12 years of marriage, the couple renewed their wedding vows in South Africa with Archbishop Desmond Tutu officiating the ceremony. 

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2008: Time Well Spent

“Hollywood gets a bad rap; it’s just a place with some footprints in cement,” said the actor who travels often for various projects. “I don’t live there, I live in Los Angeles. But it’s probably helped our marriage that we’re apart a lot.”

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2010: Hand In Hand

No matter where they are these two always flash the biggest, brightest smiles. That’s what good love will do to you!

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
Michael Caulfield
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2008: Lifelong Love

With one of the longest marriages in Hollywood, you can’t help but look this good when you’re with the one you love!

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
Kevin Winter
15
2010: Baecation Vibes

Even with the busy times that comes with life, these two still manage to make time for one another! That’s very special. 

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
Jacopo Raule
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2010: Black and White

Denzel and Pauletta have always been one gorgeous couple!

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
Tiffany Rose
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2013: All Smiles

The proud parents are just divine dressed up or down in love!

34 Years Strong! Denzel And Pauletta Washington's Love In Pictures
Jim Spellman
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2014: True Story

When they tied the knot, the couple was so busy entertaining their guests during their wedding reception they missed out on some very good eats!

“We were shaking so many hands, taking so many pictures, they ran out of food,” he told Jimmy Kimmel in February 2017.

The couple eventually went to a local diner and dined on a breakfast staple. “We had eggs or something. True story.”

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David Cooper
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2016: For The Long Haul

In it to win it, Denzel and Pauletta will be Mr. and Mrs. Washington for forever and ever. 

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Mike Coppola
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2017: Lover’s Day

Right on time for Valentine’s Day, these two were courtside at the LA Lakers game for an extra special date night. So sweet!

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Noel Vasquez
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2017: Red Carpet Cuties

On Hollywood’s biggest night, these two were the talk of Tinsel Town simply for their picture perfect Black love.

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George Pimentel
TOPICS:  Black Love Denzel Washington