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Perfect Ten: 10 Reasons We Love Dating Black Men


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I have loved essence since i have began reading the magazine in 2001, it has always been so informative and stylish. I have also wondered if there have ever thought to be a teen edition of esence. I think it would be a very good thing for teens help to them focus on furthering and completing their education, help with present and future finances, given them the heads up on credit card usage and just basically dealing with being a american teenager in this time. Well just thought it would be good for our future CEOS,Teachers,Chemist and etc. Thanks for all the guidance essence.

 

Essence you kill me. I am referring to your November issue page 66 right column entitled, Rescue Me. Half of those black men or either married or do not date AA women exclusively. Anyone can google these men and see for themselves who they chose to date and marry.

If Essence is no longer a magazine(now white owed) for black women please tell me because this will be my last subscription to Essence. And, yes I did notice at the bottom of your articles links to other sites such as the one promoting Lamar and Khole. Essence I do not give a DAM about those two idiots and I do not appreciate you trying to ease that type of mess in.

ON SECOND THOUGHT, ESSENCE YOU NEED MORE OTHER RACE MEN PICTURES. I KNOW I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE ASKING FOR OTHER RACE MEN TO BE FEATURED. WHY THE HELL NOT?

ESSENCE MAYBE YOUR TIME IS UP.

 

I have to ask are you people joking? @tata, I Luv Essence and Ren. Dawn is simply stirring #hit up.

 

You know what, BLACK WOMAN, if you would be concerned more about being a good partner vs. WHO your potential partner is dating, I think things might just work out differently. Instead, what do you do, come on here bashing brothas..oh this is played out, that is played out...in fact WE (brothas) might as well be played out??? Or does it come from the SISTA being a tad bit jealous? Having the need to be wanted but everything that moves? Is that some type of control or esteem issue??? See where Im going...thats all folks!

 

Not all love us. My ex couldn't get it together when oru son was born. I had to get rid of him. He married this peruvian chick his co-workers intruduced him to and have 2 more kids. Now, he calls my mother to whine that I won't deal with him.

 

I'm over Essence always having articles about just Black men. I married a white man, and I think the whole idea of looking for the right "black man" is played out. They are NOOOOO different than any other men out there. Just love who you wana love regardless of skin color. I don't understand why black men date all types but black women seem so hesitant. LADIES GROW UP AND GET ON THE MULTI-CULTURAL BAND WAGON!!!!

 

i agree with "too cute"

 

I agree with "too cute"

 

I agree with "so cute" I am soooooo over this stick by the black man moto. Black women have this asinine, unwavering devotion to black men and for what?

 

i agree with how cute. black women have this stupid unwavering alleigance to black men, and for what? all men, not just black men, have something to offer. and black men are not the only ones who are well endowed. i am soooooooo over this "stick by the black man" motto. That is sooooooooooooooooo over also. right on how cute.

 

Ladies get a hold of this one !!!!

 

The real reason why blk men r in now is bcuz we have a black president. I didn't start noticing blk guys being intrusting in dating white chicks until president Obama became popular. After he won the white chicks went crazy & now want them a baby Obama; but what they eventually will realize after a couple of months he will be on to the next chic. & your little fairy tail will b ova & now u will have to be on your on & raise your biracial child all alone and without guidance if u don't have any blk female homegirls.

 

Now you have low self esteem black women on ESSENCE yapping that black men only what white women or other...STFU!!!! It's getting really lame about now so I say everyone keep messing with their heads it's fun fun fun.lol it's not like black men can really fall in love they're madE out of ICE, RIGHT?

 

Ren, that is so true most of the black women in my family about 90% are married, divorced or widowed. Media is brain washing black women to make it seem like nobody is checking for them funny thing it's working..LMAOOOOOOOO!

 

I am puzzled by the gap betwwen reality and perception with regard to black men's dating and marrying habits. 94% of black men are married to black women. The vast majority of Black male entertainers and athletes are married to black women. Yet it appears that because of the media focus on black celebrities married to white women, many black women interpret this as wide spread abandonment. I have attended countless functions where successful black men are in attendance with their black wives. It has become a myth that grows despite all evidence to the contrary. What is true, however, is the black man's preference for lighter skinned black women over darker ones.

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