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Online Dating 101: Getting Started


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For those of us who've always met our mates in real time, online dating can seem a little, well, different. Romantic souls that we are, we all wish we could bump into the guy of our dreams in the produce aisle at the supermarket or at a summer concert in the park. But, are we really willing to bet on that happening for all of us? What's wrong with being proactive about our search for love?

Nothing, says online dating guru EflirtExpert.com's Laurie Davies. To get us over our fear of entering the digital dating pool, Davies offers advice on how to get into the online dating scene, from setting up your profile to meeting up for the first time.

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'Dating Out': Single Black Females & Interracial Dating


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Who knew the single lives of Black women would be making national headlines in early 2010? Coincidentally, Karyn Langhorne Folan's new book, "Don't Bring Home A White Boy: And Other Notions That Keep Black Women From Dating Out" released in February, came out just as the discussion was getting heated. Folan tells us why we should own the single Black woman conversation and why she wrote a book about interracial dating in the first place.

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ZZim said: Don't let anyone tell you that because you have a certain skin color, your options must be limited in some way. It's wrong and you don't have to put up with it.

The Black Alpha Female said: Confident Black women get the men they desire, including those who seek only Black men. She doesn't need someone telling her to consider other options.

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The Myth Of The Perfect Man


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When the latest new relationship advice guide, "The Denzel Principle," landed on the desk of ESSENCE Relationships Editor Demetria L. Lucas, our resident dating diva was skeptical. Yet another How To Fix It guide for single Black women? A quick read through of author Jimi Izreal's tome uncovered biting commentary on the state of Black relationships and one more candid male perspective on where we--that's right ladies and gentlemen--need to do better.

ESSENCE.com caught up with Izreal recently to uncover his take on the lack of suitable Black mates, why Black men must make better choices, and why Black women should tear up their "He Must Have..." checklists.





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Dating Quiz: Which Atlanta 'Housewives' Star Are You?


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You may have more in common with the ladies of "The Real Housewives of Atlanta" than you think. Find out which southern belle you resemble on the dating scene in this week's Frisky Friday feature.

Which lady you are like when it comes to love?

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Cougar Vivica A. Fox Talks Dating Younger Men

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Black Women: Why You Shouldn't Limit Yourself to Black Men

I was motivated to create my Free Your Mind seminars, which encourage Black women to date non-Black men, after listening to an impassioned friend--an attractive woman in her late 30s--lament an all too common refrain from Black women as young as 25. With a master's degree, an executive job, a mortgage in her name, and no children, she just couldn't understand why she was alone when she'd done everything "right." She wanted to find a nice Black guy and get married. She complained about being overlooked by Black men who pretended she didn't exist, or worse, the ones who quoted the unfortunate ratio of Black men to Black women with a smile like the cat who had swallowed the canary. By the time she finished explaining, she had tears in her eyes. And I was thinking: life is way too short to be unhappy and way too long if you are alone when you don't want to be.

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Love's Look Book: Fashion For Every Relationship Milestone


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How many times have you second guessed an outfit before you stepped out the door for a hot date? Ever lost sleep wondering what to wear to meet a former sweetie's mother? Well, fret no more. ESSENCE.com has you covered with the ultimate "Love Lookbook" that answers all those questions and more.

See what to wear for every season of love



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