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Frisky Friday: Too Tired for Sex?

Friday, November 20, 2009 - 7:50 AM

Think you're just too tired to bump and grind? Ironically, sex can actually help you sleep. It also helps to relieve stress and to bring you closer to your partner, Laurie Mints, Ph.D, psychologist and author of 'A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex.'

Mintz gave us a few pointers on how to get back your mojo when you're too pooped to perform.

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No More Drama: 10 Tips for Making Female Friends

Thursday, November 19, 2009 - 12:50 PM

by Bobbi Misick

If we had a dollar for every time we heard we heard a woman say, "I don't get along well with other girls," we'd probably be vacationing somewhere exotic and exclusive right now instead of writing this story. It's true. We can be downright nasty to other ladies. Want proof? Look no further than 'The Real Housewives of Atlanta.' The name-calling, back-stabbing and physical confrontations are excellent, however amplified, examples of how we tear each other down. And while NeNe and Kim's blow-up has been reduced to a simmer, we can expect the Housewives' ego jabs to continue in the next season.

If you're finding it difficult to warm up to other women, here are ten helpful tips for making friends with other chicks.

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10 Ways the Recession Can Strengthen Your Relationship

Monday, November 16, 2009 - 7:05 AM

by Yolanda Sangweni

There's a lot of talk about how to recession-proof your relationship. But just because the economy is shaky doesn't mean your relationship has to be as well. Find out how these uncertain times can bring the certainty (and spice) back to your relationship.

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Love The Man, Hate His Ways

Thursday, November 12, 2009 - 7:00 AM

by Bobbi Misick

He's perfect! Well, almost. What happens when you love your man, but can't stand some of the things he does? If you want to make it work, here are ways to get him to stop talking with his mouth full, cursing like a sailor, wearing that awful t-shirt from his college days, and more.

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How to Leave an Abusive Relationship

Thursday, October 29, 2009 - 2:50 AM

by Bridgette Bartlett and Charreah Jackson

In our domestic violence awareness gallery featuring tips to minimize becoming a victim, we were excited to hear of the many women who had successfully left an abusive relationship - and saddened to hear of one woman's story of feeling trapped with her abusive husband. To "Scared" and women who feel they are trapped in an abusive relationship, you CAN get out and go on to live a happy and healthy life. We debunk the reasons often used for staying and tips for planning your escape.

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Domestic Violence Awareness: 10 Relationship Rules to Save Your Life

Thursday, October 15, 2009 - 4:38 PM

by Bridgette Bartlett and Charreah Jackson

One in every four women will experience harm from a partner, with rates much higher for Black women.

See ten tips can save your life »

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Why I Celebrate Serena Williams's Nude Cover

Tuesday, October 13, 2009 - 7:00 AM

There's been much talk about Serena Williams baring it all on the cover of ESPN the Magazine's the Body Issue. Find out why ESSENCE associate editor Demetria L. Lucas thinks all Black women should celebrate this moment.

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Bride-to-Be Saba Gashugi: The 'Unglam' Wedding Tips No One Ever Discusses

Friday, June 19, 2009 - 8:00 AM

ESSENCE.com coordinator Saba Gashugi aka The BlackBerry Bride is preparing to go from Ms. to Mrs. in three weeks. Check out her hilarious tales from the road to the chapel.

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