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Following the recent discovery of eleven murdered Black woman in Cleveland at the hands of a convicted rapist and the ongoing FBI investigation of nine missing Black women in North Carolina, Black and Missing, Inc. President and CEO Derrica Wilson shares why she and co-founder Natalie Wilson are fighting for missing Black women and tips to save your life.

I was born and raised in Spartanburg, South Carolina, the same location where Tamika Huston, 24, went missing back in 2004. I witnessed how her family fought to shed light on her case and attempt to bring it to the media forefront, while Natalie Holloway's story was dominating the local and national news network. I looked at FBI statistics of missing persons and realized that 40% of missing persons in America are people of color. It was clear, something had to be done to help these families. Natalie and I channeled our professions and created Black and Missing Foundation (BAM).

Black women, minimize your chances of being targeted for abduction and crime, by doing the following:

1. Become vigilant of your surroundings. Follow your instincts and see who's around you at all time.
2. Periodically check the Sexual Offender's Registry in your near your home, workplace and/or school.
3. Be careful when internet dating. A lot of offenders prey on women on the web.
4. Do not personalize your home answering machine. Offenders often prey on young women living alone.
5. Do not give out personal information in public while you are on your cellular phone, or use names.
6. Do not leave personal information inside your vehicle.
7. Do not publicize your comings/goings over your cellular phone or social network statuses.
8. Take a self defense class (i.e. Rape Aggression Defense also know as RAD. The RAD class is for women only and usually offered through the police departments). Check the laws in your state for carrying mace.
9. Create a buddy system. Check in with your friends regularly and keep them posted of new male friends in your life.
10. Let at least one other person know where you will be at all times and how you can be reached.

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I would like too take some time out thank the active members for doing what you do and make this community great im a long time reader and first time poster so i just wanted to say thanks.

 

I would just like to take time too Thank all the people for doing what you do and make this community great im a long time reader and first time poster so i just wanted to say thanks.

 

I just want too take some time too thank the active members for doing what you do and make this community great im a long time reader and first time poster so i just wanted to say thanks.

 

Hey Hey,

My name is Jordan, I just wanted to introduce myself since I am new to this site...

I am new to the internet but I am learning alot real fasssst!

I'm a Hair Stylist and devoted father.

The things I like most in life are family, friends and football.

On week days you'll usually find me riding my bike. On the weekends I like to party and enjoy the outdoors.

My idea of the perfect day would start with a morning jog. And then I'd go to the park. Later I'd eat a great dinner from TGI Fridays. And I'd top it all off by snuggling with my GF.

I also love hip hop videos.

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Wonderful Dee, so proud of you guys! you made it to Essence with something of substance! keep it going!

 

Great tips Essence. Also the article about the little girl that was forced into prostitution was also a jaw dropper. Thanks for keeping us aware.

 

Great tips. I don't mean to get off topic, but that crazy nut in Ohio in the reports would play up the nice role and even had a free barbecues for his neighbors. I wonder if those people who were eating that "barbecue" are vomiting now after finding out about what he did. Lesson: stop taking free stuff if you don't know the person REALLY well.

 

Thank you so much for this article Essence!!!

 

Wow, now black women are turning up missing in NC. Does the media care? *Crickets* The world we live in. The media makes me sick. You got stupid black women on here talking about How rihanna deserved a beatdown. De-value de vaule de vaule makes it easier for more people to de-vaule us because these fools on here do it. I say stay strapped. Get a registered GUN!


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