Essence

I watched your proposal online and i must say i thought you guys should have won, but even though you did not I would just like to say that you two seem very much in love. and may God continue to bless you both on your relationship and marriage!

-Jamila

CONGRADULATIONS TO YOU ALL HAVE A WOUNDERFUL WEDDING, AND KEEP GOD FIRST, REMEMBER WHAT ONE MAN PUT TOGETHER, LET NO MAN TEAR APART. AGAIN CONGRADS.

-MR & MRS COWANS

I was so happy to see you in the magazine Clyde. I don't know if you remember me but you went to high school with my cousins Ronnie Love and Angela Williams. God Bless you and beautiful Charity. From your home state Michigan.

-Christina Love

I was so blessed watching you guys, it made me realize that true love still exists! May God bless your union.

-Shonna Robinson

as long as you stay comitted with each other no atter the down fall my be dont give or lose hope

i t only make the relationship longer and stronger as long as you put god first.

-roschel lockett

Congratulations to the both of you, I really liked all the the videos, but yours was the most touching to me, oh and not to leave out it made me cry! Always remember if you include God and ask him for the correct guidance, you can conquer the world!! Mayyour blessings come flowing in from all directions.

-L.J.

Touching!

You guys are adorable!

-Koda"

just wanted to say i just watched the video and it was one of the best. Best wishes and may god bless you both. the thing that touched me the most was the letter at the end when he said that you never leave out his son. that really touched me

-lateefah

you guys are so cute together! may god bless you all, and keep you married for 100 and plus years.

-Arabelle & Kimberly

It so wonderful to see two people who were friends first become one. I pray God continually bless the two of you!

Connie,

Da Mound

-Connie

wish u many blessings n respect 2 u

-pretty shingi

Dear C & C, Just keep on relying and trusting in the LORD and your love will last an eternity. You are truly blessed.

-Anonymous

I hope that life will bring you much happiness, joy and peace. Marriage is a gift. It takes two willing people to allow the Love to endure through the difficult times. Keep God first and he will see you through.

-callie

Clyde, Congrads I am really happy for you and your fiance', your idea was very unique and classy. Every since we met in Dr. Brent's Finance class you have always come across as a person that I admired on the way you approach your personal life. Once again congradulations and keep doing positive things and keep the benchmark high. One love!!

-Chris Godfrey

Congratulations Clyde & Charity this marriage is meant to be. Stay true to yourself and to each other. Remember to put God first, spouse second and family third.

-Glenda Turner

Congratulations Clyde & Charity this marriage is meant to be. Stay true to yourself andeach other. Remeber to put God first, spouse second and family third.

-GlendaTurner

The two of you are simply beautiful. There is a tender sweetness about your love for each other and I only wish that I could vote for you NOW ~

I am encourged by your display of kindness, affection, respect and joy for each other.

I pray God's absoluteBEST for you and Qumari and your babies to come (smiles).

Blessings

-joy4hearts

Hey Clyde,

Just wanted to tell you congratulations and I thought your proposal was very revetting. That was a classic idea and not too clece' . i enjoyed your video soo much so that i featured it on my site giving Essence credit of course. Any how, sincewe are a fashion blog for men< i have to ask where did you get that hat and coat. Hot Hot Hot!

I wish you and your significant other the best and many years of life together.

You can see our codos' to you on www.3guysdontlie.com.

fashionably yours,

-Charles Gregory

Dear Clyde & Charity,

I am happy for you. Marriage is a wonderful gift and the originator of marriage has the best advice anyone could ask for. I could tell from your comments that you are familiar with the definition of love found at 1 Corinthians chapter 13 verses 4-8. Yes, if this advice is followed Love will never Fail!

Clyde look at Ephesians Chapter 5, verses 28-33 and Love Charity as you would yourself. And Charity, verse 33 admonishes you to have deep respect for Clyde.

I wish you both every success and continued happiness in your union.

-Gail Taylor

Charity I loved your reaction. It was so genuine. I hope you guys have a wonderful wedding and a blessed marriage!.

-Kumba

Wonderful couple keep God first always!

-Valery

this is god sent you to are so bless and god will bless you both now and forever. let god bee in your life and marriage it seem if you to have aready been married.this is a fairy teal.i pray that that next year that me and my boyfriend have a blesses wedding with standing in front.god bless you both.what are your colors tiffany blue would be a dream for you to both

-from tonya

Marriage can be a beautiful thing and it is what you make of it, Congragulations.

-Anonymous

Charity and Clyde,

As you probably figured out - I'm not computer saavy! I went into the site to vote for you and found out the voting is already over; what a klutz! But the sentiments I posted to you today were heartfelt and I wish you much happiness in your married life together.

-Terri, a fellow Washingtion

Charity and Clyde,

Your story and wedding proposal warmed my heart. It's wonderful to see such a beautiful young couple spiritual grounded and who have taken the time to really get to know each other. Charity's understanding of the importance of including Qumari when discussing your future (even though he's almost an adult) shows a maturity that's sometimes lacking in relationships that are dealing with children from other partners. May your devotion to God and each other continue to be the cornerstone of a lasting, loving relationship. I'm e-mailing all my friends to view your story and cast their votes for you. GOOD LUCK.

- Terri, a fellow Washingtion

May God keep his hand upon your marriage.

Cheryl & Melvin Tucker

-Anonymous

May God bless your union and may the coming years be even greater than the past 13. Your foundation is God and friendship ... that's STRONG! When I watched your video and the effort that Clyde put in surprising you Charity, my heart melted and I cried as if I knew you both :-) Keep that friendship and may God continue to shine His blessings and love on you. Congratulations!

-Tee, Philadelphia

You two look so good together. You guy's relationship reminds me so much of my own. I'm a newlywed (10 months). I wish you two a wonderful lifetime together.

-Mrs. Holliday

May God bless your union as you grow together in love. Clyde, you have a special woman to take in your son with unconditional love. Love, communicate and have fun together.

-Kymie

Hi Clyde and Charity, Oh, how swee it is to be loved by God. I am an Author in the Dallas area, and I would love for you all to take my course. The books are $40.00 a set, and if you cannot afford that, or do not want to spend the money at this time, Iwill give them as a gift to you so that I can impart something strong into your marriage. This is a communications workbook manual, and there is nothing on the market like this. Please view my website: www.sassybird.com. Or you can call or email me at214-766-1849; email: birdjohnson@hotmail.com.

I am happy to see that people are marrying the ONE THAT THEY LOVE. I often say, "You better stop looking at looks, and think about the person that will be there till the end, the one that doesn't mind wiping your behind if you are faced with a sickness" Be wonderfully Blessed

-Sassybird Johnson

YOU BOTH ARE SPECIAL...

MAY GOD BLESS THE BOTH OF YOU AND KEEP YOU TOGETHER UNTIL DEATH DO YOU PART.

-Ethel...Las Vegas

I just want to wish you the best of luck in the future. Cherish the day that you unite together to become one. It is so great to see black people unite in Holy Matrimony. May God keep you together until death do you part.

-Shirley F.

CONGRATULATIONS MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH A LONG AND HEALTH MARRIAGE.(KEEP GOD FIRST HE WILL DO ALL THE REST GOD BLESS)

-LAVITA

I just want to say to keep God first in your marriage and to continue to be friends, everything else will fall into place. Congratulations

-Ashley

You to are trully a blessing to one another and I went to High School with Clyde... I wish the both of you much happiness.

-Anonymous

GOOD LUCK & MAY GOD BLESS THE BOTH OF YOU.

-SHERRI JOHNSON

may god bless you both

-mr&mrs calvin short

That was so romantic. I loved the proposal. I wish you both the best.

-janet

I wish you all the luck. God bless.

-Latisha Brown

i wish them the both the best of luck i belive you have to be friends first and also put God first in your life i i wish you the best and hope that you will continue to grow with one another

-adrienne

I loved that he proposed to you after so many years of friendship, that is truly beautiful. I would love to help you plan your bachorlette party. Please visit my website at www.teneshagill.pureromance.com (713)493-1267

-Tenesha

MAY THE LORD BLESS BOTH OF YOU ON YOUR UPCOMING WEDDING DAY.

CONGRATULATIONS

CHERYL & JAMES W

-CHERYL BONDS

You get my vote!!!!!

-Anonymous

I wish you the best and I cried and laughed just like Clyde said Charity would. This the beginning of more beautiful times for you both. God Bless.

-Columbus Oh

May God bless you as one ane keep you!!

-Danielle

The two of you are a very beautiful couple. It's truly a blessing to see young men and women commititng to something so beautiful. Marriage is soooo beautiful and truly a blessing. I wish the two of you a beautiful life together forever...... and remember life is short and beautiful......so when you are faced with disagreements recognize how small they are and try to be mindful of the beautiful blessing the two of you have been blessed with.

God bless

-kellie

Clyde,

That was so hot. Fox saw it on tv and called me but i didn't have your number on me at the time. Congratulation to the both of you and may God bless your union, forever.

P.S. That's how Leo's represent. Congrats, cousin!

O'Neal and Patricia Irvin

-O'Neal Irvin

Congratulations to the both of you. There is hope for us women of color that there is still good men out there that desire us beautiful women and not flip the swith, if u know what I mean.

What a wonderful story!

-Patricia in Florida

May you have many happy days of Marriage.

-Janice E

Clyde and Charity,

Congratulations on your engagement and winning a honeymoon trip. May God continue to bless and keep you both always. Always love each other and listen to each other always.

Again, Congratulations!

-Cynethia Page

CONGRATS !! It is wonderful to see young couples in love and supporting our community by showing we can have more than " baby mama and daddy drama" !! I wish ya'll (GA) the best !!

-Sassy

May GOD bless you in your marriage!

-Araina

Best wishes

-TAMEIKA

Congratulations Clyde!! I'm both happy and proud of the awesome man you became. We went to high school together and I love to see fellow classmates doing well.

-Bernita Jones

Congratulations Clyde and best wishes to you Charity. Although I am not a member of Greater Mount Calvary Holy Church, I have observed the two of you in worship during the times that I have visited. I believe you have laid the proper foundation for a life-long marriage of happiness. Continue to believe in each other and look to God. In Romans 8, we are reminded that they who are in the flesh can not please God. Therefore I admonish you to continue to feed your spirit and develope your relationship with God. If you do, you will find that nothing will separate you from the love of God nor from each other.

Clyde, you may remember me from WSC Gym in Chinatown. I use to workout there between 2004 & 2006. Again, God's blessings upon you both and yourson!

Charles Blair

-Charles Blair

I saw where you guys had congradulated Eugene and Kendra. How congeniual. You two are a respectful and classy couple. God Bless You Both. Don't start tearing up Cookie. (smile).

-PamelaMichelle-Savannah, GA

Congratulations Clyde! I pray that God blesses you and your bride to be years of happiness. Go Grand Rapids! :-)

Peace & Blessing

-Shakeena Harris

CONGRATS! Although you guys did not officially won, but in my eyes you two are the winners. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR UNION.

p.s. Charity where did you get that beautiful purple wrap dress? you looked FAAAAAAAAAAABULOUS. I would love to get one. plz e-mail me Pascale1135@yahoo.com

-Anonymous

HU! Been Praying and speaking it into the atmosphere for you to WIN the contest, but even if you don't win this contest, you will still have the victory and our God will still make a financial way for you to have the wedding of your dreams without the bill and the debt...Godspeed and knock em dead in my hometown NYC manana!

Calvary loves you and we are ALL PRAYING FOR YOU AND WITH YOU!!!!

-LaTicia, GMCHC Min.

clyde and charity you've just finished the end of a new begin. so enjoy the ride. and remember the key to a successful marriage honesty, COMMUNICATION, understanding, SACIFICE AND GOOD COMPANIONSHIP AND DON,t bail out when the going gets tough.god bless you and always put god first because he is the man. love mamma JOYCE

-Anonymous

Hey Cuz

It's almost here. I am so excited for you. Me and Andrea will be up until 12 midnight voting for you and Cookie.

-Paulette Cancler and Andrea Hamlett

Good Luck and much happiness. Your love is truly a blessing! Hope you have a great lifetime together.

-Adrianne-HU

YOU GUYS ARE GOING TO WIN, I AM CLAIMING IT FOR YOU AND ME AND JAKE HAVE BEEN VOITNG LIKE CRAZY AN WE WILL UNTIL TONITE AT MIDNITE. GET READY TO CLAIM YOUR PRIZE WE LOVE YOU GUYS CONGRATS

-NAKISHA SALDANA GRAND RAPIDS MI

I Pray Blessings Over Your Union

-Bowie,Md

Hope your future together be blessed for all the years to come. from your cousin.

-Bobby & patricia Gaddy

good luck

-rabia

Hey Clyde & Charity-

Congrats & good luck! Me & Jamila (Clyde's coworker) have been voting like crazy all this time, so I hope you guys win! The proposal was sooo on-point. What a lucky couple!

Well, I guess I'll keep on voting...!

PS - Save me some cake! LOL :-D

-Toya (Laurel, MD)

OK Cookie I feel like I know you because I have heard your name out of the mouth of Tisha for a least 8 years. I'm an ex co-worker of Tisha, and believe me she has been campaigning for you all. I voted for you a number of time.

Good luck and best wishes

-Evella (Tisha's co-worker - ATL)

CLYDE AND CHARITY,

I JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU ALL THE BEST....I LOVED YOUR PROPOSAL SO MUCH...BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES....I LOVE ALL THAT YOU STAND FOR AS A COUPLE......TRUE FRIENDSHIP AND DEEP LOVE......CONGRATS! AND GOOD LUCK ......KOREN

-KOREN

I'm torn between you all and another couple. However I will say this, I'm happy to see for once that a Dark sister (who is very beautiful I might add) has been put on the pedastal for a change!! You both are amazing and beautiful inside and out, and I dohope you all will be happy together in Christ and throughout the duration of your life!! Congratulations and God bless!!

-YN

I know I signed already, but I just wanted to say that what God has for you is for you!! I love you both!!

-Your Sis, Alacia

THAT PROPOSAL WAS GREAT IT SEEMED TO BE HEART FELT YOU LOOK LIKE A GREAT COUPLE.

-S. RAMSEY

clyde and charity i got goosebumps watching your proposal. it was very real and sincere, don't ever forget what makes each of you special to one another. gods blessings to the both of you and even if my tons of votes don't help you win(smile), you havealready won because i see something real with the two of you.

-sharee

AS THEY SAY "GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT" CONGRATULATIONS

-ROBIN-McKEE

Hey Pooh Pooh,

I'm still voting for you and Cookie. The word of God says that He will give us the desires of our hearts. I know your heart desire is to spend the rest of your lives as one. Praise Jesus. In His Name, you already won. I am learning howto take the limits off my faith and I want to encourage you and Cookie to do the same. Because when we do that...we learn that we can do all things through Christ who gives us strength.

Love you!

-Cuz Paulette Cancler

You have been truly blessed. Treasure and nurture your gift.

-Y. Williams

2 stall, congrats on finding the love of your life, i wish and pray for nothing but the best for you two, pray for me as i will for you two

-cedrix walker

You two are the perfect couple. Charity you have the best smile and you're so pleasant. I wish you all the luck in the world. Clyde you deserve her so take care of her.

God Bless Your Marraige!

-Sandra Dixon

Good Luck! I voted for you all because you are from D.C. and we must stick together---God Bless your marriage!

-deva00

Charita and Clyde I wish you all the luck in your life together. I hope you are as happy as I have been in my marriage. Also, My husband and myself are members of Greater Mount Calvary and we did vote for you guys. Good Luck and Congratulations!

-Jerri Ramey

clyde and charity i watched all the videos from the essence and your proposal touched me the most .I just want to say keep god first in your life, the line of communication open , keep the fire in a roaring flame and never go to bed angry. good luck fromleslie and howard watson in paterson, new jersey

-leslie walker-watson

I pray God's blessings on your union. May He provide for you like only He can.

-Charmaine Todman

Cookie,

Wow this is big! I knew i would turn the TV on one day and see you doing big things. And could we expect anything less from a young lady with great aspirations?

We (me, Gerard, Andre, Chiwan, Darrick and the rest of your ATL-CT crew) wish you and Clyde the very best as you guys stay focused on what God has preordained.

-Will Fitzgerald

Yes, good things come to those who wait. God's timing is different from ours and now that he has ordered your steps towards each other, everything has to be alright. Remember a family that prayers together stays together. Be Blessed!!!!

-Ms. Allen--Conroe, TX

marriage is a beautiful thing and i wish you the best of luck and may god keep both of you and remember to keep god firt and remember you argue because you love each other

-Anonymous

You two look beautiful but remember Charity.......you were created for you husband, not the other way around as you wrote.....Good luck..You two still have my vote simply because you were "friends" first.....started things off right, without the rush

-Kendra

CONGRADULATIONS!!!

I wish you the best. Clyde I see you at work and you are always smiling. I know now that it is because of Charity. I vote everyday for you both and I really hope you win. You deserve this and so much more.

-Roychelle Hinton

God Bless, the both of you.

-Ms. Williams

When a person includes his or her children in everything that really tells a person a whole lot. The surprise proposal was so genuine and sweet and girl you was surprise you made me cry like I was in your family. You and Clyde keep God first in your lifeand keep that friendship going forever.

-Kathy T.

I am so happy for you two, more so because you were friends first. You two have already fought halt the battle and that was being able to build a relationship based on a sound foundation of friendship. With this kind of love, you two will be able to overcome anything, because you will always have that foundation to go back to for strength. You two have my vote because I truly could see by Charity's reaction that you Clyde are the love of her life. And Clyde, I can see Charity is your soul mate. Congrats!

-Margarita

Hi, I just wanted to say your proposal really moved me . I really think you too were put here on this earth to be together forever, my the Lord continue to bless this union from this day forward

take care and be blessed

tammyie

-tammyie

Never forget I Corinthians 13 it will give you strength. You are a beautiful couple. We wish you the best!

The Corley Family

GMCHC

-Anonymous

your response makes the non-believer in me feel like there is hope that someday I will find the ideal man. Good Luck!

-Anonymous

good luck to you both

-Tracy

May God bless you and I hope you win the contest. I will continue to vote for ya!!!

-virginia saxton, gmchc

I wish nothing but the best for both of you. The proposal was so romantic. God bless you both.

-blackcherry47

u 2 are gonna go a long way

-sparkelite

I pray god blesses you two with this gift, i love the feel you two have,,and remember it's all in the listening,be blessed.

-Darlette

whats up clyde this is dawud boo-boo,uncle pooh too just holla at u stay with her her flint mi out over kenny houes

-uncle darwin aka dauwd

Charity & Clyde,

God Bless you and your family to that is and what is to come. I to had a relationship that turned into a marrige 8 years ago. I had a daughter and he had a son. Love is patient, Love is kind, and with God you will be just fine.

The proposal made me cry, tears of happiness!

Peace

-Marquita NJ

i know that's right

-michelle

Wow... I wanna be like you all when I grow up... hey I'm grown but your story is true so true to the heart.. keep on loving each other and keep God first and you will go thru your ups and your downs but you will still have each other and your family.. More power to you.. Congratulations! You give us all something to strive for...

Best Wishes.. I've been voting for you all madly..

It doesn't matter to me whether you win or not but I want you to but you will

still be my fav couple..

Miracles and Blessings

Chi town in the house

-Kay

Congrats!!!!!! Wish you all the best. Most women care less about previous children,she's a keeper Clyde.LOL! Anyone concerned about your children, has concern about you. I wish ya'll the best. You 2 brought tears to my eyes. I was proposed to yesterday,it's a wonderful feeling. GOD BLESS.

-shay30

HELLO!!!! I HAVE BEEN VOTING FOR BOTH OF YOU SINCE I WATCHED THE SHOW!! I VOTE MORE THEN ONCE A DAY... YOU BOTH JUST LOOK SOOOOO HAPPY!! GOOD LUCK AND I AM PRAYING YOU WIN ;-) I AM ABOUT TO VOTE 5 MORE TIMES B4 I LOG OFF!!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!

-SHIVON ;-) from BOSTON MA

COOKIE AND CLYDE:

YOU ARE WINNERS!!!!! WE ARE SPEAKING THOSE THINGS IN EXISTENCE HERE IN COLUMBUS, GA. BECAUSE YOU ARE MORE THAN CONQUERORS!!! AND ESSENCE IS GETTING READY TO ANNOUNCE YOU ALL AS THE WINNERS OF THIS CONTEST....... IT'S PHENOMINAL, THE RATINGS ARE GOING TO BLOW -UP FOR YOU! AND YOU WILL BE DECLARED THE WINNER ON FEB. 14 TH!

THE WORD IS NIGH THEE, EVEN IN YOUR MOUTH. YOU SHALL HAVE WHAT YOU SAY.

LOVE UNCLE JOHN & AUNTIE MARY ANN AND JOHN-JOHN

-JOHN AND MARY

May God bless you both. May He bless your relationship! Congratulations to you both on your engagement, it is not every day we get to celebrate love in such a special way. I saw one say black love is beautiful, but yours is prettier and stronger!

-A friend

What a way to celebrate Black History Month, this is such an honor to be a part of history during the month of February. Here I sit while I'm viewing this proposal crying my eyes out, this is so beautiful. I thank God for couples like you and I wish you both the best! Amen!

-Angie

Hi Clyde it's your cousin Cynthia from Grand Rapids again, I'm still voting for you Charity. We watch the TVONE program. I was smiling all the while watching it. I'm praying for you guys to win!

-Cynthia Hamlett

Congratulations. Your story and emotional response really touched me. May your advenure together grow stronger in the years to come and may your love and respect for each other never fade! Congratulations again!

-Andrea from Louisiana

The main thing I like about how Clyde did his proposal was that it was all about Charity.. I love the makeover, a day with her own team to pamper her. That means he is about her.. Win or no win,, best of luck on the future ahead for Clyde, Charity and toQumari and with all the blessing that can come to a family .

-TVines

I voted for you because I love the fact that you were friends first. I love Chairty's response to Clyde's proposal. I mean Charity had the tears the on my God! It was very sincere and emotional. And most of all I can tell that you really love each other that you have a good relationship.

So no matter what, if you win or lose this competition always remember that you have each other and other than God you have the greatest gift which is love. I send you my blessings. I wish you the best of luck in the contest and if you don't win just keep the wedding simple.

-Isis

Hey ClydeThis is Felisha from Grand Rapids, When I heard about this you Know I had to come support you and show you some love. Charity i know i do not know you, but you are a very lucky woman, and what a way to be proposed to. I am very happy for you both. I hope you win, but if you don't you will still have a beautiful wedding i am sure. Congratulation's and best of luck. Sincerely, Felisha (Sims)Gates.

-Felisha Gates

Clyde & Charity,

may God's riches blessings be yours as you embark upon this next journey -MARRIAGE :-)). Speaking as newlywed myself, the best is really yet to come. Remember to always be good to one another, cherish one another, and keep Christ at the center of your marriage. This receipe will ensure you both Live Happily Ever After.

Love & Blessings,

Vanessa Banks

GMCHC, Washington, D.C.

-Vanessa Banks

When I watched the show, I was really touched by the love that you two share. I pray that God guide you througout your marriage. Always communicate and never take one another for granted. Listen to your love, and not what others would or wouldn't do. I wish you both many blessed years to come.

-Dina Gulley, Cleveland, Oh

ok wat happen to you and your last relationship???? y don't u marry ur baby mama???? but hey.... i hope tha best for yall...

-Anonymous

God put the two of you together for a reason - as cliche' as it sounds- keep laughter in your marriage...life is too short and tomorrow is never promised to us. Above all -keep faith in your lives and when the going gets tough - go to God and he'll see you both thru it!

-DB

I wish both of you the best of luck. Out of all the couples you two seem the most sincere and real. Clyde, hats off to you... a girl can always appreciate a makeover. Charity you are beautiful and all three of you (including that beautiful little girl) make a wonderful family. May god bless you and keep you.

Congratulations

-MJB

Your proposal was absolutely beautiful and touching, your relationship and courtship was reminiscent of my husband and myself. We were also friends first. When were friends for 8 years and then one day God opened our hearts and minds to show us that we were meant to be together.

-Anonymous

God Bless you Charity And Clyde, I hope you remember me Mrs. Brown .Tanya's mother from Bloomfield, Ct. remember the days in the Cafeteria at the Junior high School.

Best Wishes.

-Reather R- Brown

This one almost had me crying! it was very nice and the response to his proposal was very real, from the heart... good luck to you both!

-Lynn Bell

good luck and God Bless

-lauren

I'm always glad to see fellow Bison finding love. :-) Good luck guys.

-Raquel- HU '05

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-Anonymous

I LOVE IT!!! I love it!!!! There is still HOPE for me and my may of of 7 years

-ann spicer

may GOD bless you and your new and wonderful life together yhe reason that i choose you guys is because i see the GOD in you and gurlllllll he really does love you and i see the love you have for him again i say may GOD bless you and your future

-cesceli nicol harvey

Clyde and Charity,

"Don't lose your grip on Love and Loyalty. Tie then around your neck; carve their initials on your heart. Earn a reputation for living well in God's eyes and the eyes of the people. Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don't try tofigure out everything on your own, Listen for God's voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he's the one who will keep you on track. Don't assume that you know it all. Run to God! Run from evil." Proverbs 3:3-12 Message Bible

I voted for you because, the foundation of your courtship was based on 13 years of old-school dating getting to know one another mind, body and soul. Mentally, physically, emotionally, spritually, and financally. Knowing that you keep God first in your life, I'm even more confident that your marriage will be truly blessed and ordained by the grace of God. Seek Him first then all things will come later.I seen the passion in the atmosphere and presence of the divine appointment from God for this union. <P

-Carlina

You two are just beautiful, I vote 100 times for you. Clyde your proposal was sweet and charity you look beautiful! May you put God first in your union! You can make it!

-Melody Henderson

Charity's reaction to Clyde's proposal made me cry! It was amazing and I'm so happy for both of you. I wish you all the hapiness in the world. God bless you both.

-N Muqtasid

Such a lovely spiritual proposal! Charity you are blessed and God does send us who we need if we ask for it. I wish you too the best of luck in the future.

-Betty V. Jarmon

I wish you guys all the best ! I had to do a double take when I saw Clyde and I was like I know him! You two just look like you were meant to be together. That proposal made me want to cry. It was so sincere! I vted for you guys over and over and I emailed it to all mt friends and they were like who are they I mlike it dont matter just for them! (lol) I hope you win!

Tish- Grand Rapids

-Leticia "Tish" Pruitt

God Bless you and may his force be with you!!

-Denise Hundley

Good luck, Clyde & Charity

-Helen Brown (AARP)

Even though you did not say you were from Grand Rapids, the US Postal workers here along with your mom will vote as much as we can. Good Luck!!!!

-Sharon, Vera, and Linda

Clyde & Charity,

I wish you two wholesome, unconditional love and happiness. I voted for you because of the special friendship that you have shared for so long. It is so important to be friends first in relationships. I started dating my best male friend of 11 years about 1 year ago and although we are no longer together, I still value our friendship. So, take what you have (what so many couples are missing) and build upon your solid foundation and grow as a strong couple.

-GA Wildflower

Dear Clyde & Charity,

Just wanted to let you both know that your story seemed so genuine. As a couple you two seemed to have built that foundation and now is the time to build around it. Although your proposal wasn't something that was the normal whichbrings me to say it was natural and very unexpected. I LOVE YALL!! I wish you both nothing but continued LOVE, PEACE & BLESSINGS!!

-JERSEYGIRL

HI CLYDE & CHARITY I KNOW YOU DO NOT KNOW ME AND WE WILL NEVER MEET.I WISH YOU 2 THE BEST IN LIFE AND YOUR MARRIAGE.MAY GOD BLESS YOU 2 AWAYS.I VOTED FOR YOU BECAUSE OF THE FRIENDSHIP YOU SHARE.MY HUSBAND AND I WILL BE TOGETER FOR 23 YEARS COME 4/20/08.WE CAME UP TOGETHER,WENT TO THE SAME SCHOOLS.HE BECAME MY BEST FRIEND,WE TALKED AND SHARED EVERY THING.THERE WERE BAD DAYS TO GO WITH THE GOOD ONES,BUT WITH GODS BLESSING AND WATCHING OVER OURS EVERY MOVE.WE MADE IT.THEIR WILL BE DAYS WHEN YOU LAUGH AND CRY,JUST REMEMBER THAT THE FRIENDSHIP THAT BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER,WILL CARRY YOU THROUGH.REMEMBER TO KEEP GOD FIRST IN YOUR LIFE,MARRIAGE,AND CAREER.YOUR COMMITTED FRIENDSHIP IS WHY I VOTED FOR YOU.MY NAME IS GRACE.I LIVE IN MYRTLE BEACH S.C.GOOD LUCK.MAY GODCONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.CHARITY CONTINUE TO INCLUDE QUMARI AND LOVE HIM AS YOUR OWN.YOUR LIFE WILL CONTINUE TO BE BLESSED IN MORE WAYS THAN YOU CAN COUNT.MUCH LOVE AND HAPPINESS.

-GRACIE&MARKIE COX

Clyde, I thought that your proposal was so sweet, everything a woman would want, done right, Charity looked so sincire and happy. I wish the two of you the best of luck in your marriage and with moving on to making your family.

-Foxifox2001, Florida

I thought your proposal was really special. It was just right-not over the top-just right. It was creative, intimate and heartfelt. Charity, your reaction to his proposal was very touching & you guys make a great couple. Always remember to put God first which I know you will do. Realize that marriage has its ups and downs just listen to each other. Don't become complacent and always show that you love each other just like this proposal. I hope you win!

-Roz

Congratulations Clyde, this is Sherita Edwards from Grand Rapids. I loved your proposal and I wish the both of much happiness, oneness and everlasting love! Take care...

-Sherita Edwards

Clyde and Charity,

God bless you both. I wish you two many years of happiness , peace, prosperity and love in many years to come. Put God first, Seek God together, and rest in His presence, and you are sure to be together until death parts you. Enjoy that blessed day!.

-Tanya Petersen

Congratulations, Very excited to watch the tv show!

-Britney

Cyde & Charity always remember to talk things over together, and never go to bed mad. Kiss each other everyday when leaving for work or play. My husband and I have been together for 34 years and we still show affection for each other.

-Sandra Collier

Dreams Do Come True! Enjoy every moment together. Keep steppin' out in faith. Sure hope you two win.

If you two ever disagree, just remember: Don't care who's right, don't care who's wrong -- JUST CARE!!!

Stay blessed,

Toni H.

-Toni

Clyde's proposal was my favorite. The Essence staff made her look so beautiful and she was very suprised when her walked through the door w/ roses and a ring. I pray you guys have a wonderful life as husband and wife and that your love remains the samefor years to come. Trust in the Lord and he will direct your paths.

-A. Beasley

Clyde & Charity:

Best of luck in your lives as you travel through the emotional rollercoaster called marriage. Trust me it is a beautiful thing, Never, Never give up on each other, no matter what may come, cause God will never give up on the both of you.

Stay in Love

Always Kiss

and

Treat each other like you are a FAMILY.

-Felecia Rice Brown

Hi Clyde,

I wish you would have given a shot out to Grand Rapids, Michigan. Your roots are here, family and friends!!!! But don't worry - we got your back!!!!

-L.C. Grand Rapids, MI>

Greeting, my marriage adivice is good communication between husband and wife.

Being able to share each other thoughts, and ideals.

Meaning not in one ear and out of the other ear. Be blessed.

Greater Mount Calvary Holy Church Washington, DC

-Les Hill

You guys were my favorite of all the couples. Your genuine connection shines. I have been happily married for 13 years, my husband and I dated for 4 years before we moved forward and we haven't look back since. Much happiness to you all.

-Pepper S.

Clyde & Charity,

I send my sincerest best wishes to you on your upcoming marriage & wedding. Your story touched my heart and I pray for God's great blessing on your lives.

-Krista Davis

You guys are better than Carmen and Greg. Charity, you seem so sincere. I was suppose to vote for Carmen and Greg, but I can't. Clyde, you did a wonderful job with your proposal.

You guys have my vote!

-Detroit, MI.

I hope you win! Although, it looks as though you already have a winning life. God bless you and your fiance Clyde.

Lisa Tilson

King Pharmaceuticals

Denver Colorado

-Lisa

Congratulations to you Clyde & Charity!!!! I know what it is to be in love with your soulmate!!! I am happy to vote for you! Grab a hold of each other's hand and enjoy the journey! God Bless!!

-Minnie

The reason I'm voting for you'll is that first you'll were friends first, second you'll are a beautiful couple, third you both have patience and last but not least she loves your son from a previous relationship which says alot for her as a young woman. You'll seem to cmmunicate very well together and that is the key to a good marriage. Hope you guys win.

God Bless

Carla A.

Baton Rouge, LA

-carlaanyaele@bellsouth.net

CONGRATULATION TO A LOVELY COUPLE MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BE THE HEAD OF YOUR LIFE

-DOMINIQUE

I voted for you both and I hope you win. Charity, you seemed so surprised and happy when Clyde proposed to you. It was a beautiful proposal. The fact that you have been friends for so long only enhances your relationship. I congratulate you both and wishyou the absolute BEST as you begin your lives together. God bless. :)

-Liz

You guys have the best part of the relationship on your side. "Friendship"! That in itself is foundation to make it through. Continue to keep your heavenly Father in the midst of your lives collectively.

-Katrina B.

CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU BOTH CLYLE / CHARITY

-DONNA P.

Congratulations and may God bless you both. Love is such a beautiful thing. You both are truly blessed.

-LRS

May God bless your union and Remember to put God first to make the marriage last! Fellow GMCHC member.

-Renee

Clyde & Charity:

I was so happy to vote for you all and I am believing God for you to win. Praise God! Clyede's proposal was awesome and your response was too. This is the year of overflow, your jubilee and I just know you are Christians. So walk in your victory and your DESTINY. Love in Christ Frankyemae, Ministry Through Anointed Music

-Frankyemae F. Daley

Congratulations

-Shaye

The bible says KJV Proverbs 18:22

Whoso findeth a good wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.

Nothing to add to this one... Many many years of peace, love, wealth, health and most of all favour....

-Dee -Hartford CT

Congrads!!! I'm a coworker of Alonda (Charity's friend). I saw your story on TV.

-Varbah

CLYDE ....CLYDE ......CLYDE 13YEARS IT ONLY TOOK ME 30 SECONDS TO SEE THE BEAUTY AND THE LOVE SHE HELD FOR YOU IN HER HEART WITH THAT EVER SO PRECIOUS

YES......MAY YOUR 13YEARS TURN INTO 133 YEARS GOODLUCK IN LIFE AND IN MARRIAGE

GOD BLESS

-KLASSYLDYK

Congrats Cook I peeped the show on tv 1 last night im glad that it came on during the super bowl halftime show. I hope that clyde and you win, my fingertips have been sore from all of the voting. Oh yeah sorry about your Patriots.HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-Brandon Davis Your lil cuz

I will you both the best that God and life has to offer.

Whatever you do, Keep the Honey in the Honeymoon!

On the serious side, it's not who is right or wrong in marriage - it should always be what does the Bible say.....

Remember marriage is about - What is for the good of the family - that covers everybody -

husband, wife and children

It will never be 50/50 in marriage. Sometimes it will be 60/40, 70/30, 75/25 - it will be a learning experience as you grow and learn to compromise as one. But love is always kind.

-Sonja Drumgoole, AARP

Clyde that was smooth. I like the way you got Charity off guard and the response of love. I wish you both the very best as you move forward.

-Bear

You two are my favorite couple......i loved the proposal, you make a very lovely couple...I wish you much love, happiness & success. May our God continue to "Richly Bless" you both

P.S. Charity, i think you would look like a Princess in dress #7

Be Blessed Always

-Carmen, Atlanta

Wishing you both God's blessings and guidance.......for many years to com

-Janet

I sent the wrong post to you about the spelling part... opps sorry,, ( smile).. There was a glare on my screen and as I was fixing it, I re read it again......

Hope you understand I ment no harm.. Good Luck ..

-Teresa

I just want to say that you spelled Friends"" wrong, however that did not stop me from voting for you. (smile). I also would like to say that being good friends with one another for that long period of time speaks in great volume...!! ^ 5 to you both..

I do think that you 2 had the 'best' , one because one you put essence into your plan and two because she was really surprised!!

Again, I wish you both the best of luck..

-Teresa

Clyde & Charity,

I just wanted to tell you both, I wish you many years of marital bliss. And my advice to each couple will be, 'Never go to bed mad'. :-) I've been down this road twice, but it always warms my heart to see such loving couples. I'm normally not a cry baby, but all of your videos had me in tears. Good luck to you both.

-Toni Whitted, Japan

CUTE Couple, I know that you guys get that a lot! God Bless you now and into your future together!

-Shacq-Texas

Clyde&Charity,

May God Bless you abundantly. you both have such a huge personnality and that will take you through even the roughest times.

All the best,

-KJ NYC

Hello Guys I got the link from a friend and your proposal made me want to cry. Gook luck.

-SCSU 2000

I feel your story is beautfiul and inspiring, good luck in the future and may God continue to bless you and your family!

-Sheri

Charity, of all the young women that were proposed to,the love that you had for Clyde was felt through the video.It did my heart a wealth of good to see such an attractive couple so very much in love with each other.May God continue to Bless you and the love you have for each other.

-Walterine K. Banks

The best things in life are worth waiting for as you both can attest. At first I was taken back by the years, but when I saw and heard Clyde as was being fitted I realized it was necessary. This man not only took his time to pursue this relationship, but he seems smooth and sure that he is ready for this commitment. Patience is lacking in so many relationships, you all are on your way at a pace that's "slow but steady".

God Bless You,

M. Rogers

-Anonymous

Clyde & Charity,

We pray God's blessings and favor upon you both. We are praying for your successful win! Though it has been many years Clyde, since your mom and dad would bring you all to Joliet, Il. from Grand Rapids, we still recall those fond memories. Say hello to Joyce and Clyde for us.

Once again, God bless you in this blessed endeavor.

Cousin William (Scoopy) and Dorothy

-Scoopy and Dorothy Arrington

Wow! you guys really have a love story. Especially how you care about hisson Charity you are a wonderful person for that. I wish you both the very best that life has to offer.

-Anonymous

Clyde & Charity,

All of Calvary nation pray that you two have a long and prosperous marriage.

God Bless You Both!!!

-Kerry-Ann

Clyde the way you asked for Charity's hand in marriage was very romantic. Charity had tears in her eyes. She will always cherish that day . Always be there for one another.

-Denise

Dear Clyde & charity

good day i pray tat you both will win out of all the couples you both start out right

you welcome the presence of God in your gaterig . i love that so my family,s vote for the both of you

-Anonymous

YOU THE MAN CLYDE.

ALL THE BEST AND GOD BE WITH YOU BOTH FOR EVER AND EVER.

ALL WAYS REMEMBER,KEEP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING NOW .

AFTER YOUR MARRIED, AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MARRIED

From The Sunny Island Of Bermuda.

-Stephen Woodley Sr

Hello Clyde and Charity

I just wanted to say I wish you both the best. Go WASHINGTON!

good luck.

-Carolyn

GOOD LUCK!

-Anonymous

THE PROPOSAL WAS BEAUTIFUL.I LOVE THE MAKEOVER IS WAS HOTT!!!! CHARITY AND CLYDE YOU LOOK LIKE THE PERFECT COUPLE.GOOD LUCK!

-DEDRA

I thought that the proposal was really beautiful and the fact that you were friends first is a really beautiful thing . I wish so much success, happiness, and love with your future marriage.Good Luck and God Bless.

-Beverly

after watchin your proposal Clyde all i can say is two thumbs up!!! Charity's response to it all was the best and a bit comical;0) this was one of the best and unique proposals i have witnessed, i wish u both another 13 years (and more) of love, happiness and understanding as well as lots of laughter good luck be blessed and stay beutiful!!!

-Trina

Good Luck nephew You r a winner! Put it down 4 the GR She is fine 2.

-Rodney Cancler

I love the way you guys love each other! The love you two share was so apparent and genuine in Charity's response to simply the sight of you. I love your spirit Charity, and I pray nothing but the most abundant blessings God has to give upon your union; )

-Anji

May God continue to be the head of your lives. I wish you much happiness.

-cheryl

I was in the book store glancing at the magazine when I read your proposal, I was smitten.I was compelled to go online and vote for you guys. Regardless of the outcome of this contest I wish you all the best. My parents have been married for over 40 years, they have taught me that the key to a successful marriage is perserverance. Although, they fight like cats and dogs, they can't live without each other. They have endured there fair share of trials and tribulations but through it all they remained committed. Please do the same. I wish you both the very best. You're my favorite :) I am rooting for you guys.

-Fatuma

Hey Cuz,

I'm still praying and voting!

God Bless

-Paulette

I couldn't hold back my tears as I watched the proposal. I pray for peace and love for many years to come.

-Shirley Canada

I loved this proposal. I cried watching most of them but this one touched my heart. Plus I love your background of being friends for that long. I wish you both the best. You got my vote

-Aubrey

Congrats Clyde and Charity.....from a fellow Bison! I love BLACK LOVE!

-HU Alumnae (A Fox...C/O 94)

I can't wait for the wedding!!!! I love you Cookie!!!!

-LaKeba White and the Boys-Macon, GA

Congratulations Clyde! Wishing you and your future wife much happiness and joy!

HU Alum

-Mecole

Hi,

A dear friend of mine told me about your proposal, and i was moved to vote for the both of you.

May the Lord Jesus bless your union.

Bennie Jones

Charlotte, North Carolina

-Bennie Jones