Solange Knowles: Flying Solo
The R&B star talks exclusively to Essence.com about motherhood, her music and the mystery surrounding her marriage


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For the record, Solange Knowles, 21, is more than just Beyoncé’s younger sister. She’s more than the daughter of the mastermind behind arguably the biggest girl group in musical history. And yes, she's more than the rising teen star who married and became a mother in less than a year. Miss Solange wants it known that she’s also outspoken, artistic and fearless. Here Essence.com chats one-on-one with the songwriter-musician-actress-model-mother about those plastic surgery rumors, her relationship with Lil Wayne and why big sis “B” is no competition.

ESSENCE.com: As you know there’s a lot of mystery surrounding your relationship with your husband, Daniel Smith, so let’s just go ahead and get that out of the way. Are you still married?

Solange Knowles:
Well, I am no longer married, but I think it’s very important not to dish details. We are friends and we coparent our son. When he gets older I don’t want him to read anything about me saying anything about his father or vice versa. When there’s a child involved I think the less information given is best.

ESSENCE.com: So just to clear things up, how did you two meet?

S.K.:
We met at a high school party through mutual friends. He was in high school and I was 13 and in middle school. We were together seven years, so it wasn’t just some random guy. We were basically high school sweethearts.

ESSENCE.com: Do you have any regrets about the situation? Did you feel forced or pressured to get married?

S.K.:
No, I think every decision has made me who I am today. I’ve embraced everything because I know that only God can give life, no one else. I’m happy that I have a beautiful, wonderful, amazing child who’s made me a better person.

ESSENCE.com: Speaking of which, let’s talk about little Daniel Julez. How old is he now? Is he talking?

S.K.:
Oh gosh, yes, he’s more than talking and has a smart mouth already. He’ll be 3 this month.

ESSENCE.com: Considering the talent that runs in your family, do you think he’s headed for the industry?

S.K.:
Unfortunately, it seems like something he’s interested in. He really likes the limelight.

ESSENCE.com: He made an appearance on the Today Show with you to promote Baby Jamz. What is it and how did that come about?

S.K.:
Baby Jamz is a passion project for me inspired by my son, who loves hip-hop music. I wanted to do a children’s album, which I talked about in the media a couple of times. This toy company that wanted to launch an urban toy line reached out to my father about me. I ended up giving them a lot of ideas and became an executive on the account. I had to go to Bentonville, Arkansas (Wal-Mart’s headquarters), put on my suit and make this presentation. It was really cool for me and good training as an executive. (These toys are available exclusively at Wal-Mart.)

ESSENCE.com: So does your son actually play with the toys?

S.K.:
Oh, absolutely. And I’m kind of sick of hearing my voice on them.

ESSENCE.com: With all the work you’ve done with children’s entertainment, do you consider yourself a role model?

S.K.:
Some people might say I can’t call myself a role model, having a son so young or doing whatever, but I hope people can look at the good things I do and learn from them. I don’t exactly aspire to be a role model for young girls, though. I think that puts too much pressure on you, and the minute you say you want to be a role model is the minute you’re going to have fingers pointed at you. At the end of the day, I just do the best I can.

ESSENCE.com: You’re working on a new album—how’s the record coming along and what can people expect?

S.K.:
It’s titled Solange & The Hadley Street Dreams, and the sound of the record is very unique. It’s a melting pot of old sixties and seventies soul mixed with electronica. I wasn’t going to do another record because I didn’t want to be in the limelight. I liked staying home with my son and expressing myself through writing. But things happened in my life that I wanted to discuss and vent about, so that’s how the record came about.

ESSENCE.com: Would you say it’s different from your debut album, Solo Star ?

S.K.:Definitely because I was young when I recorded my first record. I knew what kind of artist I wanted to be, but I didn’t know how to carry it out. And I wasn’t brave enough to carry it out because I was more concerned with pleasing my label. For this record, I was blessed to go in the studio without anyone else’s direction. I think the reason I’m able to do this record is because I’m more confident in myself. I don’t have to feed into anybody’s expectations of me. You have to know when to say no and when it’s worth it to say yes.

ESSENCE.com: So have you written most of this album? Who else have you written for?

S.K.:
I cowrote “Upgrade U” and “Get Me Bodied” on my sister’s record, and I have a song on Kelly’s album called “Love.” I also did a couple of commercial works for Wal-Mart and L’Oréal. I recently signed a publishing deal with EMI and they are definitely putting me to work. And I’ve written 80 to 90 percent of everything on my new album. The one cowrite I do have is with (R&B singer) Bilal. Other than him, I have Q-Tip on the record, who is someone I grew up admiring as an artist, and I have a song with Marsha Ambrosius from Floetry.

For more on what's next for Solange and her response to the plastic surgery and Lil' Wayne rumors continue to the next page. »

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Karli me enjoying Kellys first album has nothing to do with the sales. My 2 degrgees back up my ability to express what I like and not what everyone else likes. Yet another person who would rather argue and talk about someone then use comprehensive reading skills and respond accordingly. Both of Kelly's albums have flopped but that has nothing to do with the music being great. There are plenty of singers who have real talent and get overlooked for someone more popular. That doesnt mean the music isn't great! Pay more attenti

-Ananda

I really feel that whether Solonge married becasue she was in love or if it was just because of the baby she really seems to have a good head on her shoulders. She talks better than alot of women older than her black or white. I say, leave her alone and let her raise her child. Everyone has things that they've done,past or present.. Let her do her.. Stop criticizing everything a celeb does and remember if they didn't have all the money and fame they probaly would be YOU!!

-Bianca

Solange and Beyonce are human and they have feelings. They are just living their lives. No one should have to read the awful things people comment. The energy spent tearing someone down could be used building someone up. Think about if these people were your family and treat them as such. At some point you will have to acknowledge this family knows what to do and has what it takes. They are extremely blessed and highly favored.

-Lei--Houston, TX

It is so sad to see how we tear each other down!! We do not stand by or congratulate our own people. God gives us our own talents and we prosper in our season. Look around the Knowles family, regardless of how much you snare and ridicule, are making great names for themselves in every area of the industry. You may not like the people but be proud of the accomplishments. Someday it could be you and you will want the same respect.

-Lei-Houston, TX

Karli- please stop tearing down others...I beleive that you must project the kind of life you want to have. I have known of the Knowles family since the children were little girls and I beleive that the parentS did an excellent job suopporting what their children loved to do. Do not be bitter, your break though will come when you stop hating on others. If someone marries to bring their child into a Holy Union, who are you to question it? We learn from mistakes and make the best of our lives. TRY IT.

-Devola