Girls’ Night In
Overdue for some pampering? Throw a spa party

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After reading the article, I called my friend and next month we will host our own home spa party. We are so excited and hope it will catch on.

Will let you know the results :o)

-cecemom2002@yahoo.com

I am diffenately feeling the Spa party thing. Too many of us African American women are caught up in taking care of our families, and not pampering ourselves. Every African American woman should have the experience of treating herself to a spa treatment at least once a year, or at least once in her lifetime. Come on sisters grab your friends and let's pamer ourselves in 2004!

-Renae Cole

I am so interested in the idea of a spa party for some girl friends of mind. Being a mom, wife ,educator, and friend, I need to relax more. Thank you so much for the idea!!

What a way to relax in the comfort of your own home.

-tlc

Kudos to Essence for covering such a much needed topic. Unfortunately most women, especially black women, put everything before nuturing themselves. Fortunately, my home-based business educates women on loving their bodies and knowing their minds whilecelebrating their spirits in a spa-like environment has a welcomed change!

-Charitta@hotmail.com

I am an owner of a small business selling Spa Homemade products. It is a way of educating sisters to the power of relaxation and romance.

-Ashlyn0@rogers.com

I'm diffenately feeling Spa parties, it gives you a chance to relax, especially when you have had a hard week or month.I love to pamper myself.You have to do you because if you dont noone eles will.

-Latricia Cannon

yall are very crazy women

-charm

I highly recommend Tranquil Nature Healing Therapy tranquilnature@hotmail.com for DC/MD area mobile pampering services.For my sisters upcoming big 42 we are having facials, massages, man/ped and brow waxing services.They were great the two parties we hadbefore (1 was a kiddie p.p) and we can't wait for April for our 3rd.

-Constance G. from Upper Marlboro MD

AWESOME SERVICE, FRIENDLY AND REASONABLE.

I recently had a kiddie pamper party for my 11 year old daughter and 8 of her friends in October. They had a ball getting their seated massages, mani/pedicures with a cute design and received the cutest little gift bags from the therapists. You have to book 2-3 weeks in advance. They have packages or an a la carte menu so everyone does not have to get the same service.I have booked my 42 bday with them for 10 of my sistafriends in April.I can't wait! My daughter keeps talking a

-Jayla G. from New Carrolton,MD

Hello,

My coworkers and I are looking for african american oriented spas in the midwest or west coast. Might you have a listing?

-Carleen Hall-Miranda

A spa party sounds great. I think that having a few hours of pampering without children or signicant others is what we need to rejuveniate ourselves. If any men are reading this, you should consider something like this for the fellas.

-Kim P.

Wow!!! Iam soo excited.. I am a spa goer so to speak. I have never thought of have a spa party..Ladies I'm going to try it.. I'll let you know how it went. I will tell that I'm going to steal some of your ideas and themes...


-Kelly -NJ

I think that spa parties is a

wonderful idea. It gives us

women a chance to get away from an everyday routine, from

being an employee,to a mom, to

a wife. GREAT IDEA!

-Angela Thomas

I am getting married this year and I think I will go this route for a bridal party instead of a slumber party or strippers.

-Shawonna

I think that this is an excellent idea. My friends and I are always looking for new to do and this is definelty on our list. Thanks for idea.

-Makeba J.Wilson

This article is great information. My daughter is getting married this year and this would be a wonderful change from the traditional shower. I think I will do it as a gift to her female bridal party.

-Mikki

Pamper Party

January 11,2004

3:30-9:00pm

Pedicures Facials, Massage, Manicures, Etc

Refreshments served

Tickets 65.00

Hair Dew's & Cutts salon

529 University Pkway

Contact Nicole 708-534-1083

Cell 708-268-4047

-Nicole Sudberry

Essence,

We as sisters need to learn to pamper our selves. As a health and beauty practioner I promote relaxation and stress management. We carry the weight of the world on our shoulders, we care for the family, we make the bacon and fry it. We MUST realize we need to take care of ourselves. I give my clients the assignment of finding 30 minutes per day and do something for only themselves. Some of us are so busy we for get to eat. Sisters SLOW DOWN!!!

If anyone is interested in attending a pamper party in the Chicago So

-Nicole Sudberry

This is a confirmation article for me. About 4yrs ago I saw a article in Instyle magazine about a in-home spa party, and I have been trying to put together a spa team to go to people's homes and provide service to them. I finally made it up in my mind this year that I was going to start out with just myself and a partner, to provide services to people who would love getting services in their home. I see this as a new trend for women and men. This is really going to take off in the next couple months. Forany one that has bee

-Nikki George

I feel it would be a great healing/bonding event.

-Angela Wright

I think this is a wonderful idea and I would like to host one at a friends home in New Jersey. Please let me know more about the package for $85 for all three things.

-Monique

Massages are awesome! It gives relaxation like nothing else.

-Tonya Jennings

I think this is a wonderful idea. For many women of color, who might not be working professionals or young and adventuresome, this is an excellent opportunity to release some of the stress of everyday enviroments and pamper onesself. Hats off!!!

-Evelyn

I think it is a very good idea, too often we neglect ourselves or only limit ourselves to a trip to the hair and nail salon. I've considered throwing a spa party and the article offered good tips and money savers!

-Therese

Dear Essence: Can you recommend a spay in Atlanta, GA (black owned) that my friend and I can go to? My friends and I are planning a day of pampering ourselves and we want to meet in Atlanta. I would really appreciate this information.

-Marcia

My girlfriends and I did this very thing about 2 years ago. After pampering ourselves at a friend's home, we had brunch and then the reserved limo arrived to take us to the Chart House restaurant from Essex County, NJ for coffee and dessert. We returned to her home and we shared our stories. Coming together, we didn't know everyone but, in the wee hours of the morning, new friendships had been made and are still going strong.

"Ladies Night Out" was the theme and it was very uplifting and inspiring.

-Anita Dee

I really recommend the spa parties... I also recommend a wonderful massage therapist here in the Washington, Virginia, Maryland Area.... You can check him out on his website. Euphoric_Vibe@blackplanet.com.... You won't regret it... Very reasonable....

-LaTrice

Spa Parties are a great idea! I can't wait to throw my own. I just need to find a good resonable pedicurist & massage therapist in the DC area. Thanks Essence once again for such a fantastic idea!

-Tina

My best friend and I hosted a birthday spa reunion party this past summer for some of our college friends. We reserved a hotel suite, I catered a lite lunch,and we relaxed and enjoyed each others company. I did personal invitations in pink and white, with the theme, "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun". I also had t-shirts designed with a pink multi-colored butterfly in it's center along with the theme name. We hired a massage therapist for body and foot massages. Later that night we went out to a nice Italian restaurant for dinn

-Audrey

My Sisterfriends and I have enjoyed many home pampering parties. We even encorporated our last bash with my birhtday and had a ball. Everyone is invited to bring a dish or beverage and we hire black-owned operators and specialists who provide all kinds of spa treatments. The music is normally jazz and there are plenty of candles and flowers in abundance. It's a very beautiful experience to behold and be part of. More sisters should experience such pleasure to our seneses.

-June

My mother had a pamper party at her home in Corona, Ca for her 40th birthday and it was wonderful. It was about 20 women (family & friends) and we had massages, back scrubs, manicures and pedicures with parafin and so on. It was a pleasurable day and I would definately recommend it.

-Janaia Rhea

This is something different. A type of party I am interested being a part of or giving myself.

-Kimberly Best

GREAT IDEA & ARTICLE WE JUST HAD A SPA PARTY & ARE GETTING READY FOR 2 MORE.

-DEBBIE EDWARDSFROM THE BRONX

I did not know that the spa parties are getting so big..I am thinking have having one for my sisters and some of my friends....I have a five person hot tub and sauna in my home and am looking forward to sharing the luxury with some other deserving sistahs!!!! Thanks for the ideas!!!! I'll let you know how it turns out!!!

-L. R. King

i love "the spa slash sisterhood" idea. i have tried it and loved it!

-bj

I had a papper party for my sister's one year on my birthday and it was lots of fun. They flew to Calif. from New Orleans and we made a full day of it. We chose the treatments we wanted and the Therapists' accommodated our request, we all had differentneeds at the time. I would suggest this to anyone wishing to spend some time with friends or family it was just 4 of us.

-Trina Rhea-Turner

Great Idea...I'm definitely into pamper parties.

-Denise from Detroit