Rick Fox: Lessons in Love
Former NBA hoopster Rick Fox shares his lessons in love and life in Tyler Perry’s latest romantic dramedy, Meet the Browns

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I hate that this happened. They looked good together. I know that. I think this is bad news. It is just awful. I believe that the too much mixing in the races humungously all over the world is just awful. Rd. Isaiah 13 & 14. I think that he should come back to Vanessa and ask her for forgiveness with Jesus Christ. I believe he'll be back. Because a white woman takes your freedom away. I believe. A white woman nags a lot and is very spoil. Also. But marriages are hard to keep together. Someone gets tired of the other person a

-Michael

Didn't he cheat on Vanessa with a white girl? please what heart or whose was broken. I am sure Vanessa is not bitter so why should he claim to have a broken heart. how about that R. Kelly it is about time he went to prison we black folk are so willingto rave about the pimps and rap artists (it is all about money). We admire the wrong things and how that girl's family pimped her is shamefull.

-Shakeria

My hubby and I saw the film recently and thought Rick Fox was an excellent leading man. Keep it up and hope to see you on the big screen again very soon.

-a new fan in DC

Well, I have seen this movie 5 times. I just loved Harry (and his wonderful teeth), he is my ideal man.

Hope, Houston

-Anonymous

Rick Fox! You are the bomb! You impressed me in this movie. I forgot the fact you were in the NBA. When you can leave an impression like that, that means your acting skills are phenominal!

-Kendra in VA

Dear Rick,

You being given a opportunity to play a major role in a film shows the genius of Tyler Perry.

You showed a true, genuine interest in acting and it was a success. I must admit I didn't expect much because I felt you were probably selected because of your being a heartthrob, but

never did I expect to see a totally commited Rick

Fox. I hope you continue to be all you can be in

this craft and wish you continued happiness.

-A new fan

Hello, Rick,

I am truly touched by your introspection, via

your role in this new film. I was wondering

what happened to end your marriage to Vanessa.

Reading between your comments, I figured it out.

Now, that you have a clearer understanding of

who you are and what you feel, perhaps you will

find your way back to Vanessa and your family.

Peace and Blessings,


-Lynn Moore, Washington, DC

Rick-

Who says you can't get it all in one packaged? The Genius of Tyler Perry packaged you just as every woman dreams; A man who loves God, caring, intelligent, tender, and handsome. My girls and I check out the movie last night and we were all swooning! You were the perfect leading man Rick. I called you our new "Dark Gable". Best of luck to you and I hope to see more of your acting expertise.


-Avis Harrell - Hollywood CA

Just in case you were wondering how you did in the movie..Meet the Browns..You were awesome!! Not only because of your beautiful smile and those pearly whites but because of what you brought to the character.. The compassion, and geniune care and concern that you showed to Angela and her kids was really touching.. Good luck with future endeavors, we will be watching...

-Christy(Dallas, TX)

CONGRATULATIONS RICK FOX I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU AND I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST WITH THIS MOVIE AND IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.

I AM ALSO VERY PROUD TO CALL YOU FAMILY,

LOVE, YOUR COUSIN, PATRICE FOX

Toronto, Canada

pfox32@hotmail.com


-Patrice Fox

wow! you put it out there it take a man with a true heart to share his feelings. you just spoke up for a lot of men and, women who doesn't come foward because it's hard to do. i'm just glad you were able to find peace in your mind and heart.GOODLUCK!!!!

-artresha rusher

Okay, I am in love! LOL Rick Fox, I have always admired you as a basketball player, and have seen you act on some TV shows, of which you did well... but the role you bring to life on film......PHENOMENAL!!!! You did such a wonderful job and I am happy tohave come across this interview to see what type of person you are...PHENOMENAL!! LOL So glad your career is on it's way and that you have started to heal from your past relationship. I hope God continues to bless and keep you. By the way, you are still a pretty pretty boy.

-Faith, Southfield, Mi.

Wow! I both learned and enjoyed this interview to the fullest. It was a true inspiration. I truly agree with you when you say there is something about experiences. There is a voice and a lesson in each and every one of them. I can also relate to your career. I had a career in law enforcement. You say goodbye to certain things in life, but deep down inside that love hasn't. I was married on May 19th of 2007, and had my son on August 27th of the same year. Well, because of my love, dedication, and loyalty to my wife, and daugh

-Terrence Parker, Oakland CA

Congratulation Rick Fox your interview is a true reflection of growrh, you open your heart you are a fine young man. Good luck an much success, I know this is not be the last movie.

-Jackie Vaughn/San Jose Ca

CONGRATULATIONS RICK FOX I'M SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT YOU'RE FINDING YOURSELF IN LOVE AND LIFE. I'M SO HAPPY THAT TYLER PERRY GAVE YOU YOUR BREAK BECAUSE, YOU DESERVE THAT AND SO MUCH MORE. KNOW THAT ANYTHING THAT TYLER PERRY PUTS HIS HANDS ON TURNS TO GOLD. YOU'RE SO VERY HANDSOME AND I WISH NOTHING BUT, THE BEST FOR YOU IN YOUR LIFE ALWAYS AND FOREVER. REMEMBER TO JUST HAVE FAITH, BELIEVE IN THE LORDS POWER TO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN AND JUST OPEN YOUR HEART TO LOVE AGAIN.

-Laryssa in L'ville GA

Mr. Fox's interview is a true reflection of his personal growth, wisdom, and humility. I don't think he was "trying to sound nice and humble" but I feel he spoke from his heart and soul. Mr. Fox, God bless you!


-Michelle M., Minneapolis, MN

alright rick..you are a beautiful person very wisdom knowing the medicine to take to continue on in life..keep bringing it on rick

-tracy

Congrats to Rick,he is one of the finest men in the world.Keep on playing him in your pictures,that sure will keep alot of women watching.

-Barbara,,DavidsonN.C.

I love the interview with Mr. Fox. It's nice to be reminded that a superstar "Pretty Boy" such as Rick is still a REAL MAN! Where have you been all my life? :) I can't wait until the 21st to go see the movie! Best of luck to the entire cast.

-Angela L. Brown, Severn, MD

Congrats to Rick. We need more handome men on the big screen. Good Luck!

-Wanda Ransom Ft. Worth

hats off to Tyler who knows how to peak an interest embracally that your bond to look twice, and with this star studd movie of fine talented people til our peekness just say ahaa that the movie to watch for some culture. Good job well done.

-Dee

Mr. Fox

Great job about admitting your feeling, and especially when admitting one has been hurt, keep up the good job in your career.

god bles

LaDonna

-Anonymous

I was truly inspired by the interview with Rick Fox. I can really relate to every word becuase I have been there done that. Kind of make you feel a little tingle when you hear that the Fab and Famous are really down to earth folks with the same issues,situations and circumstances as ordinary people.

As Always, Be Blessed.


-VA FROM VA

Riiick..callll meee!!!!

-Tisha

WOW! I'm really impressed. There is so much more to the man than I ever thought. I know there is more to be revealed. I'm not a Lakers fan but I do like Rick Fox much better now. I'll be at the window when the box-office opens next Friday.

Thanks Essence!

-Felicia in Killeen, TX.

What a wonderful and inspiring interview with Mr. Fox. I can some what relate to his pain and understand how difficult it is to trust and love again. I wish the best for he and his family. May God continue to smile upon you.


-Cherish

Rick loved the interview. Nice to hear from a man's point of view about knowing love is out there waiting for you if you just get past your fears. Do not give up on love it will come in time. I can't wait to see the movie, am a huge fan of Tyler Perry because I know he he always going to bring something real to the screen. Good Luck!!

-Pam, Atlanta, Ga.

Rick, you are a great guy to admit that man have feeling also, I have been hurt in my life and I feel some of the same things you talked about. It took me a long time to forgive and move on. I think ther is love out there, it got to be with the right person.

I'm looking forward to seeing your movie. I will do anything if I could meet you and Mr. Perry in person, I think you both are doing a wonderful job. Keep up the good work.

Have a Bless Day!

MD

-Marie of Jackson,Ms

Great interview. The message was positive. And, in a very limited way, the readers learn a little something revealing and personal about Rick Fox which helps to humanizes him.

-flj

Nice interview. Mr. Fox is a very wise man. I can't wait to see this one - I just love Tyler Perry's movies; the messages are good and the people are beautiful! And who could resist watching Mr. Fox fall in love? Not me! :-D

-tracey k. in ohio

Rick, you sound like a well-rounded individual. Going thru pain helps you appreciate the joys of life . . . and if I wasn't so much older than you I'd !!! . . . wit yo fine self!!! (smile)

God Bless You, I wish you much success in your acting career. LAdams, California

-Anonymous

Loved the interview Rick. It's true learning,accepting and dealing w/past relationships is very healthy for dealing w/future one's.

-Joy

Hi Rick if you are reading this thanks for your wise words. Sometimes it takes someone else to form the words correctly of what another is thinking or feeling (like in song) I totally relate to this article (the parts on divorce / dealing with it and thefeelings that come, good or bad) and I look forward to seeing you in the movie. Stay Blessed and look me up

!Real Talk!

-*Tru*

Too bad things didn't work out with him & Vanessa. Rick is a Fox! Tyler Perry picks the best apples out the bunch. He can't give them all a role, but he's doing his best at it. Thank you Tyler. I will never get tired of your movies.

-Atl, GA