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Here are three beautiful, accomplished, dignified SINGLE Black women. I am aware numbers can be skewed to present a dire condition when taken in a broader context, the numbers do not reflect the catastrophy initial reports may want us to believe. However, I looked at this article and was reminded again... there is one number that certainly requires every Black woman and man to stand up and take notice... Where are the next generation of educated, Black men and women, joined in a husband, wife and childunit --- the CORNE

-Where is Mom and Dad?

Yes, I understand that I'm a little late on reading this article! But anyways....I just wanted to say to all three of you young ladies that I really admire you all! I think you're very talented, gifted, and blessed! I'm only 22, but reading some of the things you all have said as far as your career, and being a black female in the business that you are in, I can also vouch and say that it is hard and stressful at times! I know I have my whole life ahead of me (considering that I want to be an Accountant and hopefully an Exec

-Natalie/Georgia

Sanaa Lathan is the woman for me. I would love to have a date with her. I'm not a star, or rich. But I have unconditional love for her. Your man. tracy.burroughs@us.army.mil

-TKO

I think celebrities are entitled to their own privacy just like we are as normal people. We should not depend on them to be role models for our children. We should be doing that ourselves. I also think if the media is going to report on all the negative things in celebrities lives, they should also report on the positive aspects.

-Cortney/Mississippi

Thank you essence for putting Nia Long, Gabrielle Union, and Sanaa Latham on your cover! It was so refreshing to see three young, beautiful, talented and accomplished young actresses gracing the cover of a national magazine. The only thing that was better was their wonderful interview inside. Please continue to showcase the beauty and talent of young African-American women who are positive and inspiring!

-C.J.

Search for new talent. I have a son Antonio Thompson Jr. who has talent in singing, dancing and acting. I need help with contact.

-Wanda Williams

Oprah has had Sanaa Lathan on her show more than once...the last time was after Something New had been out for a while and Oprah was featuring interacial marriage. It would have been better if Oprah had given Sanaa a forum to promote the movie earlier but many were not touching Sanaa at the time because of the rumors that Had reached a fever pitch about her and Denzel and aa love child.

-Barbara Love

I do not believe that celebs should have to give up their lives. They also need their privacy. there is one thing that we as fans, paparazzi, and others fail to realize is that celebs are also human just like we are. People generally look for a reasonfor celebs to mess up. all we want to see is this picture perfect image that movies and magazines have given to us. They are capable of making mistakes. Sometimes we are too concern with celebs person life. we forget that there might be someone in our community or even i

-Chastidy

Tameka Raymond- Do not defend your love for Usher. You need to spend this time building a foundation for your family. Spend this time in prayer because the devil and his spirits are working hard to bring you down and your family. I wish you the best and know that I am praying that your marriage remains honorable. Pray instead of defend.There IS a personal attachk against you and many have prophesied that your marriage will not last. A three cord string is not easily broken-allow God to justify you and strengthen you in yo

-lynn

All three of you make me proud to be an African-American woman. Just know that your struggles are our struggles and that makes you special. Just know that not all black women hate you and say mean things about you. You make me proud and want to work hardone more day. You are the African-American dream. I love you for being true to yourself. Thank you for waking up and deciding to have the black experience. You will be triumphant and victorious in 2008. Continue to represent for us all even in the face of adversity. Love you

-lynn

I think all three of you should make a movie together. That would be like the best movie ever. I mean I know there has been some friends movies but that would be awesome because you don't have one together. And believe me most people are just jealous of you that's why they are hating just wish they could be you. I wish I had friends like you guys you seem close. Best of luck to you and lots of love!

-MarKiba

It's not about the money or the job. It's about the person inside. Staying true to person that you are and not letting anyone take that away from you. It was wonderful getting an inside view of how Sanaa, Nia and Gabrielle are. That they (and also myself) are a work in progress. It really doesn't matter what type of work you do, you still run into the same nonsense on any level.

-Lve2laugh

i think you ladies should keep up the good work and hang on to the postive.

-renee

Being a celebrity you give up some of your privacy but not all and I think the paparazi & other so called journalist should respect their privacy at some point. Nia, Sanaa, & Gabrielle, keep up the good work. I love to see your work.

-Robin

Yes they do give up "some" of their privacy because they are in the lime light. Goes with the job/money.

-C Mack

Nia, Sanaa and Gabrielle, you inspired me. I loved the article, you all kept it real, talked honestly about your challenges, fears and aspirations and I could relate. I've always loved Nia (you killed it in Love Jones girl) but this article made me feel a real connection as another sister in her thirties, finding her way. We have more in common than we have differences and we should celebrate that. Keep up the good work Essence!

-Bee Positive

No matter what you do someone will always see something negative in it. Keep up the good work & the positive thinking and may God bless you all.

-T, Scott

I would just like to say that I am an older women and grew up with not a lot of women of color to admire and respect. But I must say that I truly admire and respect Nia, Sanaa and Gabrielle. They are successful, well grounded and beautiful young women of color and have their priorities straight. As far as the controversy of women wearing weaves v. natural. I myself do not wear extensions or weaves but I do relax my hair. We are all different and should celebrate those differences not hate on them. I could care less what

-dimps1

Tameka you are delusional. Where do you get off saying we black women don't like ourselves. The reason why you received gotten so much negative energy..is because people don't like your character...leaving your husband for usher and causing a rift in his relationship with his mother. if you where a respectable sister everyone would wish you well. Usher scrape the bottom of the barrel with you.

-Midwest Sista

I agree Tameka, if you looked like Beyonce, Halle, J-Lo, Keys WHITE magazines would vote you most beautiful. I think you rep what Usher has always loved chocolate sistas but I still think you're too old with too much baggage...speaking as a mother!!!! The marriage won't last. I know! Gabrielle started as a model with no acting experience so she's doing the movies she should be doing. Nia and Sanna have TALENT!

-B-more Girl

I say we're not doing too bad. Look what the white girls/women have as an example of beauty and how to be a lady. Paris Hilton, Nicole Richie, Lindsey Lohan, and the best of all mommy of the year Brittany Spears. I'll look to Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle any day. One thing about it Nia didn't get pregnant to keep a wanna be rapper like Brittany. Neither Sanaa or Gabrielle have been in rehab once a month. Nor do any of them have a sex tape floating around.

-Something to think about

So I wonder what does Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle have to do to prove to the black community that they are black enough? According to other bloggers the weave means they are trying to prove themselves to the white media. So because they wear weave and maybe they have had a nose job does that alone mean they are not in touch with themselves? Since when does weave mean you don't love yourself? Does loving oneself look the same for everyone? To coin a phrase from someone I know "JUST DO YOU BOO" Whatever thatlooks like. Unbeweav

-Mo ni que

Hey what's with the weave vs natural hair debate? Why does one have to be bad and misrepresenting and the other is automatically better. I've just come out of wearing my hair natural in 2 strand twist for like 2yrs. I also experimented with extension twist which required that I have hair added to my hair. Right now I'm wearing my hair press and curl. I just see these differences as options for women to change up their style. Not good or bad just options. That's what being a women is about, the option to change your mind.

-Let's embrace our differences

Oh My God one blogger actually thinks that her $8 she spends at the show to see an actors performance means she owns that actress and she should be at the publics beck and call and take pictures upon request no matter what. That's crazy! Everyone needs time to enjoy a meal without interruption. Put yourself in their shoes for a moment. Would you really want to be disturbed every time you went out?

-Where's the Love?

Nia, Sanaa, Gabrielle love you all but you have to start getting in touch with your natural black beauty. stop trying to compete with the white women in Hollywood. The long strait weaves, noise jobs, faded skin, etc.Work on self-love, you don't have toprove yourself to the white media, like you said, they don't care about us anyway. Black people need to stop putting each other down, we need to bond together, support each other, and stop writing derogatory, pathetic comments about each other on blog. white media does

-Helena

These are 3 of my favorite young actresses, and I love them dearly. I am 64, and I look up to these young women with the utmost respect in all that they do and yes they do deserve a life outside acting, and thank GOD they haven't resorted the antics of the like of Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, and Paris Hilton. I feel they demand respect, and they are black and BEAUTIFUL.

-Alma

all Celebs should... need... their privacy.. I am proud BLACK WOMEN in HOLLYWOOD...whatever negativity ..always stay true to yourselves. Praying and Wishing all three Beautiful Actress a MERRY HAPPY DRAMA-FREE HAPPY NEW YEAR...

-passion

It's so great to see 3 postive,beautiful black women getting along & doing their thing! Much love & luck to all of 3 of them!

-Veronica

Essence did a disservice to all of us by not showing the ladies in their natural beauty. They are all airbrushed with weaves to look like Caucasioan women. I thought Essence was to celebrate blackness. How do you justapose Sanaa not having a chest onthe cover and then show her with a large chest attending the party. It is obvious that Sanaa, though lovely, has had a lot of work done. She had a different nose and no chest duing Love and Basketball

-Johnnie Langley

As human beings we have every right to be private and it is achievable. It is your choice if you choose to open your life to the public or not base on your actions and words. Unfortunately, there are individuals who have nothing else better to do than togossip and makeup superficial stories. I am interest in the story that an actress/actor portray's onscreen not their personal life.

-Madal

Hello, I would like to say that when your a celeb you have to deal with all types of issues of who you are going to date and are you a role model. Yes because you are in the public eye point blank. People are paying attention to you just because of who you are.Postive or negtive roles they still see you. So do not think they are not watching or trying to be like you. Nichole Jackson Of Akron,Ohio Thanks

-Nichole Jackson

Nia, just wanted to let you know that Love Jones did not get the credit it deserved. A classsic! and everyone I know has it in their collection along with Boomerang, Friday, and the Best Man. (You just happen to be in 3 of the 4, wow!)

-Temesia

I think these are some amazing black women and I am really proud to have them to represent the black community with such dignity and class. It is also refreshing to know that they are all in touch with their roots and still have a level head not only remembering but honoring where they came from. I love you guys and keep up the great work! Oh and I also love the support that you give each other.

-Temesia

P.S. I absolutely love all three of the girls...very proud of them.

-Angelita "82 was the Year"

I think that when you become "known", you give up a certain amount of your privacy. It's a silent agreement between yourself and those soon to "know" you. It is just understood that you will be giving small pieces of yourself...it's the cost of being "known". Why would you conseal if you are trying to be noticed??

-Angelita "82 was the Year"

great job essence.please keep bringing us articles on black women doing well for themselves.ignore the negative comments,some black people are never happy to see others succeed.its about time we supported our own.

-Eva Kasapatu

Finally, I am thrilled to see my three favorite female Actresses on the cover of ESSENCE magazine. (Thank You) Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle hold their own DIVA-style individually, yet similarities are vivid. Tabloids are what they are (humorous and hair-raising)...your TRUE fans will support each of you from what is 'Consistent" from you. I see myself in each of them and this article is very inspiring, as it hits home to my trials of moving forward as a single, educated, and professional black woman. At 42, I have great dive

-*Tulip*

I agree that actors deserve their privacy, That's alright all black actresses out, too bad people have to hate on one another like they do. Keep your head up Gabrielle Union cause you lookin good girl.

-Dozen of cousin

don't even know personally, get a life! Better yet, I'll just do like my mother used to always say, "just pray for them honey, cause they just don't have a clue...."

-J. Murphy

don't personally know (and just cause you read every rag magazine on the newstands doesn't mean you actually "know" that person),I have to just shake my head at some of the comments you've posted. So sad, and some just down right ignorant. But then likemy mother used to say, this world is made up of all kinds of people and sometimes you just gotta pray for them, chile, cause they truly don't know "no better"....

-Anonymous

Excellent article! I think all three of these ladies are talented in their own rights, very intelligent and obviously beautiful women period. The one thing I have come to realize from this article is that they are human, just like me, and as such need not be criticize for every dag blasted thing they do! I'll admit there are times when even I get caught up in the glamourous aspects of an entertainers' life, but then I quickly do reality check, and get a grip! To those who seem to relish in the criticism of people you don

-J. Murphy

This was a great article. I related to everything you ladies said, and I'm happy to know ordinary people aren't the only ones who have the in between jobs dilemma. Sometime we get thrown any job just to see how far someone else can get from our hard workand determination. And then in the end we realize settling never gets us what we really want. Continue to thrive ladies.

-perpetualMELODY

I truly can't say what it feels like to be a public figure, but I don't know if I would want to give up my privacy either. Ladies I would like to thank each of you for bringing a little bit of glamour into my life. I may not be able to live the lifestyles that many of you portrait, but it gives me something to dream about. What would life be like without dreams? No one is perfect and I don't think everyone expects you to be either, so don't let them steal your thunder. God Bless You.

-TinyFish2k

I think it's awesome to see these beautiful black women being strong and giving such great advice. Women can be each others worst enemy. It's a shame that hate can spread throughout a community that has done so much to rid itself of hate. I applaud these women for being honest. I love each of their work. From Brown Sugar to Bad boys to Soul Food. They are really great at what they do. Thank you ladies for showing the beauty, class and attitude that black women should be sharing. And to the other writer.....about the w

-Roxie

THANKYOU LIZA!!! I thought I was the only one sick of Beyonce/Monique. Thats why I CANCELLED Essence!Black Enterprise is sooooo much better!

-B-more girl

I HATE all these "I wanna be white" hair styles the black actresses/singers are wearing. Watch "Boomerang" and see when sistas were allowed to have different looks. If you're rich and famous gossip is part of the job. I think its petty when the famous comment on blogs, gosspi etc. At least people are talking about you!!!! I hear too many people get on reality trash for publicity!!!Love these actresses

-B-more girl

I am so glad your girls are friends. In any business its often difficult to cross professional and personal lines. You ladies have an awesome task ahead. Keep looking up.

-You make us proud, Harlem USA

It's about time they put some other people on the magazine. I swear if I see another picture of Beyonce' and Mo'nique I am going to scream. These young sistas have been acting a long time and don't get the credit they deserve. Thanks Essence for choosingto do Sanaa, Nia, and Gabrielle!

-Liza

Blessings N'dada's, Keep looking inward not outward. Love Yourself! Try collaborating with more independent filmmakers like me...:).... Laugh at the haters!

-Nefertina

Drama, You ladies just keep doing what u r doing. People will always hate on you because you r beautiful, black, intelligent women who are holding your own. So, I say let the haters, hate and you all keep it moving. God has a reason for you all and he isnot through with any of you ladies yet, so keep God first in your life and everything else will follow. You Are Beautiful and I enjoy all the movies you all have done!!! Stay focused and strong no matter what happens in life.

-Mrs. Hardy

But I keep it moving because at the end of the day, these ladies are just like me....regular people.

-Keep it Moving

To Drama, How can you say Sanaa not posing is sickening to you? When you go out with your family or friends for a private dinner, you would be annoyed too if someone kept bothering you. These are regular people. Most likely, they are trying to peacefully enjoy a meal or time away from their hectic life, just like the rest of us, so who wants to be bothered. I'm not the type to be "star struck", so if I saw any of them, I would just keep it moving. I have crossed paths with many celebrities in airports, hotels, etc, but

-Keep it moving

I agree that actors deserve their privacy, however, as an apiring actress I realize that I am forcing myself into the spotlight and therefore I have to be strong and prayed up to deal with it. Sanaa's comment that she refused to pose for a photo with a fan while eating dinner is sickening to me. I support her and pay my $8 to see every movie she is in so I think taking thirty seconds from your meal to pose for a photo with me is not to much to ask. If I ever see half the success she has had in this industry I will never

-Drama

Thank God for this ariticle... We talk so much about how "the Man" brings us down and we are looked down by other races. We bring eachother down so much, that you dont even realize that a sista next to you is bringing you down. We sometomes live in to our own stereotype. Plus, what ever somebody do in their house is their own business. People are too worked up on other peoples lives t realize that they need to get some business themselves.I love Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle. Fans for years. Beautiful black women. The sad thing

-Brittay

I think celebrities need their own privacy because they live normal lives just like everyone else by people making up stories about these actresses they oughta be ashamed of themselves naybe if you look at the same people who post these blogs about celebrities are only talking about themselves if I was a superstar I would tell the ''paparazzi'' if you didn't hear it from me then it's not true''

-~Mz.Caramel~

I think the celebs deserve all there privacy... some of the things that I may hear or see ... really I don't want to know... that is your business... I say keep your head up and don't allow people who have no life to bring you down... If they had some business they would not be in yours!!!!

-Blessed

I agree with Gabrielle Union during the course of the last few months i have heard so many somewhat salicious rumors regarding Ms. Union's personal life that it became ridiculous. It seems as though when her marital status changed the gossip mongers cameafter her for living her life. Focus on her movies and let this woman have her privacy.

-Denise Jackson

Ladies, such beautiful ladies. It is sad that society is based on white and black and you know who always get the end of the stick. Black women will never be in the spotlight like Paris, Niccole, and Pamela A., unless there is some negativety involved. Continue doing what you are doing, don't sell yourself short and always be grateful for what GOD has graced you with, beauty and talent and go for what you know. I admire you all for being the few black women that are still trying to make it happen. And for those previ

-Tonya Garris-Kaiserslatern Germany

Unfortunately if you present yourself to be a public figure, you have to expect some negative / untrue press to go along with the territory. As the quote goes, 'if they aint talking about you, you aint hot". And being "hot" is what keeps you in the forefront of possibly getting the "jobs" that they claim are few and far between. As long as they know the difference between what is true and what isn't, don't let what other people say matter. Our mom's taught us that lesson as children. Why isn't it hittinghome with these grow

-Too Old For Drama

i believe that all three ladies are beautiful, and despite what some of the black women are saying, everyone doesn't feel the same.i'm a fan of all of you and wishes you the best in whatever you succeed in. if we all stop trying to put each other down, and stop giving off the bogus negativity towards one another, maybe this world would be a better place to live in. stop being so jealous each other and being haters and start being congradulaters. for those who have the problems with these ladies and therecomments, i guess if

-theresa sanford

I really wanted more from this article. These women complained alot about what they should expect as celebs. Its like the President saying he is tired of being on TV. You cannot have it both ways.

-Demi Green

These lasies are beautiful and allbut they need to tone down the shallowness a bit. Sanaa should be proud that her people love and support her work that they want to take a picture with her. Especially, since she is not a constant TV/movie fixture. Nia really needs to move past the trophy mindset and focus more on obtaining status as a amazing actress as say, Cicely Tyson. Looks and pics fade but talent does not.

-Attitudes and Shallowness

I was so done with at lease Sanaa and Noa after reading this article. Sanaa and Nia were the most snide and egotistical of the three, which surprised me because I always thought is would have been Gabrielle. They should have been encouraging young blackwomen but instead decided to use the article to basically let us know they are trophies and they do not have time for their fans.

-Tee

Do onto others as you would want them to do unto you. The people who are probing in the celebrities business would not appreciate it if that treatment was done to them. These people have talents that they have worked hard at, they count their blessings everyday like we do so why do we feel the need to pry into their business. There personal life should remain just that Private!

-Believe in Self

I think Nia has grown a lot since becoming a mother, Gabrielle appears much more insecure since her divorce, and Sanaa is beautiful but now operating in the real world. None of them are leading ladies. If one of them were to make it, it would probably be Nia since I've seen her beauty cross over in a few films. I just hope she can stay away from negative publicity. I do like that she is down to earth. Be grateful for what you have. It's more than the average woman.

-Toni B.

To the sister talking about Black women wearing weaves, what do you think white women are doing? We always assume a white woman's hair is he own & for a black person to have hair, it couldn't possibly be real. Part of the reason for wearing a weave is versatility & to protect the hair from constant overprocessing. No woman of any color can take all that Hollywood requires on a woman's hair. White women wear wigs & extensions more than you know. Even JLo does it to change her style & color at the drop of a hat. It's to

-Toni B.

I was disheartened by the interview. All I read was the 3 of them complaining! Not one of them (besides Sanaa 1x) said they were thankful for being a black actress in Hollywood, being beautiful, healthy, and in the limelight. Sanaa complained about someone asking her for her autograph while she's at dinner. Let's see how she feels when NO one cares to ask her anymore. It is a part of the job & if she doesn't want to be approached she should stay at home. The very same people who approach her are the same people who go

-Toni B.

I loved the article. Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle are beautiful REAL women and I admire them for their openness and unity as sisters. Thank you Essence for selecting these 3 for your cover issue and making the video of them available to your viewers. They are truly inspiring and have motivated me to "keep it moving" in this industry. This cover/article does them great justice!.....much success to you Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle.

-LModelz

Just finished reading "Just Between Us Girls and Nia is the most mature of out the three. I find it interesting that the ladies were complaining about not making enough money and that their movies make millions. However, none of these ladies are box office draws. They have fame and make a very good living acting. They should count their blessings instead of complaining about black bloggers. You have to the take the bad with the good. Nia keeps it real and she's grown spiritually. Gabrielle is still finding her way. And Sanaa

-Natasha

I think that they are all talented but I've always been a big fan of Sanaa...not so much of Nia and Gabrielle. Maybe b/c Nia and Gabrielle have been in the media alot...with negative sayings. Of course you shouldn't believe everything you read but all can't be lies. Sanaa keeps her business to herself and is not seen in photos with every man. I support black actresses/actors but I think alot of them can handle their businesses alot better than they do...and it has nothing to do with 'black' media.

-Meoshia

Black America stop buying white dolls---stop allowing children to get weaves dont we get it! These start the problem--white dolls--I only buy my daughter since birth Black dolls---and has only excepted 1 white doll--it was from a family member---I informed my family member that if she wanted to buy her a doll again it need to be Black---she has hispanic dolls as well. I went to church one Sunday there was the mother and 3 of her children ranging from 14, 13 and maybe 2 all of them were wearing weaves. I just wondered if she

-Yolanda

cont'd....affair) And being a Black actress in hollywood myself, my 2 cents on the "colorstruck" issue is this. When your denied a role cause you aren't the right shade of brown, it's not okay. When your told your not "black enough" for a role it's not okay. When Hollywood only embraces the light skin black woman as the dominant representation of Black beauty, it's not okay. Trust! All this and more of the struggle continues to play out behind the scenes in both Black and White Hollywood. In 2007!!!

-On the real

How did this get into hair weaves and black skin? Thought this was about should celebs have there privacy! Well yeah they should depending on what information you devulge to the media. If your out and about all willy nilly like Britney then your asking for it. But like the ladies said the media is not interested in what we do unless we're "controversial". We know better! That's why you rarely see black faces all over the tabloids, which is why people make up S*** about us to put us in tabloid media (IE: The Denzel and Sanaa

-On the real

Since when is it okay to be "color-struck" or attempting to divide our race according to skin complexion? I've read comments saying "I'm proud to be brown"...etc. I mean, is all that necessary? Are you more black because the Lord decided to make you darker (or you tanned in the sun?) Am I less black because I am lighter, or creole? Can't we all just be black and GET ALONG? Damn!

-RedAmbition

yaadie fi life: You asked when will Black women give up weaves. My answer is: When pigs grow wings and fly airplanes. Weave to me is like water is to thirst. I need it, want it, and love it! If I choose to spend $70 on Remi Velvet hair and I spend $150 to have my stylist sew it in, you better believe I did it to please me, and to turn a few heads. It's no different than my gorgeous natural sisters. Our hair is our crown and glory. Whether you grew it, or sewed it shouldn't matter. The point is - IS IT TIGHT? IS IT RIGHT!

-Kashunda (Shun) Hill

Privacy and Star-Status is an oxymoron, and should be understood for those who choose a career in the limelight. It takes a certain type of person to sustain the critics, haters, and lovers alike. These three ladies are survivors - the type of survivors that the haters must respect, and the rest of us love dearly. They have shared their true feelings towards the rumors, and it's understood. I pray for their continued strength towards the opposition and jealousy that faces them. They chose extraordinary careers, and it's thei

-Kashunda (Shun) Hill

i personally loooove these sistas, they are all fabulous!!! had the pleasure of meeting nia years ago in miami and she is a sweetheart. seriously - we, as a culture of people, need to really just STOP. let's march in our own communities to annihilatethe core disease that infests everything that it touches. my picket sign will say "NO MO HATER-ATION".

-Just me, Ms T

Of course celebs should have privacy - they're human beings. Whether they act, sing, etc. that is just their job, not to down play what they do. However, I think celebs as well as all people should be positive role models, especially to the youth becausethey're more impressionable. I think certain people do have more of a responsibility than others, this includes: entertainers, managers at work, parents, teachers, Preachers, CEOs, etc. "any individual that has people seeking thier guidance".

-Celeste

These women are beautiful,graceful and talented.So many low-level black women and men must degrade elegance,poise and grace.Many black "haters" are the ones who have the worse things to say. Too many of our numbers(population) are maladjusted losers who criticize,condemn,and abuse these three wonderful,African-American pearls. Stay Beautiful!

-Sandy D. C.

HELLO LADIES, I LOVE EVERYTHING YOU LADIES DO,KEEP YOUR HEADS UP AND GOD WILL TRULY BLESS EVERYONE OF YOU IN ALL YOUR ENDEAVORS. THANKS FOR ENTERTAINING US, LOVE YOU ALL

-SHINTA_BRAXTON

Johnnie Scott does seem bitter. Maybe, she is related to Pauletta. Even if Denzel and Sanaa Lathan had an affair, they both have moved on with their lives. Denzel is still with Pauletta with plans to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary in June andSanaa is dating a football player for the Chicago Bears. None of us are perfect even if it did happen. Denzel is fine and I know must be hard to resist. Keep the faith Sanaa. Only you and Denzel know if this really happened. For others, it is only speculation and people

-Susan Parker

I feel that the black community needs to support the black men and women in this industry. And for these three black actresses, great job. Stay positive and make that money. I am a big fan of all three. You all are beautiful black women in Hollywood doing your thing. -AC Memphis, Tn

-April Chism

I think the black coomunity needs to give the actresses and actors there praise that they deserve. These men and women work hard to bring us great entertainment. But these three women in this article are my favorite actresses. Keep working hard and making that money. God bless all of you. Stay positive. You are beautiful black women.

-April Chism

I would like to respond to the comment Johnnie A Scott made about Sanaa Lathan destroying Denzel's marriage. These talented actresses should be know for what they do and thats act. It's sad that we focus more on their private lives than on their art ofacting. It's sad that we get wrapped up in this stupid gossip and we actually believe it. How about focusing on the positive instead of the negative. Sanaa is a wonderful actress not a homewrecker. It seems like you Mrs.Scott may have a good bit of anger built up in you,

-Tiffany Davis

I believe that celebrities deserve their privacy like everyone else. They are normal people who chose careers that put them in the public eye but that doesn't give us the right to know everything about them. Actors, Singer, Rappers, etc. are artists andI believe artists are natural exhibitionists, but we as the public should respect their privacy.

-monica

Hollywood doesn't give roles to natural black women. Essence isn't about natural hair: they push weaves and relaxers. Anyone who thinks natural hair is more expensive need their head washed and examined. Perm heads rarely wash. We've all smelled it - standing near you on the trains/elevators. Natural hair is wash and go, no drama, no hair salons, and not expensive. Who cares what folks do with their hair anyway?

-Betty Chambers

I agree with Johnnie Anderson Scott. I read the article in Reader's digest as well. Late in 2005 and early in 2006, Denzel let Sanaa explain to everyone that they were not involved in an affair which no one believes. It was so embarrassing that she would address the issue in Vibe magazine which all the stations picked up. I am bewildered that Essence would put three ladies on the cover whom they know have reputations as homewreckers.

-JKM

I enjoyed your interviews very much, however, I am quite surprised that Regina King was not invited to participate. She has undeniably stood the test of time as an intelligent, beautiful and strong actress. It's too bad she was overlooked.

-smg

I would like to advise Sanaa Lathan to read the December 2007 issue of Reader's Digest. There is an article entitled, Denzel on Faith, Family, and the ONe Thing He'd changed. In this article, he asks viewers to join the discussion and give him some suggestions for something to get his wife for their 25th wedding anniversary. Since you almost destroyed his family, you might have some advise for Pauletta or have you learned your lesson. Get your own man that is not married

-Johnnie Anderson Scott

What beautiful women you have picked to grace the cover of your magazine. I support each actress on their dedication and haard work they put into each film. I loved their interview! My hope and prayer is that they continue to love one another and lift black women up everywhere.

-Lashell

Just Between Us Girls: Nia Long, Sanaa Lathan and Gabrielle Union - I loved their interview. It allowed me to realize that they are really just real black women with real issues like all of us. In todays society I could really relate to what they were saying and facing. However, I am no better or no less than they are because I pray, laugh, cry, trip and stress out just like them from time to time. Sister Sledge sang it better We Are Family.

-Rosalind Ware, Pensacola, FL

Essence could not have pick a better group of powerful black women. I love all of them. And to gabrielle in my eyes you are perfect they talk about jesus crist and look how powerful he is. smile each one of you enspires me. thank you

-Charlene Brown

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-Tariq King

To glennisha morgan you may have a hair texture that is easy for you to work with but women of color have all different types of textures so you can't question why all black women in general complain about managing natural hair. Are you trying to push some products by the way, because I see you left your web address.

-Anonymous

Whether they wear weaves or are as bald as eagles, I think they are all three super-fierce sistas! Women like them make me proud to be a black woman. Not because they are actresses because that doesn't impress me all that much. But because they all seem to have such a strong sense of who they are and what's important in their lives. I can respect and appreciate that. All the negative comments are so sad. Please, please, please check yourselves ladies. Try being happy for someone once in a while. You might find that i

-Denise

the stars need and want the attention ... it is the nature of their industry ... now, do I believe that they give up all of their privacy ... i don't think so ... i think they can control (to some extent) what is viewed ... yes, it is going to be harder for them to lead a normal life than it is for me; but, if it wasn't different ... it wouldn't be considered celebrity.

-jeanine

Sharonda.. I think it means you mean are more black if you are natural! LOL.. I have natural curly hair but don't use african american products and you should see the eye rolls when I'm reaching for the "white" products..

-Leia

Sistas, let's stop the hating and cut these women some slack. they are doing the best they can and we have no right to judge them. honestly how many of you putting them down are truly contributing positively to changing the world? let them play the rolesthey want to play it's their choice.

-Kyme Bevass

these comments from black women are exactly what these ladies are talking about in there interview. it's like we need to find some reason to put each other down. who cares about there hair!!

-michelle

Some you black women just annoy me!What is wearing your hair natural anyways, weaved up in dreads or braids?You can wear what either style you damn please.Why does this stupid topic come up all the time in the first place?What point you trying to prove, that "I'm black and I wear my hair natural." What's the prize?

-Sharonda

Tyler Perry proved that when we do our own thing Hollywood will open doors to produce movies and TV shows. So what is the excuse for the rest of them? I mean come on now, black folks have billions of dollars in disposable income. Why we still begging Hollywood for some chump ass roles? Silly. BET disappoints. There should be many black films per year - on TV, in the theatres - everywhere.

-Betty Chambers

There is no way that I would let my 11 or 12 year old get weave. That starts off with sending the message to your child that they're natural hair isn't beautiful. Rather its texture or length. Of course its more to hair than just washing and moisturizing. You want keep ur ends clipped and even. Keeping things out of your hair that damages it.

-Glennisha Morgan-www.glennishamorgan.com

3. The truth is that a lot of natural styles are even costlier to manage I totally disagree with this statement. Wash, detangle,keep moisturized is the basic hair care for natural styles. Twist, braids, twa's, locs, straighten and curl are not more expensive than weaves wear and care. People should wear their hair anyway the feel great about themselves, but most parents cant afford a weave for 11 and 12 year old girls looking a mag pics.

-Anonymous

To Anonymous. I totally disagree with you. Why do so many black woman say that natural hair is harder to manage etc. Its about finding products that work for you. If you can sit in the hair salon for up to 4 hours to get a perm and style you can spend 1/2 or even less time styling ur natural tresses! I wear my hair natural. It's actually less management then when I had a perm.

-Glennisha Morgan-www.glennishamorgan.com

Maya.. Amen, girl, Amen!!! You hit the nail on the head when you said mediocre.

-Keesha- NC

3. So, little girls looking up to Black women with cool natural looking hairstyles may be dissappointed to find out they can't afford the style or upkeep. 4. Do you have Black natural hair because depending on your texture, you may find it extremely time consuming (more than relaxed hair) or difficult to manage unless you can afford your own hairstylist to do it for you every day.

-Anonymous

To mahamat: 1. Saying that more Black stars should wear natural hairstyles is like saying more white women/men should stop wearing weaves and coloring their hair blonde. 2. Most people follow trends, remember the mullet or farrah fawcet look was the rage. Extensions for Black women are especially trendy now while some women like myself still opt for manageable braided extensions or locs/curly fro,etc.because they never go completely out of style. 3. The truth is that a lot of natural styles are even costlier to manage

-Anonymous

We always hear that its hard for Black actors and actresses to get work and that we don't see them on the screen enough or represented equally but how about instead of waiting on someone else to hand you a job you create the job. For example Tyler Perry along w/ acting he's directing movies. In order for us to been more and represented equally we're going to have to behind the camera instead of in front!

-Glennisha Morgan

I agree with shymsa, they are playing the same roles in movies and t.v. I'm surprised to see altogether. I believe its difficult enough for A-list actresses like Halle, Jada, Angela B to get work so of course, B/C listers such as sanaa, Nia, and gabrielle are going to have a tough time. It's too bad there are not more roles and "break out star" Black actresses. Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle have all had their chance to "break out"in movies and t.v. and have proven they are only good enough for mediocre partsthat call for someon

-maya

the problems of the Black community hating on each other is much deeper than whether a Black woman wears a weave or not besides what does it matter if these women have kinky hair or texturized hair?

-Kyme Bevass - Ghana, Accra, West Africa

pulling each other down doesn't just happen in America or Europe but wherever you find Black people (Africa, the Carribeans etc.) we need to start APPRECIATING, CELEBRATING & SUPPORTING each other. KUDOS!!! Essence Magazine for projecting the positivity in our Black community

-Kyme Bevass Ghana, Accra, West Africa

celebs are as human as anyone else. they feel the same things we feel only at different levels and i believe they deserve to have some privacy. but just wondering...what happened to Bible principles which teach us not to gossip? the moment you want to know about someone's personal life not because you want to share their pain and stand in the gap for them but rather to spread their weaknesses and failures and challenges, it's wrong. in fact it's evil. black people are too fond of pulling each other downand this doesn't onl

-kyme

@ shymsah.. Sorry, I have to disagree that these three are the best of our generation. They all play the same roles in different movies. And I have to admit, I'm a regular on several blog sites-white and black- and trust there is little to no news on them, really..unless it's a party pic. Personally, I think Gabrielle likes the attention which is why you can always see her at the opening of an "envelope".

-Shia- SC

On the one hand the actress (Gabrielle) complains that White media doesn't give a hoot about them BUT on the other hand sister wants to be left alone -well she wants only the truth written about her. It's NOT going to happen. Yes legitimate publications have to tell the TRUTH BUT Blogs have their own standards. you DON'T need any qualification (INTEGRITY) to have your own blog. Paris Hilton became a World star (even in South Africa we can't escape her!!) because of Paparazzi, blogs etc - without them she's nothing. It's part

-Busisiwe

sorry, that should say spend some time and letting it go... be the change you want to see in the world.

-mahatma

again, i agree... everyone is free to their own thoughts and choices, but hollywood makes choices for their leading ladies and if anyone out there thinks that hollywood does not whiten things up you should come spent some time behind the scenes. i should add that i am a white male who spent many a years working in the business and did what i could to bring more diversity and equality or i should say at least make people look at the world from all viewpoints. don't mean to be judging, more wondering where it all started i g

-mahatma

the best black actress of the young generation ever. Let me remind about love and basketball, the brothers, the best man, brown sugar,the woods ...etc I wonder why someone like tyler perry didn't start a new tv show with those tree because you can be sure that the black community all around the globe will be honored and thankful.I can always give him a title for this new tv show BLACK ESSENCE.

-shymsah

....And why does hair always have to be brought up amongst black women?Don't you get sick and tired talking about why another woman chooses to do what she do?Like a particular said many years ago I would want someone to notice me by the content of my character. JUST LET THE HAIR THING GO!You killing yourselves over-analyzing the littlest things.

-Sharonda

@ -mahatma Thats their choice.You can't tell someone what to to with their own body because they going to do it anyways.They living their life while you sitting and wondering why they made the choice they made and you actually wasting time.You seem judgemental (but who isn't everybody judges).Black women please let the weave thing go!It irks the hell out of me for some reason.You rather be happy whats on their head than on the inside.White women wear weave all the time I would love for someone to challenge me on that.And w

-Sharonda

i should add that i am equally amazed that people need to be told to eat healthy and get exercise as though this is something new. it's the little choices we each make everyday that make the difference. so if someone wants to stitch in a weave or glop on some chemicals so their hair can be straight... it's up to them. just like if someone wants to fill their face with sugar, fat, etc. all i ask is that people think about their choices.

-mahatma

Mrs. 23 i agree and that is why i said that everyone should think for themselves, but just like there are no female leads of color on television... i think it is a little sad that few to none of the black women on screen have natural hair. if you are old enough to make the choice to wear a weave, then go for it, but how about the little ones who look up to the people they see on screen (not all, but most) what are they to think? be the change you want to see in the world.

-mahatma

I loved this piece on Nia, Sanaa and Gabby. Good work Essence, and I cannot wait to see where you take the magazine in the New Year.

-Yolanda

TO SEE OUR BLACK WOMEN WEARING THEIR NATURAL HAIR OUTSIDE OF THEIR "WORK COSTUMES". BUTLEDT'S NOT FORGET THAT THIS MAY BE THE WAY THEY WANT TO LOOK.

-MRS. 23

WITH ALL THAT BEING SAID...WHICH IS VERY TRUE...YOU ALSO HAVE TO LOOK AT THE OTHER SIDE OF THINGS. JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT WEARING YOUR NATURAL HAIR DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU'RE TRYING TO BE SOMEBODY THAT YOU'RE NOT. YOU JUST WANT TO ENHANCE YOUR BEAUTY. AND WHO IS TO SAY THAT WHITE, LATINAS, AND SO FORTH DOESN'T WEAR HAIR EXTENSIONS? WE, AS BLACK WOMEN AND MEN ARE SO USED TO SEEING THOSE RACES WITH THEIR NATURAL HAIR, WE AUTOMATICALLY THINK THAT IT'S THEIRS...WELL, MOST OF THE TIME...IT ISN'T THEIRS EITHER. YES, WE MAY WANT T

-MRS. 23

with that kind of logic then all these actresses should never get out of costume or character then i guess either. be the change you want to see in the world. p.s. i guess my thoughts are too long for average essence comment, sorry, please start three comments down... the first "mahatma" comment for my complete comment and remember to beauty of life is that we are all allowed to think as we please. these are my thoughts.

-mahatma

just like when i see someone smoking a cigarette... with all the information we have these days and they still choose to smoke, that says something. so while i respect these three ladies for their work, i just wish more women of color displayed their natural hair, maybe not while they are working, but that would be nice as well. think of all the young girls trying to figure things out and always seeing the successful women have weaves... are you trying to tell me that does not make a statement of some sort? with that kin

-mahatma

remember the old saying "if everyone else is jumping off a bridge..." i love to see a woman and her natural hair... white, brown, black, yellow and so on. it makes me feel like that woman is comfortable in her own skin or should i say hair. actions speak louder than words and i think wearing a weave says something about trying to fit in or trying to look like someone else. just like when i see someone smoking a cigarette... with all the information we have these days and they still choose to smoke,that says someth

-mahatma

okay i have to say something about the weave debate going on. i agree that most other actresses have weaves as well. that's all good. it's part of their work just like the costumes, the make-up and so on, but... that's for their work. when i am walking down the street though i see so many beautiful brown women wearing weaves and i cannot say the same for all the white, latina and other women on the streets. using the argument that everyone else is doing it has always been a lame excuse. remember the old saying "if ever

-mahatma

Anyways, from the excerpt, it might just the same ol' things.I visit the blogs, and if you visit gossip blog you fueling more in the fire by even visiting because one you know its a gossip blog.If you don't like the gossip don't read it but sometimes it be from "white media" anyways.I love their work.And they look amazing.

-Sharonda

Many of you are saying we need to stop tearing down out black women and here is a good way to start; I think we can start uplifting our black women when we stop and complain about what's on their head.Example "Why she got to wear a weave," why can't shediversify herself through a hairstyle?She doesn't have to show her "Afrocentric" style to justify she is proud black woman.Just a thought...

-Sharonda

someone else on the cover*

-Madame B

I respect these women, but can I propose someone else on the?I seen Nia on the cover this year.Sanaa was one last year and I'm not to sure about Gabrielle.But I admire these women, but Gabrielle needs to thicken up her skin, everybody gets talked about.She seems more like party girl than someone about their work

-MadameB

i think that we as a black people are way to concerned about all th wrong things and when we as people really realize this and stop playing into the hype then and only then can we and will we celebrate the true beauty that we can achieve ans that we posess in all that we do instead of trying to pull down the next man and start this rumor or that rumor which in the end won't cahnge anything and at the end of the day leave those individuals who start all of these rumors feeling even more resentful

-tamaira hayes

For all the guys complaining about Sanna's role in Something New or whatever the of that movies was, I will let you in on a little secret "i was just a role". She is an actress, a working one and that means she plays different characters. It has nothingto do with her personal life. She is just earning a living.

-carla

Some of these comments are extremely gutteral, that is not right. We as women should do better for each other. These women work in a very demanding and public industry, it cannot be easy for them. Also about Sanna & Denzel's affair, if it did happen why is he not held to the same expectation - he is the married one. Of course I do not support affairs but please let it go already.

-Cleopatra Jones

Please sisters, black women, please stop hating on each other about the hair thing. I think it will be another of those situations where we invented something fabulous and because if our lack of self worth we allow it to be co-opted by the the popular race. Just name one white actress who does not wear a weave from Naomi Watts, Nicloe Kidman, Sharon Stone, Mandy Moore, Jessica Simpson and countless others they all rely on weave to enhance what they already have. I know this because my friend is a hairdresser in the b

-Cleopatra Jones

this article is far from shallow and i applaud essence for the cover and the feature of these 3 sister friends. sure, many other african american women could have been on the cover and have been. what i love about essence is that, eventually they will get around to them all. sanaa,gabrielle and nia are what i look for, other than myself to show my daughters real women who are articulate and gifted and just so happen to be african-american! i love them all and never miss the opportunity to see them in film. thanks essence!

-valerie

The article was extremely shallow. There are others whom I feel were more deserving of the cover of Essence....as the cast of "Why did I Get Married." It was a successful film. This article only seems to deal with the supercial beauty(physical) and not the intellectual side of the actresses. They only list the bloggers and do not share the real gossip about them.

-Anonomymous

it shows that in another industry(acting) we are treated no differently. It's not fair and society needs to change. No matter how many singers and actresses and models enter these industries black women will still never get the same respect as white women. Even tho' this tanning thaaaang is surely getting outta hand!!! Thank You Essence for a great article...

-Anonymous

it shows that in another industry(acting) we are treated no differently. It's not fair and society needs to change. No matter how many singers and actresses and models enter these industries black women will still never get the same respect as white women. Even tho' this tanning thaaaang is surely getting outta hand!!! Thank You Essence for a great article...

-Ladytee

I definitely enjoyed reading the article. I think the conversation was very honest, healthy yet fun to read. It ashame b/c the world is so obsessed with having this idea of beauty and it's not a black woman. I loved the comment about the paperazzi not being outside a black celebrity's door 24/7. That's so true. Only when something bad goes down do they want to chime in and take a photo. Also, after hearing the problems in the modeling industry about there being no black models on the runway for fashion week, it shows that in

-Ladytee

Life is such a Beast, but these three women have overcome such odds. People say and do anything these days, just to be in the lime light. When I read this article, It's wonderful to read that these three women stay prayed up and are very well grounded. Isay to all the haters......GET A LIFE.

-Sonja

Gossip is a sign of stagnation and is a form of diversion. Not gonna front, when I'm bored and not dealing with my own sh%#%t I fall prey to it. However, it's very erroneous. I don't blog because I don't have the patience to.

-Project Chik

(cont from post below) I definitely feel that they are all icons, though I understand very much what was stated about not getting what they deserve. So Sanaa, Nia, and Gabrielle...when I somehow make my millions I will not forget about you.

-Anonymous

A very large percentage of the DVD movies that I own have one of these three women in them and I watch a lot of these same movies over... and over. Recently, I had the thought in my mind as I watched "Love Jones" , that these exact 3 women (+ Kerry Washington) must hate each other. I would have never known that the three of them were friends...well, mainly because I thought that because I assumed they must fight for the same roles. So when my mom handed me this new issue of Essence today I couldn't believe my eyes. I defini

-Anonymous

I think the article was great! They are three of my favorite AA actors. The article was "real talk" as it showed that even sistah's in what is perceived as the glamourus life of Hollywood have many of the same struggles us sister have in getting the opportunities we deserve in corporate america. It also showed that these are three regular sistah's, as vulnerable, as sensitive and have a lot of same insecurities as any other sistah. PJ San Francisco Bay Area

-Pamela

Whats up with black women that can't stand a woman in weave?Let it go.

-Hello World

I've been waiting patently for Oprah to have these beautiful and talanted sisters on her show but to no avail. Essence thank you for honouring my wish....Sanaa you're the image of my three year old niece its amazing to see the likeness..Nia when is the next love Jones?. Sanaa loved Disappearing Act brill...Gabbi any more with Jamie Fox?In the UK its very rare to see an article about positive black sisters in any magazine! Eva, London,UK

-Anonymous

These women are great actresses, and I do believe deserve a little more respect. Just for being In the public eye and having to take on so much b.s from different directions. What would be also great Is If they had all these great roles offered, and hadtrouble turning any of them down because they were too good. Also that must be extremely stressful at times, finding the right job to accept, dealing with hurtful rumors, and keeping a smile on your face all at once. God bless 'em... And as far as the hair, who cares

-adding my two cents...u.s.a

Why are we worried about these ladies hair? Weave or not...they are three beautiful talented ladies. These are the hate comments that they were referring to from their own sisters. Stop hating ladies. Just give them credit for doing what they do and doing it well. That is what we should want our little girls to see. The weave is a minor thing. I think they are great!

-JMK

I agree with yaadie for life. I think it would have been refreshing and quite beautiful if the women had done the photo shoot with their natural hair. Our little girls may not be old enough to read Essence, but they certainly see the cover as we stand in check out lines everywhere. It would be nice to let them know that just being you, wearing you, and looking like your real self is totally OKAY!

-Karen Hoffman, San Diego CA

Thank you Essence. These are three of my favorites black actresses. I have also identified with them because they looked like my friends and I and their characters were always relatable.

-T.D.

I found nothing wrong with the comment about them being brown. There are sistas of a lighter hue being featured in the media as the only black and latino representatives ALL the time and we say nothing seriously about that.But let us say we proud to be brown and somehow we are expectef to justify why we said it. Please. I will say it again "Brown". Is just as beautiful.

-Tonya

Great article! I enjoyed the candid, honent and inspiring dialouge between the sista's. It's a refreshing change to see Hollywood actresses who are grounded in faith, determination, & realness.

-d. payne

when will black women give up weaves? it is soo incongruous to have black magazines spouting racial identity when everyone we choose to caption inevitably has luxurious hair which we know is not growing from their roots (pun intended)

-yaadie fi life

As a 55 year old retired black international economist, I thoroughly enjoyed interacting with these 3 young spiritually-inspiring, successful and empowering black actresses, as I read this article. Thank you Essence! I would be remiss though if I didn't point out by disappoitment in the need for Essence to include "brown" in paragraph 2, final line, ESPECIALLY after the previous piece on "issue of skin tone in the black community"! This "skin tone issue" reflects an underlying tension that BLACK Americahas to deal with

-Carlene Yvette Francis

TO ALL OF YOU , YOU LOOK AMAZING, KEEP YOUR HEADS UP AND DO YOUR THING. WE AS WOMEN OF COLOR DO NEED TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND UPLIFT NOT TEAR DOWN. "DO YOU". DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE HATERS. YOU ARE WHERE GOD PLACED YOU. WALK IN IT AND CONTINUE TO BE THE CLASSY, BEAUTIFUL REPPRESENTATION OF "US" IN HOLLYWOOD. THANKS FOR ALL YOU DO. JACQUELINE R. NCNURSEJR@YAHOO.COM

-JROSE

@Swiffht.. LOL.. I like to see Jill in something other than those alcohol commercials!! Now to Halle..Aside from Their Eyes Are Watching God, Things We Lost in the Fire and Dorothy Dandridge. she really hasn't starred in a role like that.. My thing was that she gets dogged for Monster's Ball,but I think she did a good job cause it showed that she wasn't scared to take a risk.. Now she's not in the media for baby daddy drama, drinking, partying, affairs and keeps to herself. Yet, she still gets dogged by folks.

-Miyan

These Beautiful Ladies inspired me in this article, I loved what Nia Long says about loving yourself before you can love anybody, and these ladies show positive images and true responses about this world, If these 3 ladies been through tough times, We all need to sit back and look in the mirror and ask "Who am I" I'm Somebody" because they did!!!!!

-"MO, Fresno, CA

They look like the black version of Charlie's Angel's.

-cb

I am a fan of these three. Especially Sanaa, Love and Basketball is still my favorite movie and Disappearing Acts. Nia is also great. And Gabbi is fierce. I think every actress bring their own character to a movie. So its important to get more Black Films in the making. Because I would love to see more of you girls in the movies. But I know its hard out here. Because I am a single and educated black woman, and I tell you its not easy. I have to comment on the Blogs, because I read them also. And I want to point out m

-Octavia

GIRL POWER! Loved this article focusing on sisterhood and showing how we truly need each other no matter how good and green the lawn looks over the fence.

-TT

@ Miyan... You just proved Gabrielle Union point! It's Our own people who are ripping them apart! :( I'm admire all 3 of these strong beautiful black women. I do applaud them for their longevity in their field, and their link to the Black community! I truly admire these woman. They?ve never lowered their morals for their careers. As a Black Women! I ADMIRE THEM FOR THAT! On to the blogs.... I am a blogger! There are 2 black blogs that I check on a regular! (YBF & Concretloop) And they always speak highl of these women!

-Mya~A True Nia Long Fan!

Miyan, In case you didn't notice, Halle's is not stepping out of her "comfort zone". Lately her "comfort zone" seems to be playing the helpless mulatto to white male fancy. Check out her last movies. I think Halle is dealing with some issues having to dowith white acceptance and embrace! Whatever happened to Jill Marie Jones?

-Swiffht

How about Lauren London, Sharon Leal, the doctor from Grey's Anatomy, Tamara Tunie ( Law and Order/As The World Turns) Tasha Smith, Jill Marie Jones, Chandra Wilson, Kandi Alexander, Zoe Saldana, Thandie Newton ? There are plenty more black actresses outthan these 3! Stop recycling these overrated actress!! And please stop hating on Halle cause she's not afraid to step out of her "comfort zone" and play ugly and gritty characters ( not counting CatWoman..lol)

-Miyan

These ladies are beautiful and powerful..

-des

Sisters, Essence, thank you for presenting three of the most intriguing actresses that I have admired throughout their careers. I thank God for your commitment to our community and the creativity you?ve demonstrated. We are a better people because of yur positive choices and productive energies you emit. Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle from my heart to yours: Keep following your light...and keep it shining. Jimmie

-Jimmie L. Scyffore Sr.

That goes to show how much I know, I didn't even know that Nia had a child or ex-husband. All three women are fantastic, beautiful, gifted woman of color and may God continue to Bless all of them in every thing they accomplish.

-R. Taylor

all 3 of these sisters r very beautiful and represent black women very well on the big screen. it was very nice of essence to feature them however it would have been even nicer if they had the sisters without all of the weave. we as a people REALLY need to get away from these eurocentric images of beauty.

-Nicole Scott, Israel

I think the article was "real" these women, women who are put on pedastals by men and women, deal with everyday issues just like the rest of us. These women are all beautiful, but they are not perfect. For them to share their insecurites, fears, hopes and dreams, made me feel like I was sitting in a room with my "girlfriends".

-KMC

Hello ladies I'll like to know how you got your start. Give some information on this please. I would like to hear more from you. Thanks and may God Bless each of you!

-Ales

I believe all ladies hit it on the nose, the comments from readers are so negative sometimes it stinks. They are beautiful beyond words and are always so classy. Readers beware who you judge for in the end you to will be judged.

-Anonymous

Stop hatin'...I was very excited to see Essence feature these ladies together talking about real issues that effect them. P.S. Nia can't help that her son's Father lost his mind in the mall..I know I wouldn't want anyone to judge me based on MY ex-husband's behavior.

-Erica

Oh how boring. Why couldn't Eseence bring some new talent on the cover for December? Something new that will bring the Black arts into the fore front. Essence you need to start setting the example not bringing up the rear. By the way all 3 I love, just wanted to see some one else being featured who has not had a cover story before.

-Leoniw-New Zealand

I truly think Essence could have found some sisters to put on the cover besides these three who all have bad reputations with either drinking too heavily(Gabrielle,)baby father drama(Nia) and dating a married man, Sanaa. In addressing the issues, will Sanaa ever admit to the affair. Keep in mind Denzel did not deny it in his Cover on Essence in April 2006. I thought Sanaa and Regina Hall were good friends...why isn't she included?

-Jalaiee Mitchell

I think that it's such a positive thing to see three REAL women on the cover. What makes each one unique is that they are all flawed in some way, but they still manage to be so graceful and elegant at the same time. I don't care who did what when. Al these women deserve to be celebrated.

-Anonymous

Essence, show the true beauty of each sister without the weave giving them the Caucasion look. Let their natural beauty show. I saw Love and Basketball over the weekend and it is obvous that Sanaa Lathan has had a lot of work done; however, since she is now 36, I hope she has gotten past the affair with Denzel washington and hat the football player with the Chicago Bears will marry her. She probably damaged her chances with a good brother by being associated with a married man, Denzel. Make them geta divorce before get

-Jessica Lavette

I bought this issue and i Love it and my favorite actress in on the cover!! people say I look like her. Nia Long

-kitty kat

I think it is good to see Essence put three talented actresses on the cover of the magazine even though all three have had much negative publicity. Sanaa Lathan was one of my favorite actresses until the affair with Denzel washington and most black women in America view her as a homewrecker. Additonally, Essence would not do a cover of her when her movie, Something New, came out because the rumors and news was so hot with her affair with Denzel washington. Additionally, why can't black beauty be appreciated. They do not n

-Nanetta Brown

Just wanted to drop a note to encourage these beautiful sisters, I am almost "30ish", and I have read this article and can relate a lot with some of these issuses, concerning prejudice and drama in relationships, I wanted to encourage you ladies that from this end I see the market shifting for us as women of color, more marketing, more jobs, more exposure, our youth are hungry and I think we are in for a shift within the image and perception of how we as women of color are perceived. A lot of thanks has to go to our young me

-Anonymous

Wow! I've just had an opportunity to read the blogs and I'm stunned that there is so much dialogue about the women's hair. Nia explained it in her interview on page 274 quote "...if I didn't have to go to work and deal with getting my hair and makeup done by a white crew...I wouldn't have a weave. If I felt like I could go in there, and they could take care of my natural hair-but they don't know how to." Does it really matter whether they wear weave? It seems no one tears us down as much as we tear each other down!!!!!!

-Monique

When rolls are far and in between for women of color in the movie industry,at the end of the day these women still must earn a living doing what they love to do. Remember the days when white women were playing characters who were supposed to be black, native american, and asian. I am overjoyed to see more women of color who represent me on screen and I think we should support and uplift them because it is not always easy for them.

-Monique

Kudos to these beautiful black women for remaining friends and supportive of one another while still competing for the same limited rolls in Hollywood. I read the previous comment about how many times can Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle play the same rolls. Well I don't think it is their fault that these are the only rolls that the industry feels black women can protray. It's easy as outsider to say that they should turn down this same rolls,which I'm sure they are tired of playing themselves, but when rolls for black women in the

-Monique

I think the three women are wonderful at their careers and should be uplifted continually because they have paved the way for inspiring, as well as, upcoming achievers. Loving yourself is so important, but mostly, to love GOD. Anything else that comes your way is in the category of do not sweat the small stuff. GOD wants us all to be achievers..

-Vita Randall

Life is about growing up and making the right decisions in life. I truly give lots of kuddos to Nia, Sanaa, and Gabrielle for telling the world that they care about themselves and their future. It is challenging being in a business where people will doanything just to make money. Yes, they may have all played roles that people did not like, however it was their decision. Now these ladies have moved on in life and are trying to leave their own trademark of being positive and making positive decisions. We as a black commu

-Cescyia in Florida

I admire all three ladies and your roles to step up as mature women on the move for greater things. Your positive influence is much needed in the Hollywood scene. I wish you all greater success with landing more positive roles in the future.

-C. Stevenson Florida

And why is it when Halle's acting or chose of roles is being harshly judged, then it's justified? I'm still scratching my head over that. No one is denying the fact that these are beautiful sisters, HOWEVER, they haven't grown as actors. How many times can Gabrielle play a cheerleader or man stealer, or uptight black woman looking for love? How many times can Sanaa play the misunderstood, frustrated successful black woman looking for love or Nia play the cute sexy girl next door?

-Lena

Why is it when black people critique other black people, it's taken as "hating" "jealousy"? And why is it when Halle's acting or chose of roles is being harshly judged, then it's justified? I'm still scratching my head over that. No one is denying the fact that these are beautiful sisters, HOWEVER, they haven't grown as actors. How many times can Gabrielle play a cheerleader or man stealer, or uptight black woman looking for love? How many times can Sanaa play the misunderstood, frustrated successful black woman looking f

-Lena-Atlanta GA

Why is it when black people critique other black people, it's taken as "hating" "jealousy"? And why is it when Halle's acting or chose of roles is being harshly judged, then it's justified? I'm still scratching my head over that. No one is denying the fact that these are beautiful sisters, HOWEVER, they haven't grown as actors. How many times can Gabrielle play a cheerleader or man stealer, or uptight black woman looking for love? How many times can Sanaa play the misunderstood, frustrated successful black woman looking f

-Lena- Atlanta GA

We as black women need to support and protect each other more than we tend to do so I will first say "Job well done" and you make me very PROUD to be a black woman. The sad fact is if the media were to follow just 1000 'regular' woman you would be in disbelief what people do when they leave their job, so keep your head up and you have more support than "they" want you to believe

-Nycole M. Arizona

Some of these negative comments are better directed at actresses like Halle Berry and her total lack of shame in the demeaning roles she has taken lately. Sanaa, Nia, and Gabrielle are a breed apart in terms of the hollywood scene. I guess it takes brothas like me to appreciate their grace & how they carry themselves in their situation.

-Swiffht

THREE BEAUTIFUL "BROWN" WOMEN DOIN' IT! Too often, America does not recognize the beauty of the "brown" Black woman; be it caramel, coffee, cocoa or dark chocolate. I am proud to see these women representing our varying shades and looking beautiful doing it! GO LADIES!

-PROUD TO BE DARK

Thank you Essence for gracing us with the beauty and intelligence of three of my favorite actresses. I am happy that Sanaa, Nia, and Gabrielle were allowed to express themselves candily. I love them all. I think they are extraordinary in their field and I wish them continued success. A Huge Fan

-Sylenia Lawrence (Mississippi

Ladies, I am so happy we have not just(1) but (3) beautiful black women in Hollywood that have chosen to stay true themselves and not fall victim to what the devil can try to implement in your daily lives to keep you from getting thus far.. Although you ladies may be out of work from time to time, there are still individuals in the community who are always waiting patiently to see what else you have to offer the flim industry. I'm not talking about groupies, haterz, hatrz on the blogs...I'm talking aboutthe other beauti

-K Dillon

I think all 3 women are magnificent actresses. To all my sister behind the negative post....We have to STOP putting each other down and embrace one another. We have to celebrate one anothers accomplishments and be happy that we can see images of ourselves on the big screens and on television. I am happy that the days of the sambo and aunt jamama are GONE. And that our beautiful, brilliant black selves can shine through.

-From one Black Queen to all the Others

Gabrielle, Nia and Sanaa I applaud your work. We have so many talented actors out there and I am glad you all are keeping your head up and being strong! Keep it up... God bless

-Renee in Houston

To Keisha NC - I don't think I am at all being judgemental by responding to your comment. You are judging these women based on RUMORS. I am commenting and making a decision about you based on WHAT YOU SAID. You insist on believing rumors and I think that's unfair. To go church on you - we are to walk in LOVE and give people the benefit of the doubt. Would you want folks to assume that part of a rumor spread about you is true? Hugs

-Renee in Houston

All of these women are truly beautiful and talented. It does not matter if they choose to wear their hair natural or with a weave, what matters is that they are happy with who they are. I love all them and what they stand for in true essence of an inspiring black woman. It saddens me to see black women putting other black women down to make themselves feel good, when in fact they just want what the other has...sigh... It never stops... I personally love who I am and what I stand for and most defiantly give props where they a

-Jen

I would like to say to Nia, Sanaa & Gabrielle that I love all three of you beautiful black women & you keep your heads high & stand strong above all the things that are being said. You know the true you & that is all that matters. As being a beautiful black woman myself I know that people will talk about you when your doing good and when your doing bad. Keep doing what your doing & stay true to yourself no matter what anyone says or thinks. Much Love Always!

-Mrs. D. Johnson- Shaker Hts, Ohio

Surely there are more black actresses in Hollywood that warrant the Essence cover? These three are so overrated. Good thing Tyler Perry came along or they would be serving the Rootie Tootie Fresh and Fruity Special at your local IHOP!!

-Keesha- Charlotte, NC