Send A Message to Sean Bell's Loved Ones

The young life of a 23-year-old devoted son, father and soon-to-be husband was lost forever when Sean Bell was gunned down by police on the morning of his wedding on Nov. 25, 2006. Share your messages of sympathy, grief and hope for the loved ones of Sean Bell here.

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AL SHARPTON IS A WASTE OF LIFE

YOUR PEOPLE ARE LOW LIFE LOW LEVELED SCUM

-Anonymous

Further- these men were NOT just driving away from a crime-ridden strip club and the cops just suddenly, for no reason, started shooting. The men were fired upon by undercover NYPD officers who were driving an unmarked car. When the black officer identified himself as a police officer, the driver gunned it and tried to run him over! That?s certainly reason to fire on a car if there ever was one! A car, as I said, is a deadly weapon and can easily kill. When you try to run over an officer, you can only exect he will fire on

-Anonymous

The men in the car were black, so this means the cops are racists of course. Except for the fact that the officer who started firing his weapon, which caused the other officers to fire (thinking they themselves were under fire from the car?s occupants) ws HIMSELF black. Maybe he?s a black racist and he hates himself?


-Anonymous

My sympathy goes to sean<s family and to his lover.I know how hard it is to lose your lover because i have lost my loved sister three years ago ,its still so painfull and i cant imagine how it is for you to lose him the day of your wedding. Just thankGOD to be there in your life but you deserve this, let GOD judge them

-lylyane pemebele

My sympathy goes out to the widow of Sean and his two precious children. May the lord bless you with his wisdom, his love and his guidance. Please stay away from Al Sharpton. After what he did with the Tawana Brawley incident, it was proved that he is a lying, malicious, evil and very corrupt individual. Don't tarnish Sean's beloved memory with the likes of being associated with Mr. Sharpton. I pray that justice will be served in this case. Look to the elders in your church for support. God blessyou.

-barbara w.

Im very sorry for the lost of your husband you stand strong and walk in faith no one has your back like the lord i dont know how i would react too something like this hold your children tight and let then know everyday that you have there back and that god loves them and you too Im writing you because i really need al sharpton help down here in madison. I'm also going through a situation with the Madison Police Department concern racial issues, police brutatilty and i'm a woman. i know this is not a good time for you and yo

-ungelique franklin

Mrs. Paultre Bell,

You & your girls are in my prayers. I too know what it's like to lose a husband at a young age. I was 30 yrs old w/2 boys (3 & 2) when my husband was killed. It has & still a struggle to raise 2 boys on my own. It's been 5 yrs & westill grieve for Chris. All I can tell you just keep the faith in God, he will pull you through.

-Tina Stewart

Dear Nicole:

My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. You are a pillar of strength. Keep your head up. I will always remember you and your family in my Daily prayers.

With Faith, Hope and Love,

-Denisia Brown

My Dearest Nicole

My deepest heartfelt symphany goes out to you,and your family.I can't imagine the pain that you,and your family is in.Sean sounds like a sweetheart,and you we're his Queen.Nicole you'll never be alone,because you know have a Guardian Angel.GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS.LOVE MONICA

-Monica Gowe Fergerson

My Heart goes out to his entire family, this is a terrible thing that has happened. I will keep you in my prayers all the time and god bless you..

Justice will be served

-PhillyBellaGirl

My thoughts are prayers goes out to the entire Bell family. May God continue to give you the health and strength during these grieving times. It will take some time to get over the grief, maybe never, but remember that God is the supreme judge over us all. To Nicole and Jada I hope that you two will continue to bond as mother and daughter despite the pain and suffering. May God Bless you all.

Sincerely

-Ms. Canterbury

My thoughts are prayers goes out to the entire Bell family. May God continue to give you the health and strength during these grieving times. It will take some time to get over the grief, maybe never, but remember that God is the supreme judge over us all. To Nicole and Jada I hope that you two will continue to bond as mother and daughter despite the pain the suffering. May God Bless you all.

Sincerely

-Ms. Canterbury

MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.IN TIME I HOPE THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY CONTINUE TO FIND PEACE AND COMFORT IN THE LORD. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

-MONICA PHILLIPS

Dear Mrs. Nicole Bell and the Bell family:

I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss. No one, and I mean no one, should ever have to go through that. My heart goes out to you.


-Marisa Adams

TO THE BELL FAMILY

CONDELENCE TO MRS.NICOLE PAULTRE BELL,MAY GOD CON'T TO BLESS YOUR FAMILY & LOVE ONES.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.I KNOW THERE'S NOTHING THAT COULD REPLACE WHAT YOUR GOING THROW.BUT,I JUST WANTED TO SHOW SUPPORT BECAUSE I'VE BEEN THERE.WITHGOD FIRST IT GETS BETTER.....

-M.COHEN

To Sean Bells wife

Blessings to you and your children. I their is nothing that could replace or console you but, I just wanted to express my sympathy. I have a 3year old of my own and if something were to happen to his Dad how would I explain to him why

-Anonymous

Life brings joy and happiness. To you Mrs. Bell I pray that you will remain strong for your children, even though the world seems like it's not fair. Most of us want to be were Sean is today. He is with our Father. May GOD bless you at all times.

-Ms. Glenn of Dallas Texas

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and most of all his 2 beautiful daughters and Nicole Bell. I cant even say. I know what they are going through cause I dont. But please Keep faith in the Lord and all will prevail as time goes on.

You all are in my prayers.

-Rochelle Monford

Mrs. Bell,

I pray that God gives you the stenght, peace and comfort that you will indeed need to raise your beautiful children. I pray in the NAME OF JESUS that your husband's death will not be in vain and justice will be served as needed.

Tanesha M.

Chicago, IL

-Anonymous

Dear Mrs. Sean Bell,

There is no way possible I could imagine what you are going threw. But just remember lean on God and he will take you and your family threw everything. Also take time for yourself and all the good times you and Sean had don't let nothing take you away from that. Look at your girls and you will see Sean everyday.

God Bless you and your family

-Cordella, York Pa

I think the judge did the right thing giving you his last name. GOD BLESS YOU, THE CHILDRENS AND HIS FAMILY.

-Marilyn

I PRAY FOR THE FAMILY.

GOD BLESS THE WIFE AND CHILDERN AND JUST HOLD ON TO GOD'S STRENGTH AND YOU WILL MAKE IT!!!!!

-Tracie T.

this is one of the saddest stories i've ever heard. every woman dreams about their wedding day and to have it snatched away, the way it was must be incrediable painful. Mrs Bell I know there insint anything anyone can say to make the pain go away, but I just had to write and let you know you and your'e little girls are in my heart and prayers. In my eyes you are in STRONG woman just to get up everyday because I know I coudint do it.Mrs Bell I wish you and youre family to one day have peace of mind and toeventually smile aga

-Chameatrise

To Nicole and Sean parents,asking God to watch over you and your family warm thoughts and heartfelt prayers are with you more often than you know.

-Dorothea , Chester, PA

Dear Mrs. Nicole Bell, May the peace of God strengthen you and your family during this time. Weeping may endure for a night BUT JOY will come in the morning. I pray your morning is near. Yes, the judge did the right thing.

- Shuwanda , Long Island, NY

Dear dear Nicole, my tears for you, Sean & his parents are among the many. I pray for you and the grief in your heart that your loving mother and daughters may help to assuage. God bless you.

Hopefully a day of justice will come for Sean and the other two young men who are suffering.

-Joann, NY (a white person)

I was heartbroken when I heard about the murder of Shawn Bell, about his last words and about the policeman who pumped all those bullets into his body. In spite of what their intentions might have been, it is clear from the news media that Shawn was a beautiful person. Blessings.


-Kali Grosberg, Berkeley

To the Family of Mr. Sean Bell, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

Take comfort in knowing that Sean is with God and you will see him again.

May God Keep You

-J.Jones

Dearest Nicole, I was so very sorry to hear of your lose. When you are blessed to find one true love, nothing and no one can ever replace that. Rest assured that God knows the matters of your heart and He will not suffer you to be in pain. The thing to do is to thank God for the time that you did share with Sean and to be grateful for the blessing of your children. Know that his spirit (Sean) will forever be apart of your lovely daughters. I pray for Gods peace in your life and in the life of your entirefamily, who also mou

-gwendolyn.holloway@kp.org

My dear Nicole, my heart goes out to you and your family loss. Please know that there is a god and he is real and know that you could turn to him in this time of your life. I have no idead how you are feeling or dealing with this but know that he knows. please do not get mislead by the media and other influences but follow your heart and the good lord will guide. pray for the ones that took your husband away and always teach your daughter and share with her what a good person her father was only youknow this. May god

-Michelle Lopez

Nicole,

I live in Minnesota and when I heard of your story, I couldn't hold back the tears. I pray that God will take care of you and your girls. To see that all your needs are met and to hold you all in his loving arms. You are such a beautiful young lady and so are your little ones. It's just so hard to comprehend what you may be going through, but with God , the support of family, friends and strangers as myself, you will be fine. Stay strong and take care.

My prayers and blessings with you all! MaySean rest in pea

-Carla Rison

Your story saddens me. My heart goes out to the sean's family. Every girl dreams to have a family and marry the man of her dreams and to be so close to making that dream a reality only to have it taken away is just heartbreaking. I am praying that this family is able to grow stronger and receive the justice that they clearly deserve. Ms. Bell, I think that taking his name was a nice gesture and perhaps a step toward moving ahead. Be strong and positive for your children.

-Yolonda

I get butterflies everytime I here your story. It turns my stomach to know that we still have this horrific act against our young black men. My heart goes out to you, your babies, and your family. Grief is a very hard process, and though we may all do itdifferently, it's still painful. I love your faith. It encourages me, and shows me that you fear the Lord for he is all there is. I want to encourage you and let you know I'm your sister, I'm another mother who has lost my child's father violently. Know that "the will of God

-keisha, Baltimore,Md

(cont'd) God wants only our good. If He OVERRULED in every situation we wouldn't have crime, wars, disease or death. He will work all things FOR good to those who love and serve Him and He is available to all who call on His Name. Find the strength you need in Him for He is more than willing to be your Burden Bearer.

L.J. Cordice - Brooklyn, NY

-Anonymous

To Sean's parents, KEEP FAITH. Especially to Nicole - things happen in life that alter the direction in which we are headed, as in the case with you and your departed fiance. Evidently if he had lived you would have married that day and taken on his name. Unexplainable circumstances caused a mad shift. I can only imagine the 'emotions' that you now have to deal with; I have seen a few of the photos; I'm glad that the judge allowed you to take your fiance's name despite the ugly blow fate played on you and his children. God w

-L. J. Cordice -Brooklyn, NY

...and the peace of God which passeth ALL understanding shall keep your heart and mind through Christ Jesus...allow God to comfort and console you - open up to Him. He's right there and always will be. He is strong when you are weak. My prayers are with you - both families.

-Ms Tiauna - tampa, Fl

There are no words to describe how my heart feels for you. Know that you are blessed. Blessed with two beautiful girls whom there father lives through everyday. His life continues twice. I too am suffering a loss. My infant son died in April. Hold on to your faith and know one day you will see your husband again. Time heals all. My prayers are forever with your family.

-S. Brown - New York, NY

There are no words to describe how my heart feels for you. Know that you are blessed. Blessed with two beautiful girls whom their father lives through everyday. His life continues twice. I too am suffering a loss. My infant son died in April. Hold on to your faith and know one day you will see your husband again. Time heals all. My prayers are forever with your family.

-S. Brown - New York, NY

I am praying that you remain strong. Many of us have been through something similar. But you must grieve and forgive at your own pace.

We march and speak out against many violent acts, but it must go much further. We must show our love for our people and our communities to everyone as other races do. Divide and conquer has been the real weapon against us. We must make this a weapon of the past for African Americans. We must return to respecting our sisters and brothers. Standing up for our beliefs andour communities. I

-Leola Charles

Mrs. Nicole Bell - God would surely want you to have that name. I lost my husband, after 9-1/2 mths. when I was 28 years old (on-the-job accident). Right now, the anger INSIDE of you will help you to overcome many hurdles for you and your children. But don't let it consume you as I did. Hold on to God - I didn't and then someone gave me a copy of "Footprints". You have my deepest sympathy and understanding. May God bless you, your children and his family, because I know he will surely keep you - and you have the best part of

-HRN - Miami

I really don't know what to say but felt that I should say something. Please know that my thoughts and prays are with you and your entire family. May God bless you all and give you the strength to live the best life possible. God has a divine order and plan for all our lives and you will be able to see Sean again soon. I hope my words will bring you some comfort.

-Sherika

to nicole,

i am deeply sorry for your loss. i live in jamaica queens and was deeply touched by this tragedy. i too am a young woman preparing to get married and couldn't think "what would i do if that was me?" you have displayed such control and suchcomposure. you are a beautiful, strong young women with two beautiful daughters in which sean is very proud of. just know that sean and god will always be with you.

stay strong sista!

colleen n.

-colleen nero

I AM TRUELY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.. I AM FROM PENSACOLA,FL AND I SEE POLICE BRUTILY HERE ALL THE TIME..WE AS A PEOPLE NEEDS TO STICK TOGETHER, AND FIGHT..WE NEEDS TO EDUCATE OURSELVE IN THEIR LAWS.. USE THE OWN LAWS AGAISNT THEM.GOD BLESS, AND WE BLACK PEOPLE EVERYWHERE LOVE U AND YOUR FAMILY.. TAKE CARE.

-LYNETTE

May God, in His infinite wisdom, mercy and grace, keep, protect and strengthen you and your family.You are all in my prayers

-Mena L Carlson

You know it hurts my heart!!!! My sister actually knows the ones involved one is actually her godsons father and it hit close to home to know that as well...I pray for you all each and everyone of yall each and every day!!! I ask will we as the black community get justice... GOD I hope so!!!

-Genea Jones-Va

I was deeply saddened to hear of your fiance's horrible death at the hands of more officers, this seems to happening at an alarming rate. I just wante to send you a word of encourgement and know that God is always in control. I know it doesn't seem like it now but things will get better. Weeping endurth for a night but joy cometh in the morning. I wish you and your girls the best and I hope justice is served this time.

-Kymberly Murray-Akron, Ohio

Hello,

I know it is hard right now but in time it will be okay. You will have some good days and some very gloomy ones as well. I just lost the love of my life in Iraq and these times are quite difficult but God gives me grace to handle each day. You will go through different emotions but in the end you will be okay for your children and God will get you through the rest. My heart goes out to you because I know what you are going through.


-Victoria Madison

To Mrs. Bell, Sean's Family, and kids,

Words cant even begin to explain the pain and the heavy burden that has been in my heart for you'll since this tragic "asanation" of your loved one took place. Just know, that God is perfect in everything he does.Hemakes no mistakes. He allowed this to happen for a reason. We dont know why yet, but in due season, it shall come to past. Be strong, hold on, its only a test of you'lls faith!


-Shanetta

Nicole,

You are a strong beautiful woman. The presence of God is all around you. I can't say that I know how you feel because I honestly do not. I can offer you a scripture that helps me when I'm trying to figure something out and can't, Proverbs 3:4-5. I admire your strength, your focus, your love for your husband and your family.

Thanks Nicole,


-Jerri W. -Asoldiersluv@yahoo.com

To brother Bell's and Paultre family and loved ones:

Our prayers go out with you in times where you may need it the most. When you are weak may God keep you strong.

To Sister Nicole: May God cover you and the seeds of your husband with His love and faithfulness from this day forward. Raise them as your self to be women of character God being your helper.

-Rev. Carl&Jewel Spencer