Girls’ Night In
Overdue for some pampering? Throw a spa party

It’s about midnight on a Friday, and the party at Glorice Sanders’s house is in full swing. Wine, champagne and shrimp are spread out on a table. One sister is feeling so good she’s got her head back, her eyes closed and a silly grin on her face.

Another is lying in semidarkness in an upstairs bedroom, enjoying a strong pair of hands working over her body. The rest of the women are sitting around the kitchen table with their hair wrapped in towels and their feet in basins of warm, scented water. “Mmm,” one sighs. “This is wonderful.”

Welcome to the latest incarnation of girls’ night out: the pamper party. By day, Glorice’s friends—or the Sisterhood, as they call themselves—lead hectic lives. One works in a doctor’s office, one runs a catering company, another is a flight instructor. So to relieve stress they gather every few months at one of their homes, put on soft music, take off their shoes and let massage therapists and other professionals work their magic.

“It’s a lot more intimate than a health spa,” says Carole Cary-Hopson, the flight instructor. “And your time is not limited. It’s very stimulating to get together with other women to discuss goals and to network.”

Kristina Fitzhugh, editor of Spa Index, an online spa guide, says the Sisterhood’s pamper parties are part of a growing trend. Since starting her Web site five years ago, Fitzhugh says the number of people inquiring about spa parties has increased from a few a month to at least one a day.

“Day spas are recognizing that trend by beginning to offer mobile services,” she says. Add to this an expanding array of do-it-yourself kits sold in stores nationwide with everything from aromatherapy candles to body scrubs, and it’s clear that home spa treatments are becoming more popular.

This evening the Sisterhood has invited a reflexologist (who uses foot massage to improve overall health), a massage therapist and a pedicurist who calls herself a foot nurturer. Together they offer the women a package deal: $85 per person for all three treatments.

On average, prices at spa parties range from $125 to $150 per person. The setting can be luxurious (a hotel suite with a fleet of beauty technicians) or intimate (a few friends giving one another facials at home). The Sisterhood’s parties have included as many as 20 women, but there are many ways to scale down the cost.

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After reading the article, I called my friend and next month we will host our own home spa party. We are so excited and hope it will catch on.

Will let you know the results :o)

-cecemom2002@yahoo.com

I am diffenately feeling the Spa party thing. Too many of us African American women are caught up in taking care of our families, and not pampering ourselves. Every African American woman should have the experience of treating herself to a spa treatment at least once a year, or at least once in her lifetime. Come on sisters grab your friends and let's pamer ourselves in 2004!

-Renae Cole

I am so interested in the idea of a spa party for some girl friends of mind. Being a mom, wife ,educator, and friend, I need to relax more. Thank you so much for the idea!!

What a way to relax in the comfort of your own home.

-tlc

Kudos to Essence for covering such a much needed topic. Unfortunately most women, especially black women, put everything before nuturing themselves. Fortunately, my home-based business educates women on loving their bodies and knowing their minds whilecelebrating their spirits in a spa-like environment has a welcomed change!

-Charitta@hotmail.com

I am an owner of a small business selling Spa Homemade products. It is a way of educating sisters to the power of relaxation and romance.

-Ashlyn0@rogers.com