Why is it that people want to give Oprah so much control. Who is she to judge someone and their actions. She does not know the whole story because she was not their. Only Chris and Rhianna, Bebe and his ex-wife know what really went down. Do we really need to know???? No, I do not. Have to much to worry about in my own personal life. Everyone makes mistakes, including Ms. Orpah herself. Stop looking for others flaws and pay attention to your own, including Ms. Oprah.

I do not condone violence but I also despise when a man's reputation is ruined without the entire story being told. The truth can only be told by those involved. Even with that, both sides can put their version out with their spin on it. As I said, I don't condone it, but Chris Brown will never be the same. I hadn't heard about BeBe Winans, probably because Chris Brown made so many headlines. I know that only God can judge. We should just pray for those involved in these situations.

Dear Oprah,

Thank you for taking a stand against Bebe Winans and the fact he may have beat his wife.

I think any sane woman would think twice before filing abuse charges so I think there may be veracity to these allegations. However, Bebe is innocent 'til proven guilty.

Why do the uninlightened put the woman in the mix when she files charges of domestic violence, saying, " It takes two to tango!" "She must have hit him first." PLEASE! I'll bet Debra Winans didn't.

i was in a violence reltionship when i was 35 years old and you blame your self for the other person treat you so bad but life is about a choice and we cant keep make exuse for grown people for one should take there place for the wrong and pain that we dish out on the ones we love life is hard and we dont need to be livin with hurt and pain inour home because we have a lot going on in the world now we dont love each other and we cant talk to each other and make peace we are always anger with each other and it not going to work like that in a family it is said a family that pray together stay together it should said a family that stay together should pray together lets all talk about what hurts us and brother us be bless take one day at a time god bless have a merry christmas

Aren't you innocent until proven guilty. By canceling his appearance Oprah is taking a side, ruining his reputation. I do not condone domestic violence, but I don't like anyone being condemned before they are convicted.

N situations like this one w/BeBe and his ex.I'm living d same thing today.I finally got enough guts 2 talk 2 sum1 about my ex now cursing,hitting,controlling me when he saw fit,n front my son.I was scared 2 talk 2 anyone,I thought no one would believe me.And sum don't because they say he don't seem 2 b dat way w/them.I tell them walk n my shoes.I wear d bruises and emotional scars.I was by his side.He used me.that's not love if u do those things 2 me.But,I fault myself because I allowed him,because I stayed I was attached and couldn't unattach myself when I needed 2.I was good 2 dat man,but I had 2 understand dat he didn't love hisself,so how could he love me.

N situations like this one w/BeBe and his ex.I'm living d same thing today.I finally got enough guts 2 talk 2 sum1 about my ex now cursing,hitting,controlling me when he saw fit,n front my son.I was scared 2 talk 2 anyone,I thought no one would believe me.And sum don't because they say he don't seem 2 b dat way w/them.I tell them walk n my shoes.I wear d bruises and emotional scars.I was by his side.He used me.that's not love if u do those things 2 me.But,I fault myself because I allowed him,because I stayed I was attached and couldn't unattach myself when I needed 2.I was good 2 dat man,but I had 2 understand dat he didn't love hisself,so how could he love me.

I wonder if Bebe is found guilty will Oprah have him on her show then?

I totally agree with ms chocolate!!!

I still dont see how Oprah's friendship with BeBe hurt his ex wife!

Oprah would not be considered as a true friend. A true friend would not take sides but attempt to help the both of them through a time like this. Oprah needs a life, she has become above reality.

Oprah is only human.

I am not the least bit surprised. Not everyone like Oprah

There are a lot of men and women who think they can push buttons. I'm not talking about those who have being abuse for no reason, and the man is using them for punching bags. But to try and make a person's life a living hell, because of jealousy, or I'm going to get you back for whatever reason. That person is just as sick, as the abuser. BeBe wife is looking to get paid, more than what she settle with. Same thing with Usher's wife. I'm telling you check those red flag! It's more to a relationship, than just I love you. Now days you don't know what kind of messy-mess you'll get.

No one needs a beat down. You women have to know if you slap a person a gut reaction is to hit back. I know mine is no matter if you are male or female, but to continue to fight until the person is beatdown is outrageous and no one should come out of a situation with even a black eye. NO one. You women who are trying to "take responsibility" for what, a beat down is stupid, rediculous and exploition of domestic voilence. I didnt like whippings from my parents as a child and I definitely dont believe in beatdowns as an adult. You women better recognize. It may be part of our slavery but it doesnt exist in my life and I left my marriage early on to ensure it wouldnt happen again. I deserved better and I made sure I left the first time it happened.