It's nice to see new men, real men for this new century like Obama. He's showing young men that you don't have to go directly into sports or rap in order to be successful. He's telling young men to be real men, get married, be responsible, get an education, be an engineer. Thank goodness we have real role models other than rappers. Finally.

I guess polygomy lives on. Just like with Lil Wayne. They're showing everyone that you don't need to marry a black women. You don't need to respect her or her kids. You can have several. Take your pick. Have the kids. Pay them and keep on rolling.

I bet J-Lo is happy she is no longer associated with this ghetto thug. He looks triffling and always trying to act sophisticated. He is straight hood.

Oh yes, you are right. We shouldn't hate, we should celebrate his enormous success at wrecking his children's lives with his wreckless behavior. Having sex with every flusy in sight, and bringing children into the world he will later abandon and not bring up in his home ... but yeah, he does throw a great party!!

Lots of judgement on this thread! Take a look in the mirror all who judge. Diddy, personal life aside since I really don't know him, is a phenomenal businessman and motivater. I guess that's why they say, let your haters be your motivaters. His accomplishments speak for themselves. Let's stop tearing one another down!

It was an awesome party...Diddy knows how to do things. Happy birthday again to you Diddy, my fellow Nov. 4th scorpio mate!

Jealous brokea$$ people on this blog!! Enjoy your B'Day Diddy! To reach 40 is a blessing :)

Janice Combs is a HOT MESS! She looks like an older version of Lil Kim. Janice should take some of her son's money and get the "twins" lifted because they have gone so far South, they're practically in the Land Down Under !

He is totally gross. I hold him partially responsibly for the degradation of women which has become the norm in our culture over the past 10 years. His record label says it all "Bad boys". We were gyrating to him not knowing the havoc he was about to wreck. I can't wait for him to get out of the scene.

Wasn't there pictures of him and Kim at a hotel like one month ago!!! Now Cassie is the main chick at the birthday party. He makes me sick.

he looks stank, dark, and crusty.

Wow! Lots of hate on this topic. He does need to grow up & respect women, but the women he chooses, choose to be disrespected.....
If the women wouldn't take it, he couldn't give it.
I hope he starts to behave his age & realize he's not 20 something anymore & needs to set not only a better example for his boys, but also for his daughters who will choose a man like their father & then he'll have the nerve to get pissed about how they're treated. It all comes back.
On a side note, his mother is waaay to grown with a rich son who showers her with money for her to look like that. She can afford the most expensive good looking weave there is & clothing and goes around looking like she put herself together in her kitchen.
Mama Combs, PLEASE bring the neckline up & change the hair to look sophisticated. Trying to look too young actually makes you look older.

Why didn't he wish me a happy birthday?

This is SAD.

Why is he newsworthy? Why glamorize him? They ask for it, but he has zero respect for women.

His home life is a disgusting example to young black boys. He makes me physically sick.