Sound-Off: Mr. Perfect Doesn't Exist, But Mr. Right Does

If you are a single woman in search of a partner, you may feel like the entire world has made your "plight" their business. (I prefer "status." "Plight" makes being single sound like a famine of some sort.) If you are a Black single woman, well, we won't go all the way there today, but I'm sure you know the unique ways in which your situation has been treated by writers, members of the media and laypersons — both ill and good-intentioned. It's enough to turn a sane woman mad and to make one feel like wanting to be in love is either some sort of unrealistic goal or some immature desire...
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