A couple of years ago, I had a sister-friend come to me distressed, because as she saw it, her husband had been taking her for granted. She told me the story and basis for her distress, and she was right, he was taking her for granted... Here's what you had to say: Patsy commented via Facebook: "Never forget how you got him. Make him your BFF and love him as much today as you did yesterday." April wrote via Facebook: "It's hard to keep the spices when your mate doesn't want to hug, kiss or do anything."