Years ago I had a New Year's Eve conversation with a man who, after asking me my marital status, advised that men only come in two distinct types: "As" who are dependable, sensitive, humble and self-aware (like Aidan from SATC) or "Bs" -- the arrogant, blow your back out, workaholic, leader option (like Mr. Big). "Women want both in the same man, an AB hybrid," he said. "That's a ball on confusion and contradictions. If you want to be happy, you're going to have to chose which one you want." I thought back to this conversation as I was listening to Kanye's West latest album, "My Dark Twisted Fantasy..."