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Frisky Friday: In Support of the Missionary Position

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As we become more and more inundated with sexual messages through the Web, the missionary position has been regarded as unexciting, child's play or vanilla sex. Have you ever turned down a scoop of vanilla ice cream? That's what we thought. Just because it's the beginner position doesn't mean it's boring. Here's why we're so supportive of letting him get on top every once in a while, and how you can remix your missionary position for an extraordinary experience. Let's get it on... What's so great about the missionary position? If you want to feel closer than close to your partner, there's no better way to go than missionary. You and your man can create an airtight seal with your bodies. Plus, you have the advantage of staring deeply into your lover's eyes and being able to French kiss, lick and bite mid-coitus. Start here, go anywhere Think of the missionary position as your basic sugar cookie dough. Cookies, even plain ones, are mighty tasty, but add some chocolate chips, peanuts, toffee or M&Ms and you've got a party in your mouth. That's what the missionary position is -- your basic platform for awesome sex. While the basics of the position are the same every time -- you're on your back and he's on top -- there are add-ons and variations that can take your vanilla sex down a sweet and sticky rocky road. A few alterations to keep in mind: Pillow talk Slide a pillow or two under your hips as you start to get into the groove. The extra elevation will align your V with the slope of his penis, so there'll be smooth stroking all night long. Sister scissor legs Both you and your guy keep your legs open enough that one of his thighs is between yours and one of your thighs is between his. When he works his way deeper into you, you'll feel a little extra pressure on your outer labia and clitoris for some added excitement. You're a star Often called the starfish, this variation of the missionary position can be a little difficult to coordinate, but it's definitely not impossible. Instead if wrapping your legs around him, keep them closed and have him spread 'em, sliding into you with his inner thighs pressed against your outer thighs. This results in a super tight feeling that both of you can enjoy. Take it to the edge Slide your butt all the way to the edge of the bed. Come on ... a little further. We know it sounds like a trip to the gyno, but this is way better, we promise. With your hips stationed that the very edge of your bed, your guy can either kneel or stand in front of you to enter. Then just lay back and watch as he goes deep. Two legs up During sex shift from wrapping your legs around his waist to placing your ankles on his neck one leg at a time. This is the highway to the O-zone position. With a clear shot at your g-spot and better clitoral stimulation. Enjoy.
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