Not long ago, after I made full-disclosure of my sexuality, I heard some disturbing things in the Black community about Black gay men and Black women. One was that every gay man wanted to be women. The other was that all gay men did not like women, especially those in the Black community. I learned there is no truth to the rumors. First, not every gay man wants to be a woman. That is not a desire of ours. Now, don't get me wrong, there are transgenders and transsexuals, those who feel as if their minds do not match their bodies... Here's what you had to say: Fatimah commented via Facebook: "I love, love love my gay bff! I wouldn't trade him for the world!" Teresa wrote via Facebook: "My bff is a gay Black man and I love him to death!"