When I wrote "Men Don't Heal, We Ho: A Book About The Emotional Instability of Men," my purpose was to save relationships and initiate change, growth and development in both men and women. In New York, a woman said to me: "After reading your book, I figured out that I would be a better woman if I had a better man. I can be better but he don't deserve better." My response was, "You can't let a man lower your quality of woman. I have no choice but to reject your explanation and label it as an excuse. You are to be the absolute best woman that you can be at all times or leave..."