Does every woman want the same tall, dark and devastatingly handsome man? Nelly seems to think so. The rapper told radio host Loni Swain that so many of us are single because we want "the perfect guy." Read what else he had to say... Here's what you had to say: Dolores commented via Facebook: "I'm just looking for someone who is honest, hardworking, respectful and will love me for who I am." Latrese wrote via Facebook: "When Nelly walks a day in the shoes of a Black woman he can give me some relationship advice."