In 2010 it may be necessary on occasion for a woman to be a little bit more aggressive and ask a man out on a date. I am not suggesting that a woman should pursue a man. I still believe that the man should court the woman. Okay? We good? Women, all you have to do is let the man know that you are interested and available. That's all I am saying. If you can make sure the man knows that you are interested and available, without offering to take him out for a slice of cake, then more power to you... Here's what you had to say: Keonte' commented via Facebook: "Traditions are meant to be broken." Lotoyus wrote via Facebook: "With age and experience comes a greater sense of confidence. I'll ask in a heart beat and keep it moving."